i need your advice guys...
hope you can help.
2007-09-25 02:33:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know. Is this the way you think you deserve to be treated? Do you like the way he makes you feel now, and do you think it'd be great to feel that way forever? If so, then stay with him. But don't be too surprised if he starts seeing someone else. He obviously doesn't respect you.
If you think you deserve to be with someone who will try to make you happy, then you need to move on. Right now you are two people who aren't having a good time together. If you split up there's a better chance for both of you to make two other people happy. Right now you're just wasting your time and letting someone make you feel like trash.
2007-09-25 02:40:37 · answer #1 · answered by Julie L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I can understand how hurt you felt when your own boyfriend did not even remember your birthday. But before you put too much into this you have to first see the relationship as it has been all around, not just base it on one important event that he forgot. If he is usually thoughtful and respectful and loving to you, then it could be forgetting your birthday was just a human mistake that most men make. Us women look at birthdays and anniversary's as a special event, men try to go along with it to please us, but sometimes they do forget. My husband has been pretty good in this area but he does have help by placing reminders in his cell phone LOL! Talk to your boyfriend and let him know hurt him forgetting your birthday made you feel, hopefully he will be willing to make it up to you. Good luck to you!
2007-09-25 09:41:59 · answer #2 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some boyfriend. He doesn't even remember your birthday. Yep, he's really into you.
Open up your eyes. Find somebody else to "show care" you.
2007-09-25 09:38:04 · answer #3 · answered by Auftrit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick his *** to the curb. I've learned (the hard way) not to put up with too much from a guy. It gets you nowhere and chips away at your self esteem. You can't make someone love you and you can't make someone care. Move on until he gets his crap together or say see ya forever.
2007-09-25 10:35:36 · answer #4 · answered by Paula D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my man could'nt remember my birthday then he'd be history. To me that proves he doesn't think much of you or he'd remember an important date like that....bet he remembers when your gonna put out..............
2007-09-25 09:37:50 · answer #5 · answered by WhAtEvEr....... 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you mean by care. By him a calendar.
2007-09-25 09:37:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You either put up with it and stay with him, or you find a new boyfriend. Choose one.
2007-09-25 09:36:10 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what most other women do when feeling neglected, bang his best friend.
2007-09-25 09:37:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋