So I was thinking this question over and yeah.
We've been dating for three weeks. You'tre probably thinking " well, youre not sure you like him, why date him?" I would answer that if I could. Everytime I'm round him, I'm happy and all but yesterday I wans't so sure about us. We only see each other on the weekends but go otu and stuff, and talk through the week. It's hard, ya' know? I know he REALLY likes me but I'm not so sure about him the way he feels about me and I can;t tell him because everyone says I'll break his heart and I know that's what I'll do.
So any help?
2007-09-25 04:19:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are probably going to date a LOT of people that you end up not feeling anything for. Enjoy him while you want to date him and end it when you don't. If he really likes you, then I'm sure he will be hurt, but staying in the relationship when you don't want to be is unfair to both of you.
Good luck - you sound like a very caring person.
2007-09-25 04:26:48 · answer #1 · answered by nite_angelica 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, three weeks doesn't make him your boyfriend.
Second, if you don't KNOW if you like him, then you need to tell him that you don't want to go out with him; that you want to be friends.
Anything else means that you're just another female using a guy she doesn't really like to make HER feel good.
You say you "can't" tell him because you'll break his heart.....gosh. What happens when you DO break up with him someday and have to tell him you were just using him the whole time?
Don't be a child. You KNOW that while it might hurt him for a while now, it's more FAIR to HIM to do it now. Not breaking up with him now only helps you and that makes you selfish.
2007-09-25 11:25:13 · answer #2 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard when you're dating someone who likes you more than you like them. You probably think of him more of as a friend so you don't wanna hurt him, but staying with him when you don't have the right feelings about him will just hurt more in the long run. Tell him how you feel & hope that he thanks you for being honest.
2007-09-25 11:25:41 · answer #3 · answered by JeenaBlahBlahBlah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time.....
Give it time......
Iv'e been dating a girl for 3 months, we see most weekends but not all of them or during the week because i work un-sociable hours.
It's beginning to be a problem, but i feel that each of us are beginning to gain a strong bond and have gained alot of trust and respect for each other!
2007-09-25 11:25:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pose this question: Would you rather be unhappy and stay with him? You have to please yourself first! You are right, his heart may be broken, etc...but he WILL get over it!! Don't be unhappy and stay in a relationship if you are having doubts. I am not so sure I would talk to him about it, either..he may flip out or start smothering you...I hope this helped!! Good luck!
2007-09-25 11:23:47 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Rachel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well does he look annoying to u i mean if u want to see him like every day or talk to him then that means yes u do like him but if u found out that you dont then judt dump him boo hoo he will get over it y would u want to make ur self feel unconfatable what r u planning to do maRRY HIM AND HAVE LIKE 10 KIDS WITH HIM JUST CAZ "U DONT WANNE BREAK HIS LITTLE HEART ?"
2007-09-25 11:25:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After three weeks, you won't break his heart. Enjoy the moment and see where it goes.
2007-09-25 11:22:51 · answer #7 · answered by merrybodner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep on pretending, you are going to hurt him even more. Honesty is always the best policy. There's nothing wrong with having doubts but you shouldn't pretend to love him when you don't.
2007-09-25 11:22:22 · answer #8 · answered by megalomaniac 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think if i were you i would rather break his heart now then break it even more by staying with him and waiting longer. the longer you wait the more hes going to fall for you and the harder its going to be to break up with him. and who cares what everyone else says.. do what makes you happy.. and if your not happy with him then you shouldnt be with him. good luck girly!
2007-09-25 11:24:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
GIVE ME A BREAK
Break his heart??? After 3 weeks, get real!!! He must be a basket case if he would let his heart get broken that easily. Get rid of him.
2007-09-25 11:23:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋