Singles & Dating - 25 September 2007

and then, all of a sudden your waiting like FOREVER for a response?! Do I say something? What?!

2007-09-25 19:24:53 · 3 answers · asked by Iamready! 1

2007-09-25 19:11:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-25 19:07:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

like when the date was getting close and you changed your mind?

2007-09-25 19:05:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know I shouldn't be upset, and it's his birthday and he should do whatever he wants. But, I can't help but feel a bit of a heartbreak over the fact that he'd rather go out with his friends. I wish he would have wanted to go out with me instead, but I guess he would rather not. Any words to me make me feel better about the situation?

2007-09-25 19:01:41 · 13 answers · asked by Blessed 2

Ok so me and this guy have been bf/gf for 2 weeks now but we have been like dating/haning out since july I don't mean to sound dumb or childish I just don't really know were both 16 but he is turning 17 in 3 mounths and I turned 16 in june. and I was wondering how soon is to soon to move things up a notch. I really like him and I'm not a prude so I wouldn't mind doing stuff for him but I don't want to seem sluty.what do you guys think personal excperinces may help me out more. lol
really I know I don't want to be preached to about how I'll know when or I should wait stuff because Like I said I'm no prude but I Just was wondering what you all thought was a good resonable time frame. thanks

2007-09-25 18:57:45 · 14 answers · asked by cowgirl 1

2007-09-25 18:54:19 · 21 answers · asked by ? 1

Theres this girl I've liked for a year and I've been thinking to tell her how I feel. She used to be interested in me a long time ago but I ignored her because I never knew who she was, she then went out with another guy but they broke up and but now I realized how beautiful she was but I'm so very terrified that she would reject me because I've never experienced rejection before and I know it hurts a lot. I'm her best friend but what are the odds that she would reject me? I don't see any signs of her interested in me, but she seems a bit shy though.

2007-09-25 18:53:42 · 3 answers · asked by William N 1

My boyfriend and I have been having a few problems in our relationship and we are always fighting. I still like him because he was my first and only love but how do I know that I really love him if I have never been in love before? is it ok to see another guy for a little bit to see if you really love love current boyfriend?

2007-09-25 18:50:18 · 10 answers · asked by savvy 1

i am 17 years old....i have an 18 year old boyfriend... we have been together for 7 months and a couple days....i feel like i am sooo in love with him...i believe he loves me too....my family loves him his family loves me......we are perfect together...he is the sweetest guy in the world....he just brightens up my life....we go to two seperate colleges ...lately i find my self feeling lonely.....is this normal...we plan on getting married when we graduate college....how do i show him how much i care for him...how do wwe show the world...how do we get past the next four years with out losing eachother....wer are so perfect together...but society doesnt seem to be in favor of long distance relationships...help

2007-09-25 18:49:37 · 7 answers · asked by curious george 1

so i finally got the nerve to tell this guy i liked him today (3 yr crush).

we seem to be "good friends" but i get the feeling that he is into me as well, he calls me for the silliest reasons (which I predicted he would call) we were on the phone for 2 hours yesterday and 4 hours today, i dont many guys who talk to chicks this long with out "liking" her.

when i told him he "giggled" like nervously, then he said he didnt know WHY i liked him, then followed it up with telling me he wasnt laughing at me, just thought it was funny cause i got all nervous (n he used twitterpatted).

we continued the convo, sorta, nerves where way in play with me by this point then he asks me if my new job is hiring. he wants to work at the same place as me and gives this weird reason why....

so my intuition says he does but if so 1) why is he hiding it if he knows i feel the same and 2) am i reading WAY too much into this???

guys help me on this, please!!!

2007-09-25 18:49:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

*i have been sick the past couple days and when im sick i dont like to eat because it makes me feel like im going to throw up, that why i havent had anything to eat!!!!!*

There is a guy i like in gym class. During gym we were doing sit-ups and like always we were talking to eachother. When i did my first sit-up and growls came from my stomach (i was sooooo hungry!!!). He didnt really pay attention to it but just to cover i told him how hungry i was and we both laughed. He continued he sit-ups while i sorta watched (not trying that one again!). Finally i got the guts to do another sit-up and the weird sound came back! A sharp pain came from my stomach and i lied down on my back. He just sorta watched and was confused. I closed my eyes trying to make everything go away. When i opened them my friend was hanging over me asking if i was alright. I looked over and my crush was talking to the guy next to him. Now he thinks im a freak!

2007-09-25 18:14:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

So i like this guy... i think he likes me...and a bunch of u agreed
we get along well, talk a lot, tease eachother, he came to see me at my 2nd job, etc.
But I just asked on Y!answers if guys will go beyond looks and most said no. Trust me, i'm not that good looking. My face is OK, but I'm about 30-40 pounds overweight. Yet, it SEEMS so much like he likes me. I don't think he's had a gf before, and he's not the kind of guy that would want to go all the way physically. He's really sweet and nice and mature...so is he one of the few ppl that looks past looks?

2007-09-25 18:13:21 · 8 answers · asked by ashley_p89 4

We have been dating 9 months, shes 20 and im 21. Shes in her 2nd year of college and she still lives at home. Her and her real mom hate each other so shes close to her stepmom. They talk every night and just have this really close relationship. Her mom just had a histerectomy (I prolly spelled that wrong) but shes been sooo worried to death about her and just isnt the same. Shes only 20 and still lives at home, but and im wondering if she will probably change after shes out of school and living on her own or with me. Help me with advice

2007-09-25 18:08:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

now suddenly I have men, including old friends and guys I've known for years asking me for coffee? Absolutely nothing about me has changed! but I have no idea what to do! i have never had any options before and now I'm scared of making bad desitions? very confused!

2007-09-25 18:06:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Now I have already told my ex that I want a relationship and she said she didnt. But she said she wants to hangout still just as friends. I guess up until now we have had only a sexual friendship for the past 2 months. But for the first cple of weeks we were seeing alot of each other like every other day but now for the lat month and a half only like 3 times. But by saying just hanging out and being friends does that mean still have sex? And we we would hangout she would do key signs that she likes me more than a friend like holding my hand alot like throughout an entire movie, or kiss me on the forehead or just lay on me agaisnt me when we are watching a movie basically alot of cuddling, and when I do leave her apt no matter what time in the morning sometimes real early like 6a.m. she has to walk me out and give me a goodbye kiss but then when it comes to talking on the phone i can only count like 3 times in the entire 2 months were we had a long convo on the phone like for an hour

2007-09-25 17:56:52 · 5 answers · asked by can only give advice 3

You know how like when your in a relationship and then you feel like you would die for that person and you can't live without them bla bla bla and when you break up its like the end of the world but once you look back at it and your over them you like laugh about it.

2007-09-25 17:53:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was in a bad relationship for years i loved my husband but was tired of the abuse. i was planning on leaving, when he abruptly died. even though we had our problems i still miss him and love him. i cry every day i dont know from guilt of wanting to leave him or the fact he is gone. i know now im lonely and am wondering how soon is too soon to date

2007-09-25 17:46:34 · 7 answers · asked by welder1156 1

i'm 19 and my boyfriend is 20. we've been together almost 6 years. the first time we had sex was when i was 15. i liked it then but after a few months i had missed a period and we were scared i was pregnant. since thenwe decided to wait to have sex untill i got on the pill. so now i'm on the pill but i'm scared to have sex with him? not because of getting pregnant but just feeling vulnerable. ever since we stopped i kept dreaming about the next time we had sex and how iwant it to be as perfect as it can get. romantic, passionate, intimate, not just physical. i'm scared i've built sex up to be this perfect thing and it won't go the way i wish it will? and if i get dissapointed hes going to think he was bad at it or something. and that would make me feel awful. what should i tell him. part of me wants to make sure the next time i have sex is with the guy i know who i'll be with the rest of my life. but unless he proposed or something that wouldn't be possible. what should i do?

2007-09-25 17:40:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 months. we have always been physical (hooked up every time we hung out) but didnt have sex until 3 months in. Once we started having sex, we did it whenever we could...after dates, after work, on dates...Now we are both back in school and busy so we dont see each other as often as we used to.
recently, when calls to hang out, all we do is have sex, which im fine with cuz i enjoy it. But im starting to feel like its only reason he wants to hang out because he knows hes gonna "get laid" (for lack of a better way to put it).
We still see eachother at work since we work together, he calls everyday to see how im doing, and still go on dates once in a while...
this is my first physical relationship so im not really sure what is normal or what is not...
i just want to make sure he still enjoys my company and is not just using me for sex...am i overreacting?
any advice?

2007-09-25 17:21:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-25 17:17:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I have been dating the greatest guy for over 3 and a half years! Nothing between us could have been any more perfect! Except for his fam! Ever since we started dating his sister turned against me. She would lie to her parents about me and they kinna turned against me. THey made him break up with me one time but then we got back together! NOw i am trying to get over that and they are trying to accept me but it is so hard for me. Proably because their daughter went to college this year and started talking about me to the ppl at that school too!!! Now we are at the point where they want me to be comfy with them and they dont understand why. ANd I want to cause I know if i dont then I will lose him forever!!! I need to make conversations with them.. i am 19 and they are like 50 something. ONe is just a stay at home mom who takes pics jusst for fun and the other is a orthodonist. I just dont knwo waht to talk to them about! Any suggestions? I just need to at least start making small talk

2007-09-25 17:14:02 · 6 answers · asked by Am 1

2007-09-25 17:11:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-25 17:08:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

If hes 8 inches taller than me do you think its too much?

2007-09-25 17:05:08 · 6 answers · asked by Mayonaise 6

Old Spice is a classic after shave. Do girls still like the original scent or not?

2007-09-25 17:02:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-25 17:02:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

she's too good of a person for me. I forget to call her, I say mean things sometimes which I shouldn't, and I'm just not good enough for her. I do my best trying to please her and I give her massages all the time and put her to sleep.I tell her she's beautiful and sexy. I write her poems sometimes too and she loves that. most women get turned on by saying sweet things and being a gentlemen not by getting butt naked and saying "DO ME!". I don't understand what I did to deserve someone so amazing like her. she is so nice and just perfect for me but she deserves someone better.

2007-09-25 16:56:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am basically in love with one of my best friends. She is a girl and i am a guy, so there is no reason for me not to love her, except for the simple fact that her and I will never be an us.

In my current state, i will do anything to see her. Today, i made a crazy trip to New Brunswick at the mere possibility of seeing her. Because i am in New Brunswick, i am going to have to wake up at 4 in the morning and walk with my book bag, violin, and a suitcase to a train station i don't know how to get to so i can make it to my 9 am class at Rutgers Camden.

I would go through hell just to see her. This scares me. I don't want to be in love with someone who will never love me back. Its torture.

The mere possibility of seeing her that i was talking about earlier fell through. I was so looking forward to see her, that not being able to has left me extremely sad. I am sad in emotion, i am sad in state, and i am sad in mind.

I can't live like this. I want it to stop. Please make it stop.

2007-09-25 16:55:58 · 10 answers · asked by crazcalm 2

2007-09-25 16:47:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous