Im in college. Ive been seeing this girl for a month. Weve been on many dates and have made out three times and kiss and hold hands all the time. I told her I liked her and asked her how she felt about being my gf and she said in two more weeks that will be enough time for her to get to know me. She said she gets scared at the start of things but she does want something out of it. She said we moved really fast. The two weeks that she asked for has passed by yesterday and she never said anything. What should I do???
2007-11-05 08:20:17 · 16 answers · asked by Paul G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do something slightly romantic--say, ask her to a movie, to dinner, or for a walk--and while you're hanging out (and somewhere quiet, maybe in a park), casually ask if she knows you well enough now that the two weeks have passed. Tell her that you still would like to get more serious. If she says she needs more time, back off gracefully.
Most girls love romance, but not cheesiness. Be sweet, and don't give the impression that you're being nice to get in her pants. Let her know that you like her because of who she is, not what she looks like.
2007-11-05 08:27:33 · answer #1 · answered by Liberty, Equality, Fraternity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't panic. She may not be watching the calender like you are. The best thing to do here, since she's already said she's scared, is to give her time. If things are going well, let them roll for for another month. By then she should know. If she stops seeing you, she probably doesn't want to be your gilrfriend. If she continues to see you, she likes you. Don't push it. REMAIN CALM. :)
2007-11-05 16:28:49 · answer #2 · answered by suz665 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, asking her might seem odd to her, because I feel she has been dropping signs along the way. I under stand that I am much younger than you, and unless normal friends might make out all the time, I think she is your girlfriend, and unless there is some inside info that might change this all, I think she want's to be with you. I tink this is an unsaid relationship.
2007-11-05 16:26:13 · answer #3 · answered by Cheshire-grins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get pushy, She made the statement that your relationship moved pretty fast, so give her time to get to know you. A month isn't a very long time to get to know anyone. I think if you give her the time, she will say yes, but if you push, she will retreat.
2007-11-05 16:28:25 · answer #4 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just enjoy each other's company and don't bring up the idea again for a while. Just wait and see how things go and let it take its natural course. Relax.
2007-11-05 16:25:48 · answer #5 · answered by martinmagini 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her again. The worst she can say is no. And then you will know why if she says anything. But, also, if you really like her, be patient. Maybe she has been hurt before.
2007-11-05 16:24:45 · answer #6 · answered by pinkpixie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her again...if she says anything tell her that her two weeks is up! if she needs more time, and you really like her...then i would give it to her if i were you. It'll show her that you really care, and that might make up her mind quicker.
2007-11-05 16:27:20 · answer #7 · answered by Katers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better to ask and find out, then to continue and waste your time expecting something that isn't going to occur.
2007-11-05 16:26:13 · answer #8 · answered by John E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her about it. Maybe she is to scared to tell you anything. Let her know that you like her .
2007-11-05 16:24:31 · answer #9 · answered by LALA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what to do when girls get scared and someone is subpost to answer the trouble she/he would go through.
2007-11-05 16:29:45 · answer #10 · answered by HollyBerry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋