Why can't I make any good friendships or relationships with real people and not only by internet? No, in case you are wondering, I am not ugly...!
2007-11-05 04:37:32 · 14 answers · asked by Emily Allan Poe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The point is that really few people, who trully know me like me! And I am not stuck to the internet so much. I am hardly trying to get a proper social life but I can't! Maybe I give wrong first impression! What can I say?...
2007-11-05 05:09:40 · update #1
i used to have this problem. i figured out that its because i was so afraid of being hurt i wouldnt open up in person, but online i could tell them anything, its just the rejection aspect
2007-11-05 04:43:19 · answer #1 · answered by freddy 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
There's is nothing, absolutely NOTHING wrong with you. Believe it! It's just that to get friendships with folks you really like can take a long long time to develop. It may happen fast, but most of the time it takes forever to develop really good friendships and relationships.
There are a lot of factors involved. Too numerous to mention now. But I'll just say that kindness, courtesy and smiling can go a long long way in helping you to achieve most any goal involving people. Pray about it and see what the Bible requires about friendships.
I Cr 13;8a
2007-11-05 18:17:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well making friends come natural, but now a days you can't trust everyone you meet. So keep being the way you are, when ever you find someone to be your friend it will be a life long friendship. As for relationships there is a special person for you out there. So don't beat your self up, enjoy life, give thanks to the man above and all will be okay.
2007-11-05 23:55:58 · answer #3 · answered by Chef Michael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are you putting up the act? Here or in real life? Some can sense a game player from a mile away. It could be the way you come across to people, too controlling, too desperate, too aloof. Any old boyfriends you can still talk to that might be honest enough to critique you?
2007-11-05 12:47:16 · answer #4 · answered by Ben Dover 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You've got to put yourself out there. If the only friendships you are making is online, you are probably spending too much time online. Find some things that interest you and get involved in them. You will make friends.
2007-11-05 12:41:59 · answer #5 · answered by Shubunkin 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you just answered your own question,Internet...Get off the internet and get a social life...
2007-11-05 12:50:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on your approach to people or even the way you carry yourself. The type of people you attract depends on you. If your persona is outgoing/sexy, your going to find yourself with a lot of guys that want one thing...
If your a male, you will find yourself with females wanting one thing...money...then the sex...remember..money supercedes the biggest D*$&! lol! dont forget it
2007-11-05 12:42:27 · answer #7 · answered by Datdude 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because your more honest on the computer... so you should be open in real life... people wont throw them self at you ... you have to..
2007-11-05 12:42:37 · answer #8 · answered by Boss 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well really its like this. its wat you seek and look for. that and the type of person you are. like, I'm not saying you are. but sometimes if a person comes on too strong. or are bossy, controling or wat not it can really make people walk away. So check your self. and see if there's a reason why people don't stick.
2007-11-05 12:42:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
C'mon! I'll be ur on-line friend!(lol)xx
2007-11-05 15:05:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋