I'm a 24 year old college student that finds herself in a strange situation. I was out with a girlfriend and we ran into another friend of hers. We were having a drink and talking then her friend asked if I would like to go with her to a formal party she was going to. I thought it sounded like fun (heck a chance to dress up) and said yes. After the friend left my girlfriend told me her friend was a lesbian and I had just agreed to a date.
Wow I had never even thought about hooking up with a girl before but the more I think about it the more my heart races :)
now my friend has told all my other girlfriends that I'm going out with another girl and they are all playingly teasing me about it (and for some strange reason I'm loving it) They are calling me their little lesbian and it makes me blush.
I can't wait to do this and I'm really hoping that something sexual happens. Was I secertly bi or lesbian and didn't even realize it??
2007-09-25 02:50:23 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go for it girl hope it goes great for you...
2007-09-25 02:53:43 · answer #1 · answered by hurts so good 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women find college life a time for exploring new venues. Your in an environment where learning new things accompanies simple things like picking up a book, meeting new classmates, instructors, classrooms etc. Alot of women take this time to experiment with taboos such as trying new clothes, friends, alcohol, drugs, foods and sexuail partners outside of their race and sexuail orientation. Doesn't mean you've always felt this way simply because you feel this way now. It may be an experience that you try once and after you experienced it your done. Like eating sushi. Some people like raw fish some people try it and leave it alone. Bon apetite!
2007-09-25 10:03:30 · answer #2 · answered by johnnie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not necessarily. Its all new to you. Its very normal for someone to desire something they have never experienced or aren't acustomed to doing. I mean its possible you are bi. I am and at first I was disgusted by the fact. Just go for it. Go out have a good time, if something sexual happens it may cure your curiosity and either you'll realize you like it or you'll realize its not for you. Either way its not a bad thing. Just do you. Good luck and if it turns out you are bi.. great you can get the best of both worlds HAHA good luck with the date ;)
2007-09-25 09:55:23 · answer #3 · answered by luvinmykevin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your heart is racing just thinking about it you are definitely into the Bi or lesbian thing. Go ahead and go and have fun whatever comes of it....I'd love to know how things turn out for you Honey.....
2007-09-25 09:55:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The idea of getting with another woman may turn you on but when it comes time to get down you may not be as into it as you thought. Worth a try though, 2 chicks is always hot.
2007-09-25 09:56:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats Love! You sound like me when I started hanging out with my first "friend" Chrissy. If you are attracted to the girl and have feelings for her... Go with it girl!!! You sound alot like me and I'm Bisexual. I Love my husband and he Loves me... Especially when I bring home one of my girlfriends.
As long as she is a cool girl, you will have a great time and experience something new! Good Luck and have Fun!!!
2007-09-25 09:57:01 · answer #6 · answered by redhotdancer4life 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to be bi or lesbian to be curious. You will know for sure though after it does happen. Good luck and have fun!
2007-09-25 09:54:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say your bi curious, and maybe it took that moment for that side of you to be discovered, go for it and have fun. It doesn't make you a lesbian if you enjoy it.
2007-09-25 09:56:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I truly think all women have thoughts of this, but we have somehow supressed them. I would go and have fun and see what happens, son't force anything to happen, remember this other women has feelings too. Treat her like you would a man, if you don't like her, don't lead her on. Have fun with it, maybe you just need to experiment to see if you actually like women as well.
2007-09-25 09:56:15 · answer #9 · answered by Ali 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't matter if you were a secret anything - just have some fun at the party and if you and her want something to happen, then I am sure you girls can make it happen.
2007-09-25 09:56:44 · answer #10 · answered by remowlms 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you are the most perfect person (aside from my wife) that has ever existed!!! hehehe
College is when you should have fun and experiment a little. Nothing wrong with seeing if this fits you and who knows, you may learn a LOT about yourself. Enjoy yourself and let us know how it went!!
2007-09-25 09:57:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋