You see He gets angry real easy and needs a way to vent his anger or stress or whatever it is. He dosen't hurt me he just breaks things. His family dosen't really pay attention to him so he gets all emotional attention and love from me. Its like his family dosen't care about him. It makes me sad. Any way I need some tips on how I can help him.
2007-09-25 04:44:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had that problem too!!!!!!
The only way you can help him is
to mention the things he likes more!
Never mention the things that makes
him mad or crazy. For example;
you gotta put more effort, show
him you love him very much
and find his spot of happyness.
Don't talk to him about psychiatrist
or psychology because people
like him and me we get crazy and
mad. So, please cheer him alot
and try to nice conversations with him.
Good luck!!
2007-09-25 04:49:50 · answer #1 · answered by Enrique 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he needs to go to neurologist and have therapy. I would like to know how you fond out about ADHD and Bi-polar disorder though. It is quite difficult for people to have both.
ADHD is a lack of dropamine in the brain and this affects concentration in kids up to age 14 more or less, that is when the brain starts to produce it and people usually overcome the problem. It is recommende he be treated though through prescribed medicine such as ritalin or concerta. This will give him more tome of concentration even though it will not help with behaviour problems. That is why he needs a therapy.
Bi-polar disorders are totally different and are treated by psychologysts. normally through Haldol, Sydolil and strong inhibitor drugs.
Whatever it is I believe you should be patient and try to help him. He does not do things out of mean intentions of hurting and if he is treated he can grow up to be a perfectly functional person.
G.L.
2007-09-25 04:50:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably needs to get some form of therapy into his routine and possibly get help for anger management. No one should be breaking things just because they are mad. The best thing you can do for him is be there for him in all the ways that you can. With a family that doesnt seem to care it must be nice for him to have someone like you around.
2007-09-25 04:48:25 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is natural to want to help him.... But you can't. You can never change other people...only yourself. He has to want to change. He has to recognize that he has problems and be willing to deal with them in appropriate ways. Breaking things is not the appropriate way. He need to be on meds for his bi-polar. Nothing else works for that. He should be watching his diet for ADHD. He should stay away from sugars, red dyes in food, caffine, and all other stimulants. Anger management classes could also help. He needs to learn to deal with is feelings in a healthy way.
My son is also ADHD and is now in his 30's. It was tough for him growing up. Today, he has his own business. (Most ADHD kids can't work for other people)
If he does not get the help he needs, he will start beating on you too. I also suggest you both discover faith in God in a contemorary church. This can also help him deal with the anger and rejection he has felt all of his life. God welcomes him with open arms and will give him a reason to live....and provide a new 'family' support system these kids need so desperately.
2007-09-25 04:55:25 · answer #4 · answered by rejoiceinthelord 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-05 08:16:35 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the best way to address this is with counseling and possibly medication. Also maybe you guys could get a punching bag or a bike or something that when he gets upset he can take out the aggression, rather than breaking things and then feelinf foolish. good luck
2007-09-25 04:49:24 · answer #6 · answered by PuRpLe HaZe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to speak to his doctor because he's got a plate-load of issues to deal with, and being bipolar is a heck of a topper.
Good luck with the relationship...I've known bipolar people, and ADD people and neither are easy to get along with when their disorders are kicking in...someone with both, would be QUITE challenging.
2007-09-25 04:47:50 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm maybe have him see a counselor for his anger issues, and try doing yoga- it will help him focus his energy. Just be there for him and go out together, but if his anger ever actually scares you- it is time to leave.
2007-09-25 04:48:22 · answer #8 · answered by Sansa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seeing a psychologist would be beneficial.
2007-09-25 04:48:29 · answer #9 · answered by LNLT2130 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you happy in this situation tell him to grow up and get some couseling or help or you will leave and mean it noone deserves this people always have excuses for their rotten behavior
2007-09-25 04:48:10 · answer #10 · answered by ken j 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋