I love my boyfriend , but i dnt know if i should telll him bc i dnt want to pressure him into saying He loves me if he doesnt mean it, and i dont want to say it and then him just be like, ummmmmm thank you, so i dont know what i should do........?
2007-10-29 17:40:08 · 15 answers · asked by Amber N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont ask us, we dont know.
2007-10-29 17:43:53 · answer #1 · answered by Water 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's the deal. I'm not sure if this is young puppy love or if your in your 20's, 30's, or 40's so I'm going to answer as if non of that matters. Love is love bottom line. The filling is in the air for you, every song reminds you of him. Nothing makes sense but everything is just clicking. What I'm saying is if you love him you'll know. Regardless of what his reply is you should let him know. But also make it easy for him. Don't make it out to be a HUGE ordeal. Just say something like: we've been dating a while now and my feelings have grown deeper for you. I want you to know I'm falling for you.
With something like that he can take it full stride and maybe he won't say the exact thing back but he'll be less taken back by it if the love word isn't exactly in there.
2007-10-30 01:01:10 · answer #2 · answered by mikeywk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you no he is very honest and u say ypu love him then tell him or if u only been out for a little time just wait but if a long time then start showing how much u love him and then before ypu say good bye to him for the day say that u love him and give him a kiss
2007-10-30 00:46:27 · answer #3 · answered by Carly M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should say that word to know the result and then you will feel free even after negative answer. Always be practical and accepts the results happily. If you make your mind in this way then you will lead your entire life without troubles.
May GOD bless you and Best of Luck.
2007-10-30 00:53:42 · answer #4 · answered by mak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I love you" shouldn't be a word you throw around. You should wait. Give it time, if he feels the same, wait for the moment to "naturally" happen when both of you will feel the same way about one another. Not to be mean but if he hasn't said it, is because he might not feel the same way...just a thought.
2007-10-30 00:51:41 · answer #5 · answered by sillyme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Amber, when I read your question, I think, what happens, if Amber die today?maybe you dont have the opportunity to say what your boyfriend will enjoy to listen, sometimes we block our feellings, and this is the worst thing in life, because no matter what the others feells you have to be honest only whith yourself. bye take care.
2007-10-30 00:53:42 · answer #6 · answered by Shanida L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love has no condition. if you really love him, then, he ought to know. tell him. that's what true love is. it should not ask for a reply.
you're scared because he might be untrue. well, that's the compromise of it - the other side of the coin. remember, to love is to accept that someday he might be gone.
anyway, if he really loves you, you will know it. saying may not be his love language on the second thought.
2007-10-30 00:49:20 · answer #7 · answered by redwings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow brings back memories
umm depends how old you are, if your in middleschool/ early highschool than yah, cuz "i love you" is overley used, but if your older, it can be akward. it can freak him out. id say wait a while. also try to avoid saying it in a chat/email cuz those dont really mean much. in a good bye it can be good but make sure not to say "I LOVE YOU" try to leave out teh "i"
and say it normal speed.
2007-10-30 00:44:28 · answer #8 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold your feelings for now. Just continue along with him. You need to test out whether it's really love or something else. Give yourself and give him time.
2007-10-30 00:44:34 · answer #9 · answered by Richard B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one way that is the easiest with least pressure on guy part is while leaving like hug/ kiss hima and say luv ya! bye! or on e-mail or chat when u say bye!
2007-10-30 00:43:52 · answer #10 · answered by gabrie1_baron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say the three magic words when you think hes ready so, well your more confident when you tell him an itll sound more realistic :]
2007-10-30 00:50:14 · answer #11 · answered by Kazuya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋