Singles & Dating - 25 September 2007

Guys would u send a text message to ur girl of 3 months every single day before going to message. "Words like you are sweet and gorgeous" or "Good morning babe "and then claim you like her a lot? Or does this translate into deeper meaning. Girls can also answer!

2007-09-25 07:54:49 · 13 answers · asked by julia1975 4

Brag about it to friends or just keep it quiet? And i already told one of my best guy friends...should i have?

2007-09-25 07:53:17 · 29 answers · asked by Beach Babe 08 2

he had i have been together over 2 years now and we have done it without a condom a couple times but it was only for a minute or two. he never got anything inside me.

I am on birth control and have been the whole 2 years we have been together. i am on the nuva ring. i was on the patch for awhile but i changed to the ring about a year and a half ago.

I really want to have sex without a condom. he isnt too ok with the idea and i know thats the smart thing but i was wondering, if i have been on bc for this long will i get pregnant? i know how baby making goes so dont talk to me like i am stupid. please.

this is a serious question.

my boyfriend wants to get his sperm counted to see how likely it is for him to get me pregnant. he doesnt want a baby right now. i dont think our age is important but we are both older then 18 he is older then 20.

please give me any information you can on the topic, i really apperciate it.

thanks

2007-09-25 07:51:13 · 22 answers · asked by litlmizbeautiful 2

She knows you like her - but she doesn't feel the same way because of many reasons (currently involved, not her type, etc). But she remains close to you - knowing the fact you like her. Will she use the fact that you like her to take advantage of you? Otherwise, why would she do what she does?

On the other hand, that "amigos" bullsh*t? Like she really wants to or thinks you guys can be friends knowing the fact you like her?

2007-09-25 07:48:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been trying to contact this woman that I met at a party and her phone has been going straight to voicemail for about 10 days. SHE DOESN'T KNOW MY NUMBER. I know that she is from a different state, but what could be the problem?

2007-09-25 07:47:26 · 12 answers · asked by dagyaldeh 1

I'm not the type to give up when people say its over, but this love and I don't know whats going on, see I love this girl we've been friends for a very long time and I always keep my feelings strong and inside, but now I don't know what to do, I can't love her and once I return to home theres nothing I can do, she'll be there

2007-09-25 07:25:04 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this guy I know who lives 1 state away. Last fall, he started emailing me a lot and was like "Oh, I love you, Cutie," and wanted to get together and all that...then he stopped talking to me in January ('07). I hadn't heard from him in 9 months. NINE MONTHS! But guess what? He's emailing me now, and he's starting all that up again! He's 3 years older than me! I'm only 15!! I have a crush on a guy from my school who is MY age, and this 18yr/o guy is trying to start "back up" our relationship after 9 months! I'm not into him anymore. I've tried to nicely send him hints since he's really sensitive, but he's just not getting it!! I don't want him anymore! He hurt me 9 months ago! How can expect me to take him back?!? HE'S OLDER THAN ME BY 3 YEARS!!! Help!!!!

2007-09-25 07:12:57 · 27 answers · asked by ♥SorrowLasts♥ 1

Why not wear a costume that's, ohhh I don't know... SCARY or CREATIVE instead of simply trying to get attention? Seriously, don't you have any self-respect than to wear something that's almost nothing... What is the point?

Please, for the sake of the children that look up to grown-ups
Set a good example and don't lower yourself as a person.

2007-09-25 06:25:05 · 35 answers · asked by Mr. Cool 4

I have to choose either to break up with my boyfriend or go and live in his parents house. The thing being that his parents dont like me all that much. The reason is that at the moment him and I live in differant countries and well thats it either I go there or its over. To be honest I dont want either. Please help me

2007-09-25 06:02:38 · 12 answers · asked by bubu 1

So I saw my ex last night, I hadnt seen him in moths. Here's a little background he cheated on me and I found out in a very harsh way. We then broke up and he decided to go out with her. Now all of the sudden he calls me to tell me he has some of my stuff and for me to come pick it up. It just so happens that they're not together anymore. When I saw him I realized that I still have feelings for him, but at the same time it brought up old feeling of what he did. I sent him a txt saying it was nice to see him again, but he hasnt responded. That makes feel even worse, what should I do? Should I tell him that I still have feelings for him? I dont understand why he called about things almost 4 months later!!!!

2007-09-25 06:01:29 · 25 answers · asked by x8Jaded8x 1

i just had a conversation with a friend who told me that lately, when she goes on a date, the guy expects her to pay for herself. i think this is BEYOND rude. not because the guy should always pay, because he shouldn't, but because whoever does the asking should be expected to pick up the tab, right? i mean, you ask a girl to a restaurant, you pick a place within your means and be prepared to pay the bill entirely..and if the girl asks you out, she should pay..but isn't it wrong to ask a person on a date and then when the check comes, ask them for half the money? in my opinion, that is just classess. i know people are gonna say things like i must be a gold digger or something but please read carefully...if you ask me out, you pay. if i ask you out, i pay. right? but you never suprise someone like that. i've been on dates where all i had was my phone and an emergency $20. i wouldn't even have half the money in that situation...but on the other hand, i've done the asking & paying, too.

2007-09-25 05:50:42 · 17 answers · asked by phlygirl 3

Seriously, if a guy meets a girl and gets to know her a little bit and starts to fall for her and even is with her one night, can he run shy of a relationship? I mean, not call her, avoid her? Does he really need a strong message of interest from the girl before he would get on further? What should a girl do to indicate that she is also falling from him without scaring him off?

2007-09-25 05:38:58 · 1 answers · asked by profe 1

That women aren't hormonal driven or aren't that interested in sex except for emotional reasons? and i hate it when a guy looks at other girls or cheats they use the excuse "well i'm a guy". Women have sexual urges too! We like looking at other men too! We just don't make it so obvious like men do. Why do people assume women are just emotional creatures? I'm in a serious relationship, but geez...c'mon now! I think it's a crock! Any women feel like they enjoy sex and like looking at decent looking men w/o feeling SOOOOO emotional?

2007-09-25 05:27:41 · 25 answers · asked by ~)~) 3

2007-09-25 05:20:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, so my bf and i live together. we put all our money together. long story short. i had left my purse in the livingroom and had all the money. when i check i was missing money i then asked if he new where it went and he lied and said no i know he took it. i just wonder why he didn't ask for it i would never say no. I am wondering if i should just dump him. i love him.but i feel that i may not be able to trust him. this is the second time it happens. help

2007-09-25 05:19:20 · 13 answers · asked by bla32pen 2

I attend a university where the majority population is Asian and White in Northern California. I'm attracted to both groups as well as others. However, after 4+ years of living here, I've found it rather difficult to date almost anyone here near the Sacramento area. I'm very open-minded. Sometimes I approach a guy I'm interested in and vice-versa. I don't expect the guy to pay on the first date, not because I don't think he's capable, but I know that money doesn't grow on trees. I try to be fair about those things. We all have bills to pay. I'm a very social person, I go out to concerts, to dance clubs, and as a student, I socialize with my classmates and still don't have much luck. In fact it's even worse when the environment is school-related; students here seem very reserved in their dating preferences, which usually exclude women like me. However, I encounter more opportunities in the Bay Area than I do near Sacramento. As an American-born Nigerian woman, what would y'all suggest?

2007-09-25 05:05:58 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Without making it obvious,i work with him!i dnt want to make a fool of myself coz rejection elsewhere is o.k but not at work!so pls advise.thanx.

2007-09-25 05:05:45 · 12 answers · asked by SARAH 2

You see He gets angry real easy and needs a way to vent his anger or stress or whatever it is. He dosen't hurt me he just breaks things. His family dosen't really pay attention to him so he gets all emotional attention and love from me. Its like his family dosen't care about him. It makes me sad. Any way I need some tips on how I can help him.

2007-09-25 04:44:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

but not the usual things like doing it in public places. Just new things to try at home thanks.

2007-09-25 04:42:17 · 39 answers · asked by sensual 3

2007-09-25 04:40:11 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've asked it a while ago, but there was only one answer, so here goes:

Just a matter of interest, I'm fine the way I am (single). I'm 24 and never had a lass, but good.

I'm easygoing, and I mean really easygoing, you know, not going out, everything 's fine with me, I'm relaxed or lying in my couch if I don't work or surf the net, I watch tv, dvd's, read books or comics. You can say, I think, I am a slacker. Is that good or bad in a relationship, being easygoing ?

2007-09-25 04:37:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I was thinking this question over and yeah.
We've been dating for three weeks. You'tre probably thinking " well, youre not sure you like him, why date him?" I would answer that if I could. Everytime I'm round him, I'm happy and all but yesterday I wans't so sure about us. We only see each other on the weekends but go otu and stuff, and talk through the week. It's hard, ya' know? I know he REALLY likes me but I'm not so sure about him the way he feels about me and I can;t tell him because everyone says I'll break his heart and I know that's what I'll do.
So any help?

2007-09-25 04:19:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

When i see white people , they seem to have male friends and female friends, they are surrounded by women since kids cause they are so outgoing and they have all these cultural things that make i t easier to meet people: Stay overs, slumber parties(whatever that is.. i guess that's for girls but still it serves as an example), prom and all that. Hispanics don't have any of that(even hispanics in america), so if we meet women, they are most probably family or you'd have to be a super outgoing lad in order to have some kind of woman friend.

Is it just more natural and easier for white guys to have women in their life?

2007-09-25 04:01:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok forgive me if this is stupid to ask...but this guy that I had a casual relationship w/for over a year, has gotten back in touch w/me & I believe he wants to get more serious w/me now as he is calling every other day & we're planning a trip. Anyway, I have a webpage & he just got one recently, but he doesn't know that I know he has one. He just uses it I think to look at mine, but mine is set to private. But he's never asked me if I had one and I've never asked him, so it's kinda me being sneaky knowing that he looks at mine. He only has 1 friend because he doesn't use it like it's meant to be used. Anyway, long story short, yesterday I had the title on mine about this guy inviting me to vip because he recognized me from a plane ride awhile back. All it said was "this guy taps me on the shoulder & says "you're that girl that was on that plane" I was like whoa! friggin' small world!" that was all it read. BUT I noticed he looked at it, so would that make him jealous? =(

2007-09-25 03:57:48 · 16 answers · asked by V i P b A b Y 1

An bad relationship where the girl only used him for his money what should i do step up or step back

2007-09-25 03:57:03 · 9 answers · asked by rochelle2426 1

I really, really like this guy I've become good friends with. We hang out all the time and have like three hour conversations every other night. He's been giving me kind of mixed signals but overall it seems like he may like me as more than a friend. However, he just broke up with his girlfriend like two months ago so I've been waiting to make any kind of move until I know that he's ready for another relationship.

Well, tonight we took like a two and a half hour walk around the neighborhood and it was really great. At the end, he walked me to the door and I just kind of waited for something to happen but he didn't do anything. So when he started to leave I just blurted out, "Who are you going to homecoming with?" He was like, "I have no idea." Then it just came out before I could stop it and I was like, "Maybe we could go together."

Well he just shrugged and smiled and was like "It's possible."

Yeah, that's it. "It's possible." I just laughed and told him to think (cont.)

2007-09-25 03:49:17 · 15 answers · asked by spongegirl787 1

What do u guys like about girls ?
The reason i want to know is because i like this guy that is way 2 good 4 me, and his freinds had told me that he likes me but it's 2 good 2 be true!

2007-09-25 03:46:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-25 03:42:07 · 36 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3

right ive liked this girl since school but i didnt say anything then , we started chatting on the internet n i told her how i felt about her n she told me after a while that she liked me when i found this out i was soo happy but like the moron i am i didnt do anything about it because im a very shy person ,
we stopped talking for a while because som1 told me she had a boyfriend which i later found out wasnt true ,
we started talking a couple of months ago n i told her that i still liked her she sed she liked me but now she saying lets just be friends i still love her and always have what shud i do

we both act shy around eachother i think she likes me but because i didnt do anything last time when we liked eachother i think she is scared that i will not do anything about it again

i think she is seeing someone over the internet who shes never met and i am scared that she will go meet him and he uses a private bebo account with no pictures and he lives miles away :( i love her

2007-09-25 03:32:32 · 1 answers · asked by scott 1

I really would like to know what "love is blind" means????

2007-09-25 03:06:52 · 6 answers · asked by banks 1