Singles & Dating - 5 November 2007

how do you know if a guy is bringing a girl around you to try to get rid of you, or make you want him more?
what if he tries to make eye contact with you when he's with her?
some people answered before that its to make me jealous, if so, whats the point? to get rid of me? i dont understand that. ive never done anything like that so im confused

2007-11-05 01:09:48 · 6 answers · asked by HerR 2

I'm 24 and I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half.
We are great together, he's so funny and we talk about everything and anything. He makes me feel so safe and I love him.

However, I sometimes don't want to sleep with him. He's not 'always on the want' or anything, but I feel like I'm 'not doing my duty' as a girlfriend. so I put pressure on myself. Most of the time, I'd rather just lie in his arms.

Is there something wrong with our relationship? Or something wrong with my attitude towards sex? Does anyone else every feel this way?

Thanks.

2007-11-05 00:22:26 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous

progress, it hasn't been much. He's only takn me on a date 4 x (most of which I had to ask), walks ahead of me, & usually doesn't hold my hand. He refuses to hold hands during prayer @ church, and won't even let me kiss him. When he's w/ his buddies, nearly ignores me instead of putting his arm around me or something. Once or 2x, I went to sit next to him, & instead of welcoming me, he said, "There's another chair right there!" He never says, "hey, I'd like to see you tonight. What time are you free?" Just "Are we hangin' out today?" or "Were you wanting to hang out, or no? The guys want to get together, is that ok?" He always asks my permission instead of making a decision indicating, "I love you & I'd like to see YOU." He is a very sweet, loving, sensitive guy with no clue. He's also 24, @ home, has a degree, but isn't really seeking a job. His MOM pays his bills (w his $) We really love each other, I know he cares, but no matter WHAT I say, he just doesn't get it, & I feel slighted

2007-11-05 00:00:25 · 10 answers · asked by ellenoid 3