i believe if you didnt throw it around so easily you would have alot less heartbreaks.
2007-11-05 07:09:10 · 4 answers · asked by Jon G 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That for sure a lot of people would be alive today and not heartbroken like i believe in a man and his words were like sweet chocolate that melted in your mouth but it wasn't sweet it was bitter in the end and it was like a car ran over me it took me days to recover so i was fool once but not again people should use i love you if they really mean it and not to play with people feelings and lives
2007-11-05 07:33:14 · answer #1 · answered by legalizelies 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because most have never truly been in love. The words, true love are much like the term soul mate, it is a once in a life time occurance. For the needs of, attension seekers, bragging rights, ego's, proof of equal experience, ones self magnatism, to be one up on the next guy and the lack of something better to say. True love and soul mate has been cheapened to a monthly or yearly experience. Believe it or not there are 12-16yr olds who have found true love and, or their soul mates. One has to wonder why the divorce rate is so high, or why 2nd and 3rd marriages are not working out any more, it's as if no one ever learns anything, what ever happened to wisdom? I think to most, "love" has become just another 4 letter word.
2007-11-05 15:47:29 · answer #2 · answered by ferochira 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How ? I wish I knew . I know a little bit though . One reason is because the people that say it don't have a very clear perception of what it means . It's also used as manipulation . I was told I was loved, come to find out ,so were lots and lots of women in this persons circle . I think it's used to get into peoples pants .Though thankfully ,knowing what i know now about this person that said he loved me, I'm glad I wasn't a statistic . He and I live far apart , if he needed sex that's one thing, but he developed other " relationships" , which didn't speak of love to me . It spoke of looking for someone else .
so, I will keep in touch with this question. I'd like to know what other people say. Good question.
2007-11-06 19:22:20 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a great fantasy. Something that gets us going in the A.M. My thoughts are that with so many choices in today's environment it is almost impossible to have one mate forever.
I love deeply but when I am spurned I take it personally and for my self preservation I have to start looking elsewhere for approval.
I hope this helps solve a very exciting subject.
2007-11-06 14:16:18 · answer #4 · answered by Arthur B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋