Well this guy that I like,couple of days ago I told him how I felt and that he is not what i am looking for..and that maybe we shuld be friends. . he told me he was ready for a relationship..and now he told me that he is having fun right now..and he does not want a girlfriend. He is a pretty cool guy, and he makes me laugh. I still wana be his friend, because I am not mad becuase he wants to have fun thats his life. I like his personality.
2007-11-05 07:17:24 · 26 answers · asked by blondie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, because he will only end up thinking he can drag you along on a string and be that 'friends with benefits' he was looking for. Move on. Sounds like a player to me.
2007-11-05 07:20:07 · answer #1 · answered by bonstermonster20 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay his friend. One of my best friends right now is a guy and he's been my friend for the past 6 years. We've liked each other on and off and we even tried dating once and we're just better friends because of it. So I would definitely say to stay his friend. If you two do start dating at some point in time though, be careful with how physical you get because some bonds are really hard to stay away from if you break up but stay friends.
2007-11-05 07:22:22 · answer #2 · answered by psych freak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a big mistake. its all or nothing. you are only looking at this from a point of what is in it for you? Do you know how this makes a guy feel, not good. if you tell a guy your not what I'm looking for then why bother being friends? if he is not good enough why lead him on? It is selfish to say I will let you be my friend and I like the attention but im in control of where this gos. How can you be friends and not grow in to the relationship. focus on being friends with a person that you have real feeling for and something that has the potential to grow in to a real relationship.
2007-11-05 07:30:57 · answer #3 · answered by Super Star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would keep him as a friend,you never know what ever may happen inlife and a good freind is a good thing to have in times of need or you just wanna blow off steam you know.Well I hope the best for the two of you,and for your friendship to prosper into the best it can be.
2007-11-05 07:25:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this an issue? He's not going to marry you and you're not going to marry him. That doesn't mean you can't be friends.
I guess I'm frustrated a bit by your question because I don't always have some underlying cause when I make conversation. I have attractive female friends who will never be lovers.
2007-11-05 07:23:36 · answer #5 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that you juust like his personality and that you dont want anything more than friends. If you start showing or telling him that you want more, then he will ask for more. At the end of the day he is a guy. Which guy says no?
2007-11-05 07:21:57 · answer #6 · answered by sUGaLipz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can he be ready for a relationship but not have a gf?Yeah keep in touch with him while being friends and just go from there
2007-11-05 07:20:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this guy said that because he was shot down by you. If you like him as a friend, then why not keep in touch?
As long as he knows the friendship boundary and doesn't violate that or take advantage.
2007-11-05 07:20:51 · answer #8 · answered by moon&stars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah and this way you can go out and date and if there is a lag you can always call the cool guy.
Truly If you were having sex with Mr. Cool you should forget the friendship. because temptation is too much. You don't really want to continue to have sex with someone who enjoys having sex with who ever. I mean if you have sex with mr. cool you may as well have sex with all of his new partners too.
Do you get it???? Much luck
2007-11-05 07:24:12 · answer #9 · answered by Linda S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, I understand your feeling and i understand his lifestyle, that is teenager's life. You know sometimes close friends should been developed relationship for me thats good if it will happen to you, because you know him will. And i'm happy for you there's a people who make you happy, someone make you smile when sometimes you feel sad. And don't foget to take care of yourself ok...Don't forget to pray God will listen to you.
2007-11-05 11:20:14 · answer #10 · answered by pretty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋