Singles & Dating - 5 November 2007

Tell me what you think. There is a girl that is 18 years old. She has an athlete figure with big boobs, not huge but just large. She is a very nice person and gets along with everyone. When people talk to her they tend to tell her their problems because she is a great listener. She is an athlete who has played over 3 different sports but is not buff or anything. She has a pretty face, and dresses very nicely. She gets along with everyone she comes in contact with. She also has a lot of leadershiproles such as lieutenant of the junior fire department and is involved in various activites and has commitments they are written on a calendar with a full schedule which includes 3 part time jobs and was accepted to college is definitely moving forward in life. She is very confident on the outside and stops at nothing for what she belives in. My question is why have no boys or men tried to approach her to ask her out or even ask her for her number?Guys look at her, but why don't they say anythg

2007-11-05 08:21:21 · 19 answers · asked by JessyE19 3

I am 20 and in a relationship with a guy 5 years older than me. I live with my parents right now and my dad is being very controlling. He never talke to my boyfreind and doesn't even know him. He forbids me to see him and when I do attempt to see him my dad drives by spying on me and seeing what I am doing. I have to constantly lie to my dad and tell him I do not see him and when he does catch me he turns all my siblings and mom against me. I also recently found out that when I call my boyfriend he records the conversations and listens to what we talk about. I am very much in love with the guy I am with and at the same time my dad tells me I need to choose between him and my family. He is making my life very difficult because I don't want to dissappoint my dad either. What can be done so that I can not lose my family and be with my boyfriend? No talking to him doesn't work either, I have tried that and it just irritates him more. I appreciate any and all advice. Thank you

2007-11-05 08:20:47 · 17 answers · asked by Ann K 1

Im in college. Ive been seeing this girl for a month. Weve been on many dates and have made out three times and kiss and hold hands all the time. I told her I liked her and asked her how she felt about being my gf and she said in two more weeks that will be enough time for her to get to know me. She said she gets scared at the start of things but she does want something out of it. She said we moved really fast. The two weeks that she asked for has passed by yesterday and she never said anything. What should I do???

2007-11-05 08:20:17 · 16 answers · asked by Paul G 1

Okay. i just got a new boyfriend and i dont no if he truley loves me.?! So i want to know some questions i can ask him so i no he truely loves me.
For Example one off the top of my head::: If i told you i stuck my toothbrush down my throute and thre up everyday just to be skinny would you still love me? (THIS IS NOT TRUEE!!!!)
Something like that....but now like that that if you get what i mean


Well i would really love it if some people could tell me what some good questions are to ask him to see if he truly love me.!!!
THANKSS <333

2007-11-05 08:19:47 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay I quit smoking. For someone else...well...for my health too but them wanting me to gave me the extra push to do it. This is something I've always wondered anyway...how long will I taste like an ashtray if someone kisses me? See I'm kind of worried that the taste might linger or be detectable by a non smoker even if I haven't smoked in over 24 hours and brushed, chewed gum, etc by the time I see him...and I really don't want him to think I am just lying about quitting...and I'm kinda crazy about him lol I'm just worried that he would be so turned off if I taste like an ashtray that it would stop any kind of relationship to develop. I know if I didn't smoke and I kissed a smoker...I'd probably just be totally turned off regardless of looks and look at it as a bad experience I wouldn't want to have again, but thats me...so that is why I really want to be sure...if I'm still going to taste like a smoker after over a day of no smoking, then I'm going to put off meeting up with him...

2007-11-05 08:15:48 · 5 answers · asked by bean 2

Guys do you think girls are prettier with makeup or without?

2007-11-05 08:13:44 · 18 answers · asked by XoXMsSXoX 1

I'm a senior in high school. I have gym last block of the day. Today I was late getting back into the locker room to change b/c I was talking with my coach. When I got back in to change I heard a noise behind the wall in the locker room. When I go to leave I pass by a classmate of mine and a freshman! They are having sex in a shower stall with the curtain wide open. I'm pretty sure they didn't see me so I just rushed out of the locker room. The boy is in my grade so I'm pretty sure he's 18. The girl is a freshman! So if I told what I saw he could get into some serious trouble. Should I keep my mouth shut?

2007-11-05 08:10:25 · 9 answers · asked by Brandi 1

My friend keeps going on about how she feels pathetic still being a virgin at 18.I've been reassuring her that she has nothing to worry about and that the time will come but she won't listen!Recently shes been talking about just doing it with some randomer to get it over with!I think she'd be making a huge mistake!!
I'm 19 and only recently lost mine to the guy I love and it was perfect.This is how I know the importance of waiting for the right guy!
I'm so afraid she'll do something stupid that shes going to regret!I don't know what to say or do!
How can I convince her to hold on?
I used to feel like she does now until I met my bf and he showed me what real love is!He was so gentle and the first time with him was really special!
If she does lose it to some guy she picks up she'll be robbing herself of a special first time!!
I don't want that for her!


I just want her to see that if she waits until she meets a really great guy that loves her it'll be perfect for her!

2007-11-05 08:07:23 · 36 answers · asked by Pixie-Flames 2

Last year my strings teacher at school told the class that he was horny and it kind of freaked me out a little because thats not something a teacher usually tells a bunch of 7th graders (mostly girls) class. He said it kind of quietly though so I'm not sure how many other people heard it. I have him again this year and he hasn't said anything else since that one time. He does however tend to come pretty close to me when I ask him a question and helps me play my violin which involves coming from behind me and putting his hands and mine while I play....which is a little too close for comfort for me. He does this to a couple people but I feel like he is doing it more to me than anyone else. Hes like in his 50s by the way. Should I be scared or am I overreacting??What should I do?

2007-11-05 08:06:13 · 20 answers · asked by ... 4

dont think i have to explain

2007-11-05 08:06:12 · 50 answers · asked by Northville07 3

I have known him before i met my best friend then they met and now she doesnt like him if i talk to her or ask her for advice about him she just starts talking negative about him!

2007-11-05 08:01:18 · 6 answers · asked by simple me ;) 1

i was driving around with a friend last night while she was on the phone with someone else. the person on the phone was a guy who was hanging out with two girls (one of whom i like).

anyways, my friend told me that she said hi through him to me. all i said back was "great", which, was sorta stupid.

anyways, i initially thought this was probably good. but, could it be bad, maybe she was making fun of me? i mean, she knows i like her. perhaps she thinks its funny i dont say anything to her, and was saying "hi" as a joke to get my hopes up? the guy who was on the phone likes her also, and he randomally told one of my other friends a few weeks ago that she "didnt want to go on a date, but wouldnt say no, because shes not that type of person.."

i see her quickly glancing at me in school, but idk. maybe she just wants to make sure im not looking at her?

oh, me and the girl with me are seniors, the others are all sophmores

2007-11-05 08:00:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I wanted to know your opinions and how you view virginity. Many people see it as never doing any sexual acts, others as never participating in intercourse, others as your hymen has not been broke.

Personally, it does not matter to me whether I am considered a vigin to people or not... but... I am a lesbian, have never had sex with a boy, but done everything with a girl you can with just about every toy.

Your opinions?

2007-11-05 07:57:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

In my entire life, no girl has ever been interested in me. Is that weird?

2007-11-05 07:52:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is in my group of friends and I am trying to get to know him better and be more comfortable around him so I won't be so shy.

Sometimes when I hang out with him I have good conversations and we feel like good friends. I will smile and wave when I see him and he will smile and wave back.
Other times, when we are with our whole group of friends, he seems to ignore me and I don't talk to him very much because of this. This in turn makes me feel shy around him because I think he may not like me. But then if I see him the next day I start talking to him and we have a good conversation and it makes me happy. Then the next day we may not talk at all.

So basically I'm going back and forth between he likes me, he doesn't like me, and I feel stupid that we talk to each other sometimes but not other times.

Some friends (these friends don't know him personally) tell me he likes me but he just doesn't know that I like him. What should I do?

2007-11-05 07:50:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My b/f broke up with me today but he never would hear me out. What should I do leave it alone or pursue him? I really do love him.

2007-11-05 07:43:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a college level math class, "For School Teachers." Semester's over around Dec. 10th, give or take.

Anyway, class doesn't have much content. Quiz every two weeks, and final at the end. There is HW, but it's not graded.

We've had five quizzes so far, and you get to DROP your lowest score.

I've done well on two, poor on two, and one iffy. But I can / will drop one of the "poor" ones.

My scores (out of 100): 41, 37, 88, 73, 63 = 302 / 500 = 60.25% (D-).

DROP one.

My scores (out of 100): 88, 73, 63, 41 = 265 / 400 = 66% (D+).

That 41 f'ed me up. Anyway, so with a 66% on quizzes and one or two more to go, plus the final....and last day to drop is Nov 16/17... how am I doing?

Would you finish it out?

2007-11-05 07:38:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is the history....i`ve met this girl a loto of time ago, we go to the same church and my father is the pastor....my mother told me that she noticed that this girl was in love of me or seemed to be a little bit interested.... ok.she is 14 old and i`m sixteen old...she already knows that i like her because she read it written in one of my notebooks it was a coded message and she decoded it. so.. since that happened i haven´t tell her anything more about it because i dont know what...i mean.. i dont beg her to be my girlfriend because i think we´re too young and we should wait some more time...then what should i tell her we should have??...which kind of a relationship...-friends just friend- or -a relationship to get to know each other better-. i just dont want to hurt her...and i dont want to lose her .... :-(
hope you guys give me a good answer to my question... 10 for the best one !!!!

2007-11-05 07:30:26 · 5 answers · asked by theBest 1

Well ginded this boy like I went in front of him and turned around and I could feel him getting hard...What does it feel like for a boy to get a grind like that??And I also saw this boy that a girl grinded and he got and erection and he feel down like he almost fainted in a funny way lol ...What does it feel like for boys?

2007-11-05 07:28:37 · 24 answers · asked by Annie is okay but not us :( 3

are u gonna tell him that he smell or u dont cuz ur afraid that he might get hurt?

2007-11-05 07:27:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in love the with man I am with, we have a beautiful baby boy together, and we are very happy. He isnt the romantic type. Then there is another man that I have known for 5 years, but only on the phone and the internet. He is sweet, and romantic, says all the right things. Now I dont want to be with this other person but its almost like the other man is competeing with the one I am with. All I really want is the sweet romantic things. How do I get my boyfriend that I am with to do nice sweet things to me. Thats what I need in our relationship, thats all I need to feel better with him, but I dont want him to think I am changing him.

2007-11-05 07:25:14 · 12 answers · asked by instilleddistress 3

I was just wonderin us guys tend to lol :D

2007-11-05 07:21:14 · 19 answers · asked by Horus Heresy 3

So lets say my best friends'- friend of 8 years tried to hook up with my boyfriend when we were in a fight and date him?
She knew better and was aware that we were still "together" but just at a rocky point.
She still has the audacity to come into my work, or contact my roomate and say that she "didn't know."
When she actually did know.
I haven't said anything to her or tried to hurt her back.
I feel like I'm a sucker for that reason.
Am I?

2007-11-05 07:20:59 · 49 answers · asked by KAS 1

Well this guy that I like,couple of days ago I told him how I felt and that he is not what i am looking for..and that maybe we shuld be friends. . he told me he was ready for a relationship..and now he told me that he is having fun right now..and he does not want a girlfriend. He is a pretty cool guy, and he makes me laugh. I still wana be his friend, because I am not mad becuase he wants to have fun thats his life. I like his personality.

2007-11-05 07:17:24 · 26 answers · asked by blondie 3

I told my girlfriend that i love her with all my heart and that i would never leave her and she loves me so much but things just got old and i want to back out of all this and go to a new chick how do i break up with her without hurting her ????

2007-11-05 07:12:29 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

i believe if you didnt throw it around so easily you would have alot less heartbreaks.

2007-11-05 07:09:10 · 4 answers · asked by Jon G 7

he's too handsome.

2007-11-05 07:04:33 · 27 answers · asked by Chrise G 3

Or getting married when he has no intention of proposing to the woman he loves either he’s been living with her or been going out with her for many years now???

2007-11-05 07:04:25 · 2 answers · asked by mitchchan 5

I am 22 years old and about to graduate from college in less than 2 years. I haven't began looking for a job yet, nor do I really know when to begin. I still enjoy buying sneakers and trendy clothes. Am I too old for this? Should I be wearing business suits now and high heels?

2007-11-05 07:04:02 · 4 answers · asked by ms ambitious 4

My boyfriend (23y/o) and I (26 y/o) have been together for about 2 1/2 years, and we've lived together for over a year. For the last week and a half or so he hasn't really had sexual desire for me. We used to love having sex and were intimate often, and I know he was happy with me as a lover.

He says he loves me very much, but he is nervous about our level of commitment and is starting to panic about being with the same woman forever. He feels like he may regret not being able to "sow his wild oats". Being older I had a chance to be more sexually adventurous, and being a female I just think differently about sex, so I'm just so hurt and baffled. He says he loves me and doesn't want to give up on the relationship, so he's going to try to work past these feelings.

I am wondering, do guys get over feelings like this? Do all men feel this way? Is it even worth it for him to try and fight these feelings? How do other women deal when their men pull **** like this?

2007-11-05 07:01:10 · 6 answers · asked by natasha the sleuth 3