GIRLS : lets say you had a crush on this really cute guy. but you have lost interest in him because after a few weeks, he hasnt made his move yet (even after you gave him some signs and showed some interest). my question is, if this guy finally decided to make his move and ask you out, would you still be interested ?!? or is it TOO LITTLE, TOO LATE ?!?
i am asking this because i think i missed out on an opportunity at a girl, and i think she lost interest in me, so i need to know if its too late or not !!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-05 15:24:53 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well why didn't you tell her sooner. if it were me i would probably move on im not going to wait for someone for so long plus you start looking for faults after a while to forget about the guy and you start disliking the person little by little maybe that happen to her so she decided to move on with her life.
2007-11-05 15:30:37 · answer #1 · answered by crrazy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she lost interest in you that soon well I just don't think it would have lasted. If you had a chance to tell her how you felt and you didn't guess you lost out...Never know though if you tell her that you feel the way you do things may change....she may be acting like she isn't interested because she is worried about being embarrased
Good luck
2007-11-05 15:28:49 · answer #2 · answered by web_angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be flattered. I mean so what if it took you a while, I'd be nervous as hell if I had to ask out a guy that I really like. I think she'd love the fact you want to be more than friends with her. She won't care it took you that long, and if she did, she's not that great of a person anyway if she bases relationships on how long it took for you to make a move.
2007-11-05 15:29:41 · answer #3 · answered by I'm A Big Girl Now 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I truly lost interest, then no, I wouldn't go out with him, but if I was still interested, I would. You'll never know if it's too late with the girl unless you try.
2007-11-05 15:28:11 · answer #4 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on...its never too late until she engaged or married...Of course she's going to be upset that you didnt get back to her, but I am a pretty shy person when it comes to girls, and I still to this day didnt make the first move. If she is really that interested then trust me, she would not have let you ignore her... odds are if she didnt try and contact you, she is still waiting.
2007-11-05 15:28:45 · answer #5 · answered by Kmart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If It were me(I'm a girl) I would let a guy have a chance but you have to show her that you care and you want her, write her a deep long note. And then the next time you see her don't even say hi to her just walk up and kiss her, then she will definately like you alot.
2007-11-05 15:31:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask her out and see what her answer is? If she says 'no' then just move on. Obviously you were not ready so don't beat yourself about the decision you made at that time. There will be other gals in the future for you.
2007-11-05 15:28:38 · answer #7 · answered by Izzy h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would totally still be interested! (And pretty amazed that someone would actually ask me out. And no I'm not like fat and ugly: www.myspace.com/izzi_103...check out the main pic.) I'm 15 though and I don't know if the guy I like is allowed to date or anything so I'm not expecting to be asked out anytime soon. I've liked tons of guys who acted like they liked me but never asked me out. I'm always still interested.
2007-11-05 15:32:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK HER OUT!!!! This is exactly what happened before my bf and I started dating! He missed ALL the signs...I just though he wasn't interested. He FINALLY asked me out and am soooo happy he did!!! If she doen'st go back to being interested in you, she never really was to begin with.
2007-11-05 15:31:39 · answer #9 · answered by medgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on how interested I am in the guy and whether or not a better offer has come along in the meantime.
2007-11-05 15:28:20 · answer #10 · answered by Sword Lily 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋