Singles & Dating - 25 September 2007

Last week my boyfriend confronted me and told me that he is Bi. That was really great for him to openly tell me that. Well but he has a turn on that is kinda different. Well he like it when he watches guys have sex with me. I know I know it's weird at least for me it is. So when he said that we should try it I was willing to try once just to show that I support him and love him. Well I started having sex with this guy and I feel like I'm getting feelings for him. Well my bf and I were talking yesterday and I said I didn't want to do this stuff anymore becasue I developing feelings and he kind of brushed it off. He was all like oh you like it I know you still want to do it. I told him the only guy that I want to have sex with is him because I think sex is special and that it should only be done with someone you love. I 've been having thoughts of ending this 2 1/2 year relationship but I don't have the heart to do it. Any suggestions?

2007-09-25 03:05:38 · 21 answers · asked by shy girl 3

i been dating this guy for 2 months and have not met his son. It's been cool with us. I have kids and he met them so i am wonder why i have not met his son

2007-09-25 02:54:59 · 19 answers · asked by baby j 1

I'm a 24 year old college student that finds herself in a strange situation. I was out with a girlfriend and we ran into another friend of hers. We were having a drink and talking then her friend asked if I would like to go with her to a formal party she was going to. I thought it sounded like fun (heck a chance to dress up) and said yes. After the friend left my girlfriend told me her friend was a lesbian and I had just agreed to a date.

Wow I had never even thought about hooking up with a girl before but the more I think about it the more my heart races :)

now my friend has told all my other girlfriends that I'm going out with another girl and they are all playingly teasing me about it (and for some strange reason I'm loving it) They are calling me their little lesbian and it makes me blush.

I can't wait to do this and I'm really hoping that something sexual happens. Was I secertly bi or lesbian and didn't even realize it??

2007-09-25 02:50:23 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I prefer that women answer this question.
Please, can anyone make understand this question?

2007-09-25 02:48:44 · 16 answers · asked by Enrique 3

So, I was with my girlfriend the other night, she just came back from an 8 month seperation from me (financial issues, she had to move back home to hawaii from dc) and we recently were hanging out in my apartment. We started fooling around and before I knew it, I was ontop of her on the couch.. we just made out for a bit, then as she was about to leave my apartment, I grabbed her and slammed her into the wall and started to kiss and bite her neck. She was so overwhelmed and turned on, that we kept messing around for about another hour or so.. my question is, do many or most women just get so overpowered by a turn-on that you can't help yourself? How powerful is a turn-on for you?

2007-09-25 02:45:13 · 5 answers · asked by Jack B 4

no one knws that i like her and things in school might only comlicate if it happens..she too just considers me as a classmate..cant tell her, but then wht to do?

2007-09-25 02:36:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i need your advice guys...
hope you can help.

2007-09-25 02:33:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't want a relationship, I want a true friend. Someone who won't lie or do anything behind my back.

2007-09-25 02:30:57 · 7 answers · asked by lil nice 1

2007-09-25 02:30:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you honestly think its wrong? ive dated him before for ten months and now im dating him again. i know everything about him and hes not a predator ive talked to his sister and on the phone. i love him and he is a pretty great person. am i a bad person?

2007-09-25 02:30:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-25 02:26:15 · 9 answers · asked by clarybell c 1

I love this girl for about a year and altough I'm 16 I love her so much!I can't get my mind of her 24/7.She knows that I love her but she acts like nothing has happened.I proposed a relationship to her once but she refused.Today I saw her holding hands with another guy.Even though I can't get over her should I do that?She pretty much screwed up my life.

2007-09-25 02:25:48 · 15 answers · asked by DJ Statix 2

would you rather just be so bad that they just needed something else, or turned them gay

2007-09-25 02:22:04 · 19 answers · asked by rev. jay mccain ( . ) ( . ) 3

is it true that u can only ever love 1 person in your entire life???

2007-09-25 02:11:51 · 5 answers · asked by Halloween Child !!! 2

i can't wait to leave school and go party

2007-09-25 02:11:17 · 18 answers · asked by bluedevilsgirl07 2

do i ask him out?

should i get him to notice me?

do i flirt with him?

he asks alot to feel my boobs, should i say yes?

how do you like a girl to act towards you?

what to you like in a girl E.G brown, black, blonde hair. skinny or fat. big boobs. smile. hair etc

2007-09-25 02:07:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

does care for me as much as i do for him. I want to quit but i love him too much and it hurts like hell.. i feel bad for myself but i do love him. i ve tried n tried but we r not oon d same page. wht shud i do? frgt abt my self respcet m stay or just leave. he claims he loves me but he has his profile all over d net which i saw by chnace. there is a lot of hisorty. let me knw ur opinion.

2007-09-25 02:05:12 · 8 answers · asked by Reina L 2

I have been in a relationship for nine years with a man I thought I knew. The first three years were rough, but great. I felt like he had so much respect for me. Later, he met some new friends and started disappearing and disrespecting me. I have to nag to get help with bills and I always feel like I was playing second best to his friends and ex-wife. He never seemed happy with me, but he's always happy when he is with his friends. He recently met a new friend a year ago who he works with and took a trip to Florida. I asked to come, but he told me it was an all guy trip. I later found out that females were also in Florida hanging out with him. I also found out from his coworkers that he has been hanging out at strip bars on and off duty with this same man. I feel that I am the only one hurting. He calls sometimes for my son and tells me that we will work things out, but we are not together. He also said that he had to get his own place because I threw him out. Shold I move on?

2007-09-25 02:04:28 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

to forgive is divine so let's have a glass of wine and have make up sex till the end of time....time ....time.

2007-09-25 02:03:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I find that when I haven't washed my hair in 2 - 3 days I can totally control it, better than days when I wash it and style it.

In general my hair looks a lot better when I haven't washed it.

But what should I do if I was to go on a date and wanted my hair to look nice?

2007-09-25 02:02:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last week my boyfriend was very quiet and tick with me when i went to his house on friday he wouldnt touch me or say he loves me at all which i found very weird.Then that night he told me that if i didnt drop a dress size by the end of the month he will dump me and he cant touch me anymore cause he thinks im unattractive and dont turn him on anymore.The thing is ive been the same size since we started going out over 3 years now? should i do what he says or just let him go

2007-09-25 02:01:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

We talk 3 time a day and were flirting back and forth, then I found out he has a girlfriend and seems pretty happy with her. He doesn't seem to see anything wrong with it, but I'm a little uncomfortable. Am I overreacting? Is it wrong to keep talking to him?

2007-09-25 01:58:51 · 15 answers · asked by crazyjen 2

When I was passing in the school hallway today I saw the girl that I love with her hand around the shoulder of an another guy.Then they holded hands together,and she laughed about something.Her girlfriends were around him doing similar things.The funny part is that she knows that I love her and she rejected me before,but now she does this just when I was passing by.They weren't doing anything when I was out of her sight.When I returned in the classroom I was ready to kill somebody,I broke stuff,shouted.(we don't study in the same class).I'm pretty much ready to give up of everything in life cause knowing that she's free kept me going.But do you think she did it on purpose or they're just friends(they study together so that is a possibility)?If you want to save a life from a breakdown please answer!

2007-09-25 01:48:35 · 15 answers · asked by DJ Statix 2

i really hate why i really liked this boy. i really love him but he never notices and he really doesnt care.. since we were a child i started liking him already. i hate that i cant stop liking him..

2007-09-25 01:45:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

What if no christian girls want to be with him, and the man is just tired of being alone, and lusting women, while he sits around at home? Could he just have sex with a non christian girlfriend, who he loves? Hell! Christian women aren't doing their jobs according to the bible (I know someone is going to throw up some loose interpretation as always). But if you believe one part, you're supposed to believe it all. They are caught up trying to be something great a lot of times in the church, especially if they have looks. It's harder to get a christian girl, because every guy wants her almost, cause there aren't as many in one congregation. She has her full pick, even more so than an attractive girl that isn't a christian. It's quite irritating. It seems better for a lonely christian man to find himself a beautiful woman in the world, that wants to love him, and satisfy each other physically, than to wait for some church girl to choose him.

2007-09-25 01:38:54 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

since i laid eyes on him i really do like him a lot. it started out just like "okay he is just my crush" but when time goes by it seems like i'm loving him already even though i havent seen him for almos 4 years now. he is a son of a very close friend of my dad. for the past 4 years he was very busy attending college. but when i saw his picture on friendster my heart beat was so fast and i dont know what to do. i liked him since i could remember (prep days)..can u imagine that since i was a very young child... oh no..
i never liked anyone as much as i like him! he lives nearby and when i see his car i feel very happy or excited even though he cannot see me.. by the way he is 5- 6 yrs older than me....

2007-09-25 01:38:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bf (future husband) is from another country and i'm not. he's mormon and i'm christian. i am here in hawaii and you don't wanna know where he's at. anyways, the problem is i told him that i'm looking for a job so i could save some money so we can go renew his papers to his country when i return back home. during our phone conversation, he wanted me to come back home. i told him that i want to work here because of the good payments they have and for me to save some money to renew his papers. i'm so confuse, because i want to do both. what should i do? should i go back home to be with him or should i stay here in hawaii and save some money to renew his papers?

2007-09-25 01:38:10 · 5 answers · asked by phooah 2

be in a real world and answer pls.

2007-09-25 01:29:57 · 2 answers · asked by calibre92 1

Women always act like they don't like you, when you're a decent looking guy. And if your actually a nice guy too, then women don't understand that you may be shy, and perhaps you haven't dated every woman in town. You walk in and they ignore you sometimes; it's like you're not even there. And if you try to make a move, sometimes they are even on the defensive. The only way seems to be to overcome all the obstacles oneself (AS A MAN), but that sucks...big time! Especially if you are actually a quiet person.

2007-09-25 01:27:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am going to be a senior this year and have never had a boyfriend...ONLY crushes. I have never been kissed and only have been on one date....and that was for prom. I am kinda a shy person but I thought that I would have a bf by now. All of the guys I like are preppy and popular and I am neither of that. Did anyone else not date much in high school but later on found some one?? I want to grow up and get married but based on high school...I will probably be an old maid. And I highly doubt I will get a bf my senior year. Everyone I know has had a boyfriend....and i haven't. I am scared some people will start to think I am a lesbo even though I am NOT! I know that there are some guys that like me but I don't have the same feelings for them that they do for me......is that okay???? Someone....can you please give me advice? Thanks

Whenever I tell someone that I have never had a bf before they start making fun of me and calling me weird and it makes me feel REALLY bad about myself.

2007-09-25 01:15:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous