he asked me out, and i, like always i said no. now i have been asked out by 3 guys, and turned them down! i dont know why i do this. i really like him. he is my neighbor, i am a junior in high school, and he is a freshman in college, he asked me to go out with him, and i asked if he was serious, or if he was joking. but i really like him, and now its two days later, but i really want to be with him. what can i do?
2007-11-05 15:04:27 · 10 answers · asked by sunny 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, what I would do is to make light of the situation and turn on the charm, i.e.:
Remember when you asked me out and being the silly girl I was, I sad no? Well, I see that obviously I was being crazy and there is no way I could pass up on this opportunity. Now, I'm asking you, can we go out sometime?
And look damn cute while doing it!
**Hope that helps**
2007-11-05 15:57:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you tell him you like him it just looks like you are playing games. you better come up with a really good excuse for why you changed your mind so quickly. maybe you could say you had a bad reaction to some medication and it affected your mental clarity. lol. or you could say "I wasnt sure if you were being serious so I didnt know what to say, but if are serious then I would like to go get lunch/coffee/watch a movie (whatever) "
Better talk to him sooner than later.
2007-11-05 15:17:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u had a chance 4 him 2 be the bigger person,bt now its ur turn! since u ddint take the chance that he gave u then u shuld appoarch him saying"yea about that thing u asked me, is it 2 late 2 say yes" mayb that will work.
2007-11-05 15:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by â?¥Ms.ToP nOtCh ChIcKâ?¥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go up to him and say you want to go out with him, and tell him that you wouldn't thinking when you turned him down, He'll say yes i'm telling you.
2007-11-05 15:10:36 · answer #4 · answered by cooldudejh12 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u like him y did u say no but if I was u I would say do u have anything planed on whatever and hope he says no.Ten ask him out it's not that hard
2007-11-05 15:15:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its easy. just tell him next time you see him that you were wrong when you said no to him. tell him that you do want to go out and ask him to give you a chance. its that simple.
2007-11-05 15:29:13 · answer #6 · answered by tommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
number one, yes, why did you say NO? but, number two, the more important thing, just go back to him and say "sorry, i was kinda sleepy,but, yes, i would love to go out with you."
2007-11-05 15:11:30 · answer #7 · answered by hiwutzuppplziliketoeatpier0flmao 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him ask if the offer is still open and if it is say yes ---- i suspect the offer will still be open --- have fun
2007-11-05 15:11:15 · answer #8 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u changed your mind and see if he'll get bakk wit u
2007-11-05 15:09:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
why did you say no...like really...WHY ?!?!?!?
2007-11-05 15:07:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋