Singles & Dating - 5 September 2007

she has been passed out on my couch for 2 hrs...She is a friend and we have had sex a few times...What would you do right now....????

2007-09-05 19:05:10 · 16 answers · asked by irish dude 1

2007-09-05 19:01:41 · 23 answers · asked by cooldude11000000 3

So i was friends with this guy for about 2 years. We've recently began dating(about 2 months ago). We've both really enjoyed spending time together. We have very similar backgrounds as far as our family goes. This has brought us even closer together. He has told me that most of his past relationships have ended badly, and have ended because of the other person and not him. So tonight he said that he thinks that we are moving too fast. I completely trust his word, like I said before I've known him for awile and he is very sincere. He says that things are almost too good with us. Like I said we've been having a great time together. I just don't understand. Is he just scared. He says that he does not want to stop seeing me. He wants to continue to see me, but just a little slower. Is he scared or what?

2007-09-05 19:00:33 · 5 answers · asked by my name here 1

The reason being we fight. Constantly. And we have been for the past 3 months. We just seem to bring out the worst in each other. There's no question of love.. maybe the question of being "in" love, but certainly not caring for him.. it just feels like a lot of the passion has died.. he makes me feel stupid a lot of the time, and he doesn't trust me, so he ends up suffacting me.. I've never done anything to make him not trust me, and he's still paranoid.. I want out. But I don't want anyone to get hurt. I'm really close with his family and his friends.. so my question is, how do I get out of this relationship without hurting him or anyone else?

2007-09-05 18:59:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I did online dating last year, it was not good at all. A year later, i'm giving it another try. WHy did i bother? same ugly guys online. The older i get....the harder it gets. But seriously, why does online dating attract so many unattractive guys?? The girls look cute...

2007-09-05 18:55:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm five four..
135 lbs.. but athletic - very sporty and adventerous.
I have pics on my 360 page...
Brunette with a few freckles and green eyes..

2007-09-05 18:55:27 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

You and a girl exchange numbers on some Friday, on the following Tuesday, she texts you and you text her asking her to call you sometime so the two of you can hang out. If she called you two weeks later would that be weird?

I'm asking because I want to call this guy to hang out with him but I don't want to seem desperate. It's been two weeks and he told me to call him but...would he still think it was a little weird that I called? Should I even call?

Also, what kind of things that girls do make them seem desperate?

2007-09-05 18:54:13 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

so this guy got my attention and really like him ( his profile) he flirted with me i flirted with him, sent me an email, i respoded to his email. but then he came online 2 days checked my profile but did not send me an instant msg, so today i came online, and saw that he was there for 8 mn and even checked if i was on line ( the system shows who checked u and when) so i waited 2 mn and i sent him instant msg we talked about the weather and what i do and then he just wanted to go. is he intrested, is he playing a game how should i deal with him is he very reserved??? what do u think

2007-09-05 18:54:12 · 4 answers · asked by A simple thing 2

When an older man is with a younger woman (let's say an age diffence of 15 to 20 years) do you feel that he is looking for a trophy on his arm, she is looking for security or they are in love with each. What is your first impression.

2007-09-05 18:45:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

well, my bf and i have been together for 1 year and some change 8month's he was in north carolina far away from me i just cant take it anymore i can handle being in along distance relationship:( what should i do?

2007-09-05 18:39:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just curious, I'm 5'2" but have a well-proportioned body. I like this guy who's really tall. Does height matter to you?

2007-09-05 18:37:53 · 21 answers · asked by lovefool1050 3

Ok, this girl, ever since we started goin out..she's always called me every night after she got off work and even sometimes after school. And everything seemed all fine 'n dandy sunday when I saw her. Monday she called me. But yesterday, she didn't call me at all. Today, she didn't call me at all..yet. She could be working late today but if not, she was supposed to have gotten off 30 minutes ago. I don't think I did anything wrong. Why did she suddenly stop calling me? And what should I do?

2007-09-05 18:37:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

even though we've known each other for 3 weeks and still have a lot to know about each other...i know he's experienced thats what i love about older men..he is 22 i'm 19. i am very unexperienced btw...never had a real kiss (sober ).

2007-09-05 18:27:01 · 23 answers · asked by san francisco grl 2

I am just wondering why a lot of guys seem to be attracted to girls that treat them good most of the time but can be very mean to them if she gets upset. My guy friend in his late 20s dated a girl for two months. She was his first real lay, seriously. Anyway, she was pretty damn mean the last break up. He went back two times before but hasn't contacted her since this last time which has been nearly a month.
Here is what I worry about with him. He is going to meet this girl that lives a million miles away. He adores her, so he says he even loves her and she loves him. However, they have never met.
I'm just worried that he'll run back to this other girl that he said he has "amazing" (his words) sex with all summer if the girl from online doesn't work out.
The girl from summer told him he was a loser and a user. He can't possibly still have feelings for her can he? I mean he even wrote some nasty thing about her on his myspace.
Will guys run back for good sex?
My poor guy friend ugh

2007-09-05 18:24:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm too chicken to ask girls out and girls don't like me. I'm 25 and pretty much have gone nowhere with girls.

What's it like to be an unattached loser for the rest of your life?

2007-09-05 18:22:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-05 18:20:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My best friend in the world is a guy named Steve and he thinks his g/f lies to him all the time.
Sometimes my guy Mike accuses me of lieing to him.

i tell the truth always well almost always and so does Steves g/f.

so why do guys think we lie?
why cant they just take what we say as the truth and accept it?

2007-09-05 18:16:33 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

dying alone... etc. I'm an attractive woman but I never date. Always alone... it's starting to worry me now. Anyone else? How do you deal?

2007-09-05 18:12:10 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

This girl wrote a note on my hand sayin " I Heart You"
she sits beside me all the time and scoots very close and leans on me.
Does she like me or what?

2007-09-05 18:11:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my boyfriend have less than 2 months going out. He wants to have sex but i think is too quick for that. Am i right?

2007-09-05 18:08:45 · 32 answers · asked by karaotica 1

Me and my bf is together 4 almost 2 yrs. I love him so much that i give him everything. He cheated on me so many times that i catch him w/ the other girls and his lame xplanation is that he just want to play but i am the only 1 that he really love.He call me foul words everytime he's angry and fight w/me when i call the girls to ask the real score and he even beat me cos of it.I try to go away from him but he does'nt want to stop calling me and ask for my forgiveness.I forgive him and again just to found out that he have a new girl w/him.He keep lying and fighting w/me. And if i go away he keep chasing me..Why he is like that.He even ask money from me for a food and just discover that he use the money to bring the girl to the hotel.He promise me so many times that he will change but every two months he will do it again.Please advice me why he behave like that and keep saying that he reallly love me only. What does he want from me?

2007-09-05 18:06:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

usually taking my top off, a guy making me give him a ******** who i dont even like, and 3 guys feeling me up. i dont really care but i know that is not the person i want to be. is it bad or is it okay?

2007-09-05 18:02:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

are enjoying your lives as suppose to?

2007-09-05 17:55:02 · 2 answers · asked by nanna 5

My boyfriend is the biggest baby on the planet. I just started birth control, not for sex, but because I have irregular hormones and it helps regulate them so I don't get odd periods during the months. He automatically thinks that means no condoms during sex, which I've announced many times that birth control is not 100% safe and I want to be as safe as possible. After hearing that he went into whine mode and said that he caves in everything I want and why can't I just let him "have me the way he wants" I still am sticking my ground as I want to be safe, but he clearly isn't having it and it's beginning to piss me off. He's ranting, raving and cursing at me about it and it's not like using condoms will deflate how I feel about him, so what's the big deal? I seriously don't know what I should do anymore. HELP!

2007-09-05 17:45:24 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

i met this girl at my homie's party and we kinda talked and we hung out for a bit but didnt really get to know each other but she seem pretty chill and shes great looking, when i left she put her # in my phone, so the next day i txt her but she didnt reply. she lives about 1:20 hr drive from me and im really interested in this girl. what should i do?

2007-09-05 17:33:24 · 30 answers · asked by George 2

I have a nes sex partner. We had sex this weekend. I couldn't really get into it because his mustache felt like it was giving me brush burns. Since then my "cookie" has been sore and dry. I want to make sure it doesn't happen again. How do I tell him it hurt, without being harsh?

2007-09-05 17:23:05 · 3 answers · asked by Phoenix 2

I'm not very social but want to meet someone. For various reasons, there are places I refuse to go looking for someone and places I've given up on.

Bars - I don't drink and don't want to meet people who do.

Clubs - I HATE dancing!

Party - I don't drink, dance, and am not a social butterfly.

Sports events/functions

Church/Religious functions - I'm not religious.

Volunteer/Community events - I don't/won't volunteer.

College/School related functions - I'm out of school and won't go back. Most girls are back in school so I won't meet them at my usual hang outs and I don't want to get involved with a girl who will be a world away 9 months a year.

Places I frequent or have tried meeting girls are:

Mall/Stores: The girls who show are always in groups or with a BF/GF.

On-line - It's expensive, competitive, and unrewarding.

Work: I hate pursuing girls I work with. It always turns out badly, and they are often the girls I don't want to meet (why I avoid places).

2007-09-05 17:20:10 · 22 answers · asked by crabdog62482 1

Today, when I talked online to my boyfriend, i asked the usual, how are you, and today he said "in pain" well, come to find out, he got cut deep and got 3 stitches in his thumb. Well, naturally, I said "are you all right??" (to which he replied "no") and then i asked "how did you cut yourself?" he replied, "can't tell you that, it's a secret" and I said "i wont tell" and he said "i cant f***in' tell you!!!!" why wont he say??? what do u think it could be that makes him not say???

2007-09-05 17:19:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Since my first love broke up with me after 3 years, i just cant seen to understand what being happy is anymore.I tried getting back with my ex but i only found out **** about that she didn't really love me and it was all a lie and i lost it and i hit her and now i'm going ot jail.I used to be that really nice kid, going to college and never getting into trouble but now becuase of this pain that i have i seen to want to use drugsand i'm alway sad,angry and deppresed.I'm always thinking about killing myself or killing her for this pain she is cuasing me .I did so much for her and sacrifice and stood by her side but at the end nothing matter .What can i do to get help or is their help for what i'm going through or is it just going away cuase its been six months since this she left me and i'm going ot jail next month.Please Help Me?Anyone .I'm scared that i will be a drug user or worse a murder.

2007-09-05 17:16:57 · 12 answers · asked by jake 1

met a guy online...we've known each other for about 8 months now...and i have met him in person once (for a coffee) 2 months ago. since that day...we keep in touch very regularly.....we speak on the phone everday.

both of us are of indian nationality. i'm 21 and he is 24.

we feel pretty close to each other & he has suggested several times that we should meet up soon....he even invited me to his house to taste his cooking...but he knows that i am very much busy with my studies and thesis now & so i haven't been able to accept his invitations.

however he has asked me my exam dates...to see whether i would be able to spare one saturday for him.

he's one of those people who loves to surround himself with friends & he's one of the nicest guys i've ever met....he is so sweet to everyone even those who annoy him!

so...now my question is:
DO U THINK THIS GUY IS LOOKING 4 A RELATIONSHIP WITH ME??

OR

DO U THINK HE'S JUST BEING FRIENDLY WITH ME??

2007-09-05 17:07:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous