do you honestly think its wrong? ive dated him before for ten months and now im dating him again. i know everything about him and hes not a predator ive talked to his sister and on the phone. i love him and he is a pretty great person. am i a bad person?
2007-09-25 02:30:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have never met him no but people can get hurt when feelings are involved i feel like a cyber whore to say it nicely =/
2007-09-25 02:34:36 · update #1
as long as you are fine with it and 100 percent sure, then don't let anyone ever tell you otherwise
xx
2007-09-25 02:33:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Cyber relationship isn't the frightening element human beings seen it to be interior the ninety's. I date human beings on line all the time. The income is that, in case you meet somebody in public, first, one in all you may desire to get the braveness to start the communication. That acceptable there is the toughest area. And the final public of the time, they're not likely your type besides. on the cyber web, i will weed via ninety% of the "not my type" human beings until now we even substitute telephone numbers. In 10 years, finding for romance without checking the internet could be like finding for a e book without checking the cardboard catalog. Oh, and that i forgot to show, do not even try it except you're a minimum of 18. The sexual predators many times in easy terms decide for the youngsters, and once you're an person, they're way much less probably to worry you.
2016-11-06 08:07:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you "date" someone you've never met? Where do you go on Friday night, a virtual coffee shop? You can get to know someone online, a bit, but it's not love, there is no romance, and 'dating' really requires the people to be there together face-to-face...why bother calling yourself dating someone you've never actually met? Sounds like someone who's afraid of real relationships so gets themselves a pseudo one to feel like they're part of the dating scene, but actually avoiding anything that remotely resembles a real relationship.
Ya don't love a guy you've never met, because you don't really know him (or gal, if the situation were reversed)...doesn't matter how much you've chatted online or talked on the phone, there is simply TOO much you cannot know about someone w/o spending a considerable amount of time with them face-to-face. You may like who you think they are, but that's it...chances are, the idea you have in your head of them, is pretty far off because it's easy to romanticize and make them far more 'perfect' in our head, than they actually are.
2007-09-25 02:35:45 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still need the physical touch...
I cyber dated a long time ago with this guy from Kentuckey. I was always scared to send him my picture or meet him. I was young and I was scared. So i sent him a fake picture and never met him. LOL nothing ever happend or worked out. SOOO CYber dating is ok But you need to be careful. Predators will even play sick games to pray on the meat. Be safe Adios babes.
2007-09-25 02:34:40 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you are not. There is nothing wrong with cyber dating, if you feel that you know the person and the person has a good heart, it is no different from meeting someone off the street or out and about, you still have to get to know the same way.
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2007-09-25 02:34:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not a bad person, just stupid.
Cyber dating is not dating. Dating is to get to know each other to see if you want to pursue a long term relationship. You can't get to know each other if you never spend any real time together. You'll never know if he has any bad habits that you can't stand, you'll never know his little quirks or personality issues, because they can be easily hidden on the internet and phone.
How do you know that was really his sister and not some girl he hired to pretend?
How do you love someone you don't really know?
2007-09-25 02:33:39 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think it's wrong. and yes people say that you cant really get to know someone on the net...easier to lie etc...but it's just as hard to get to know someone from a bar when you do the "getting to know" over the phone....
i know of a lady who was off sick from work and started cyber dating someone just to pass the time. the man convinced her to go to the hospital (becuase she was feeling really rough...she had bad asthma) and so she went and woke up three days later to find a hose down her throat in the ICU. the doctor told her that if she hadnt come into the hospital when she did she would have dropped dead. when she got home the guy had left messages for her with his work cell home numbers. she called him to tell him that he had saved her life from 3000 miles away. she went to visit him....they drove across the country back to her home...and theyve been married for a few years now...
cyber dating is just as dangerous in this day and age as dating someone that you just pick up...i say go for it....take it slow and you'll be fine!
good luck!
2007-09-25 02:38:47 · answer #7 · answered by Fission Chips 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't a bad person but you can never be entirely sure what you are really getting yourself into. Depicting emotions, and judging character is almost impossible when done primarily through a computer. This seems like a really great way of acheiving a broken heart.
2007-09-25 02:36:00 · answer #8 · answered by Tesla Girl is Rokken with Dokken 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with it, but unless you are going to actually date in real life, then the feelings you have are most likely not genuine. You may think you love him, but physical chemistry is very important to a real relationship. I have a friend that has had cyber relationships several times, and it has all but runied her for real relationships. its not healthy for the long term.
2007-09-25 02:34:06 · answer #9 · answered by writenimage 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about what others think! IF you have someone that you are happy with, someone who treats you well, someone that you have gotten to know then and like them, then what difference does it make as to how you met!
If it truly bothers you how you met stop telling people! Just say you dated before! Don't let what other people think block your happiness!
Good Luck!
2007-09-25 02:45:59 · answer #10 · answered by Bill C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad!! there is no reason to call u bad it isnt bad but u hv to watch out for the bad ones who might trick u in... if u feel he is really good u should oviously get on with him and enjoy lif...it should b tht he is living up to ur expectations and if he is fulfilling tht i think there is no need to step bak..
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2007-09-25 02:36:04 · answer #11 · answered by sona 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋