Singles & Dating - 29 October 2007

sometimes i stumble on words, or i get plain speechless, and i am afraid of bothering her and afraid i just dont know what to do, I am also really close to her ex (I think its her ex) and I really dont know what to do most of the time, I really do like her, and I really do value friendship so i just want some advice or opinions

thanks in advance

2007-10-29 19:15:32 · 7 answers · asked by SCHWAA 2

i have a friend(who i have a crush on)...15 this year...she have some problem with her appendix....i only knew it today..
She was crying saying that she's afraid about surgery...
Well....as a friend...how can i help her clear away her pain..or even try to help her?

2007-10-29 19:06:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sometimes I get the feeling that many girls feel entitled to have a guy they like even if the guy doesn't like them back.

2007-10-29 18:55:09 · 40 answers · asked by helper725 3

She also had sex with 7 buddies of mine and it was videotaped. Why the hell she don't go ask them to be with her and asks me?

2007-10-29 18:52:45 · 2 answers · asked by I Speak the Truth 5

My frist homecoming dance is coming up and I was planning to go. It never hit me by the fact I need a date... I thought I'll just go single and if I dance with a guy I meet that's fine and if I don't then that's fine too. However later on I found that all my friends are going with someone either as a date or as friends. I found that it is pointless if I go with someone as friends because it would just be the same thing as just going by myself. But then someone told me it wouldn't be fun unless you have a date... is this true? should I ask someone?

2007-10-29 18:48:27 · 2 answers · asked by Selen 1

love and relationships are most complicated in life. should i stay with a guy who u love? or should i move on with a guy who wants to merry you?

2007-10-29 18:36:43 · 20 answers · asked by susie 1

2007-10-29 18:22:23 · 9 answers · asked by josie 2

OK lets say someone has a gf or bf, both genders either one. Would a guy or girl cheat or dump their mate just because they found someone who looks better and is more rich, talented, smarter, or whatever?

I'm not a very smart guy but if I try I can do it. I'm just afraid if I ever get a gf she would dump me for not being as smart or handsome as some other guy she suddenly falls for.

Are there really shallow people like that? They dump their gf or bf just because they see someone with higher standards. Also their bf or gf are good and treat them well but they find some new person who has more. Is this possible?

Thanks for reading.

2007-10-29 18:14:37 · 16 answers · asked by Closed 5

She referred to him as her "best friend". the night we first made love I asked her about him and she just laughed. I took it to mean that he was lousy in bed. A few months later, I asked her who the "biggest" guy she had ever been with was and she said it was this guy (her ex, and quite large at that). I was horrified. She quickly noticed my reaction and now refuses to talk about their past. I have caught her instant messanging him off and on. what should I do?

2007-10-29 18:08:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my boyfriend , but i dnt know if i should telll him bc i dnt want to pressure him into saying He loves me if he doesnt mean it, and i dont want to say it and then him just be like, ummmmmm thank you, so i dont know what i should do........?

2007-10-29 17:40:08 · 15 answers · asked by Amber N 1

are men really that much into woman with big breast some say yes and some say no I have alot of guy friends and some say no i love breast some say no i love butts...lol....can someone give me an understanding other than my guy friends

2007-10-29 17:39:03 · 2 answers · asked by cali girl 3

2007-10-29 17:35:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here's the situation: I browse the personal ads on Craig's List (and I am being VERY careful, trust me) and I find a guy that sounds interesting.

We exchange e-mails and I send him my pic and I get no response from him. Does that mean he's uninterested or does that mean that I should e-mail him back? I'm very unsure of this. I sometimes think he wants me to reply afterward but I don't know. I usually assume that the guy would reply afterward.

Okay, so for the record, I am somewhat plus size but by no means ugly (I do understand that some guys like slim women).

What should I do? Should I reply to him?

2007-10-29 17:21:22 · 5 answers · asked by chrstnwrtr 7

So, everytime I talk to this girl on the phone or in person, at the end of every conversation, she keeps saying, "I love you", or "I love you, honey." What could this possibly mean? Could she be interested in me? Or is it just being nice and saying without even knowing that you said it, like saying, "Have a nice day." Thanks for your answers

2007-10-29 17:12:12 · 5 answers · asked by Bella N 1

We met last August and this morning I woke up having no feelings for this person anymore. I've totally and completely lost interest. This has been a wake up call for me. I now realize how shallow I am but it's never too late to change. I've learned my lesson. I should give others a change eventhough I feel no attraction for them the 1st time I see them.

2007-10-29 17:12:09 · 1 answers · asked by 91407 1

I had a big crush on this girl in b-school. She asked me for career advice, I helped & noticed she was flirtatious. She mentioned her BF (diff city), but asked me to dinner (perhaps as thanks for my help). At dinner, she was definitely flirty but gave mixed signals. Later, she sent me a postcard from spring break. I emailed her asking her to dinner. She never replied, ignored me for 2 wks, made up a lame excuse to back out, but didn't suggest an alternate date. I figured she's playing me, so stopped contact. 2 wks later, she asked me to dinner (I refused thinking she's a a player). That week, at a party, I was dancing with another girl and she looked visibly jealous. A month later, I gave in, said hi, we flirted. 2 days later, at a party, she asked me to dance, we rubbed up on the dance flr. She was VERY flirty but next day again she talks about BF (mixed signals). I saw online photos from a party, she looks innocent yet mischievous, pretty, can get any guy. I feel like I blew it. Help

2007-10-29 17:11:45 · 19 answers · asked by riddler 1

What should I avoid doing when she comes near me, talks to me or walks by me that will give away the fact that I like her? What things that I do give it away that I like her? If she finds out I like her, what signs should I look for that shows if she approves or disapproves?

2007-10-29 17:11:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Yeah I know there's a lot more to a relationship than a person's appearance but this one guy supposivly likes of my friends . The problem is that her self-esteem is pretty low and she think he's too hot for her. We keep trying to convince that she's not but she won't believe us.
What do you think?
&& please be honest

(him)http://i220.photobucket.com/albums/dd123/summerlover_xx/l_dabfc19949ac623c6636dbbf6a959e24.jpg

(her)http://i220.photobucket.com/albums/dd123/summerlover_xx/632345ca.jpg

2007-10-29 17:07:55 · 30 answers · asked by ♫ 3

Ok, so I'm a double major at a University where I attend as an honors student. My entire life I've slaved over my grades and tried to work hard at school so that I can have a good career to provide for my younger sibling and parents. Needless to say romance has not been a priority in my life. I am very multi talented, being a writer, ball room dancer, runner and philosopher among other things. Recently, however, I have been hit on. A lot. This has never happened before. I come from a very rural background and I am now living in a much more urban environment. Is this normal? I didn't think guys liked women who were intelligent....

2007-10-29 17:04:41 · 39 answers · asked by WisconsinChik 1

Serenity Prayer
God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change. The courage to change the things I can. And the wisdom to know the difference.

2007-10-29 16:54:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Alright. I'd like to explain a bit. First of all, I'm 18, an honors freshman in college and I have never been 'on a date' persay, before. This guy I've known for about two months now whom I consider a good friend, recently asked me out to dinner. I'd like to know what to wear. Typically, I wear jeans, tshirt, a nice top with tennis shoes maybe a hoodie. I love to get dressed up though, but I want to keep this casual. I love skirts and heels, but i'm afraid that'd be a bit much. Guys: What would you want? My style follows my smarts, I'm very intelligent and consider myself more of a classic than a trend setter. Any suggestions that will make him think wow, without seeming too out of the ordinary?

2007-10-29 16:54:04 · 9 answers · asked by WisconsinChik 1

it's "your hand in mine" by explosions in the sky. We both really like that it has no words and is purely instramental, but we both still feel so much emotion towards each other when listening to it. What do you think?

2007-10-29 16:50:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do you look for in a girl...

1. brown eyes or blue eyes
2. pale skin or tan (not fake tan) skin
3. freckles or no freckles
4. brown hair, black hair, red hair, or blonde hair
5. dyed (but still realistic-looking) or natural hair
6. tall (over 5'7) or short (under 5'3)
7. skinny or sorta chubby
8. long hair or short hair
9. shy or very talkative
10. lots of makeup and pretty, or no makeup at all and not-so-pretty

thanks :]

2007-10-29 16:47:35 · 13 answers · asked by May 2

theres this girl in my english class, her names kristine.
anyway i thought she liked me so i said "you have a crush on me dont you?" she didnt respond she looked at me kinda angry and didnt say much for the rest of the period.

the next day are group got together in class she was acting normal again. i asked "do you have something i can eat?" she said "nothing but gum, sorry."
well later that same day i was talking to my friend brandon and said " see that girl over there, she has a crush on me." he started making "ewww" sounds. i think she heard. when class was letting out i asked if i could have a piece of gum. she couldnt get away from me quick enough.

was i really that rude or was it more brandons falt?

2007-10-29 16:45:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know this guy...honestly, he's great. But good grief! He's had a personals ad up and running for 4 years now. Previously had a girlfriend he DID NOT meet on-line. Dumped her. And has been in search of ever since. He is on-line at least twice a day, searching and responding to e-mails. And I know he's met a number of girls on there. But what do you think the problem is? What is he looking for or not finding that is taking him this long? Anyone else out there who has or had an ad running that long? Don't you think that's strange??

2007-10-29 16:41:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been dating a guy for 3 weeks and we've known eachother for 6 weeks. He is EVERYTHING I could ever dream of. Is it love or is it too soon? How long does it take to fall in love?

2007-10-29 16:40:36 · 12 answers · asked by Soo Hurt 2

2007-10-29 16:40:09 · 3 answers · asked by cynthia g 1

2007-10-29 16:36:52 · 5 answers · asked by cynthia g 1

ok, so i have a boyfriend and i love him to death but now i have a problem

for the past few years i was known as the "ugly duckling"
but sence i changed alot over this past year ALOT of guys like me (im not very used to so many liking me at once)

the worst part is, most of the guys that like me ARE MY GUY FRIENDS!!! they know i have a bf but they still kinda wanna hang around me

i got littarly 9 other guys who like me,

how do i tell them i just want to stay friends (without them getting all mad at me? i dont wanna hurt their feelings)

2007-10-29 16:33:10 · 5 answers · asked by crimson_escence 2

Me and my bf of 5 years broke up about 3 weeks ago because of some big mistakes he made while at school. He cried and begged for me back for over a week asking me to have his children and marry him, when i made the decison to work it out he turned around and said he didnt deserve me and he just wants to go out be a guy and live the single life. NOW he has a GF!! wtf. and shes soooo nasty, and not even cute at all. I was soo good to him and i wanted to work it out. How can you can a guy move on so fast after 5 years, esp if he loved me as much as he said? how can i get him back, he dissappeared on me, i love him. :(

2007-10-29 16:31:14 · 16 answers · asked by brittknee08 1