Tell me what you think. There is a girl that is 18 years old. She has an athlete figure with big boobs, not huge but just large. She is a very nice person and gets along with everyone. When people talk to her they tend to tell her their problems because she is a great listener. She is an athlete who has played over 3 different sports but is not buff or anything. She has a pretty face, and dresses very nicely. She gets along with everyone she comes in contact with. She also has a lot of leadershiproles such as lieutenant of the junior fire department and is involved in various activites and has commitments they are written on a calendar with a full schedule which includes 3 part time jobs and was accepted to college is definitely moving forward in life. She is very confident on the outside and stops at nothing for what she belives in. My question is why have no boys or men tried to approach her to ask her out or even ask her for her number?Guys look at her, but why don't they say anythg
2007-11-05 08:21:21 · 19 answers · asked by JessyE19 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The girl is me, but i am so approachable and i can make time if i really needed to, to be with someone. There is no incredible flaw that is keeping me back either. A lot of guys see me as a friend and the ones that think like me, have never told me that with words but with random actions. What do you think I should do. I don't want to be the one that takes the first step. I just want a "man" to take over and take charge for once in my life because all the rest of the time i am in charge. I need to know that i can relax around someone else and let my guard completely down. What do you think I should do?
2007-11-05 13:39:01 · update #1
Whats your number? lol Sound good looking and like you have a great personality. There may be a fatal flaw that your overlooking or your just so ridiculously hot that guys just say "ah shes out of my league and just move on". Maybe you should try initiating instead of sitting back and waiting.
2007-11-05 08:27:24 · answer #1 · answered by ChicagoMan 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are talking about the Wonder Woman syndrome. Actually, I made up the name, but the syndrome is common for guys to concede that some rich handsome student in high school or college has her number and there are few seniors who even have a chance. The situation is compounded because she is surrounded by guys but 3/4 of them are younger than her and definitely feel out of her league. Once she goes to college, she will be swarmed with guys who are still developing social skills but who at least have the guts to ask out these women who seem to have it all.
Also, this person has been talking with lots of people but may not have realized which ones are interested in her and trying to bring up conversation in hopes of getting up the nerve to ask her out. If you, I mean this special 18 year old, was interested in any of these guys talking to her, she should be the one to break the impasse and ask out the guy.
2007-11-05 16:41:17 · answer #2 · answered by Frank 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be so many answers to this. For one, she sounds like she is doing great in life and that may scare some guys. Guys like to be the one that impresses all of their peers. In this case, this girl is on top of the world. Maybe there is some issue that guys repel from, without knowing the girl, I can't say if this is the case or not but it is a possibility.
2007-11-05 16:27:04 · answer #3 · answered by Swine 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she's 18 she has been dealing with the high school crowd which typically does not respect independent people that have a sense of self. As time moves on she will find her won way.
2007-11-05 16:30:58 · answer #4 · answered by keezy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Might be intimidated or feel they would be rejected or think she has someone.Could be a number of things but she should say hello or try talking to guys letting them know she is interested and have them call her secretary because its going to be tough to even go out on a date with that schedule.
2007-11-05 16:28:32 · answer #5 · answered by Chiboy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're always on the go and always doing something it might be intimidating for them to approach you, make you stop what you're doing to ask for your number... they might think it to be a hassle to try to fit in your busy life.
2007-11-05 16:29:56 · answer #6 · answered by sakrificetheory 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys are often intimidated by strong independent women.. If a woman can do it all by herself, they don't feel NEEDED, it's intimidating to some.
(i'm guessing you're decribing yourself... your breast size shouldn't matter..)
Best of wishes and keep going in the direction you are already going, it sounds like you have a bright future.
2007-11-05 16:29:42 · answer #7 · answered by .sincerious. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It doesn't sound like she has any time for guy. We need attention too. So why ask a girl (who sounds GREAT!) out if she appears to be too busy...
2007-11-05 16:26:36 · answer #8 · answered by Movinonup 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They dont have the confidence enough to ask her and her say no. Some may value her friendship and dont want to ruin that relationship.
2007-11-05 16:26:45 · answer #9 · answered by Stephen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because most guys are p*ssys, and dont have the balls to go up to someone and say hi and start a conversation. If she was hot, I would go up to her!!
2007-11-05 16:29:13 · answer #10 · answered by Raz9Caz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋