Singles & Dating - 5 September 2007

ok well there is this boy i like at school. and he is really nice to and we hang out alot just not in "that" way . we are just friend. i have recently had feeling for him. how can i get his attention or have him ask me out before i do. i dont wanna make a fool of myself or get heartbroken. so i know its kinda of a dumb question but any help would be awesome from you guys.

2007-09-05 14:19:08 · 1 answers · asked by Pixie. 3

Does " Im not ready for a relationship" really mean "im not ready for a relationship with YOU"

back story -
he is 38, i am 27 (so please no High School answers, thanks)
met 2 months ago. talked on the phone everyday (him calling me) saw each other a few times a week. slept over some weekends. everything was good, he was affectionate, nice. About a month in i told him I "liked" him. he said he wasnt ready for a relationship and went MIA for a few days (the only time since we met that i hadnt talked with him at least once a day) when he re-appeared he said (among other things) that he didnt want me to fall in love with him, but still wanted to be friends. weve talked since then, but only every few days. ive seen him, but its been different. I guess what i want to know from you guys is: did i scare him away? is he just not into me in that way? or do i give it time? Im about to just give it up (it does occur to me that maybe that is what he would like me to do) what do ya'll think

2007-09-05 14:11:03 · 7 answers · asked by sttunnner 1

She has her own place but stays at the boyfriends house on the weekends because they do not live close. What if anything would you expect her to pay for?
Thanks to all who answer.

2007-09-05 14:10:16 · 19 answers · asked by KAT 4

Theres this guy i really like and hes really hot!!!!! He just moved here and i met him about a week ago.....but he has a girl friend.... we are always talk and texting and IMing each other!!!!!! one time we stayed up late on a school night just texting!.... we always meet up at the pool house and other places to talk and hang out... sometimes he talks about his girlfriend though,,,,,, we comunicate a lot but how can i tell if he likes me!!????

guys - what do you do if you like a girl.. ??
girls- what have you ever noticed about guys when they like you??

guys, have you ever broke up with a girl for another girl??
and also how can i help make him like me?? flirt probley..but in what way????



PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-09-05 14:10:16 · 3 answers · asked by Bethany 3

I have been engaged for 6 months and with this guy for 2 years. We live together and have for a long ime now. I came home early the other day and he was looking at other men on the internet. He says that it is not that he is gay, just that he finds all kinds of sex stimulating. Is this a crock of crap or not?

2007-09-05 14:09:58 · 3 answers · asked by closgirl831 1

2007-09-05 14:07:08 · 32 answers · asked by magicdust 3

2007-09-05 14:07:07 · 15 answers · asked by Doug 1

I like this girl i really want to tell her how i feel but i dont want her to feel awkward

2007-09-05 14:07:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want to make friends with a guy at school but i don't know what u guys look for in girls exactly... any opinions? what do you like/not like about girls?

2007-09-05 14:02:24 · 8 answers · asked by sugar1092 2

It all started exactly a year ago. My parents have a house in mexico which they visit every weekend. Their neighbor who also owns a home and visits every weekend is this guy which I ended up hanging out with a year ago. We played pool, and the next day he came over and took me or a motorcycle ride. Nothing Happend,but I though he was intererested and I gave him my#. He never called, and I did no visit my parents home until this weekend. Again.. we ended up hanging out except this time things went quite far. The next morning he came by and invited me to the beach, we spent a couple of hours together, he was being affectionate... He asked when I would be returning and I said "Not sure" that I would try to come more often. So.. He dropped me off, kiss me good-bye and we left it at ' I'll see you later".I did not offer my # again seeing that he never called last time I gave it to him. I'm confused as to his actions. If he wanted a one night stand why did he return? Is he interested or not?

2007-09-05 14:02:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok So I was going out with this guy and I called it quits about 3mths ago. He kept text messaging me and sometimes I'd respond but not really. Well I started hanging out with this guy about a 2 mths ago and I really like him but I wasn't sure where we stood. anyway this past weekend my ex found out that I was dating this one guy and threw a big fit about it and I kept telling him that we're not together and it was none of his business. Well the reason he was mad was because this guy is one of his good friends, but I didn't know and I never saw them together or even mention him before. Well he threatened to tell his so call friend that I have been talking to both of them and I didn't know what to do. So I just told both of them to leave me alone and not call me anymore. But the problem is that I like this guy. the new guy...Should I call and tell him what is going on but then I don't want to be the cause of anything with them either. Do you think he'll believe me or his friend? help!

2007-09-05 14:01:16 · 6 answers · asked by G 2

OK, well I like this guy, but i am pretty sure he dont like me. He got a gf and he woudln't even talk to me anymore after that. Now him and his gf broke up and i still like him, even though he acted like a jerk. I still dont know if he will talk to me now that him and his gf are broken up. I dont know what to do. Please give me your opinion on the situation...

I dont know that he meant to be a jerk. You know how some girls are like you cant talk to other girls if you are dating me...I dont know what he reason was for acting that way. I am confused!

Oh, and also, me and the guy are friends(well i guess), it had been awhile since we seen each other but then we got back intouch and talk as friends a little...

Anyway, idk...Give me your opinion!

2007-09-05 14:01:08 · 2 answers · asked by justme 3

Will I go blind? Grow fur? What if they got pictures? I am so worried about what people think, but should I worry about it later? I don't want to get blackmailed.

2007-09-05 13:58:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was thinking about e-mailing a couple of chicks that i saw on a group e-mail and seeing what they were up to, I talked to them briefly and I know that they are both single, atleast they came to the reunion that way and they talked of nobody else, we were all sent a picture and it had everybody's e-mail adresses on it, Is that an acceptable thing to do?

2007-09-05 13:56:18 · 2 answers · asked by the d 6

Is that just weird?....or No? Or maybe should it just be vise versa?

2007-09-05 13:46:56 · 11 answers · asked by Samantha :] 2

i dont want to offend the person who bought it by asking him, but how can i know just on my own if gold is real or not? i appreciate the gift no matter what it is.

2007-09-05 13:46:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 13 almost 14 and i really like this guy and im pretty sure he likes me i want to date him but i dont know if im too young i dnt want to date to act older and all that i dont even want to kiss that bad i just want someone to b there for me what do you think?

2007-09-05 13:46:11 · 6 answers · asked by ♥↔♥ 5

ok so i broke up with my ex bf a month ago and he was ok with it.then a couple days ago we were talking on AIM and he said "i miss you".so i didnt know what to say so i didnt really answer.but i said "ok so what are you expecting me to say" and he said "idk.....something like get over me...but i was hoping i miss you too." so i was like "ummm well i dont know how to respond to that" and he just said "ok well i just had to say it" it was kinda creeping me out.so i told one of my good friends and shes really good friends with my ex and she called him and asked what happened and i was on the same line so i heard everything and he said stuff like "i dont miss her anymore" and "shes over reacting".i was like WTF. and me and my friend are going to visit a high school so we can see our friends from middle school tomorrow.and hes gonna be there and its gonna be really weirddd. :[ what should i do???

2007-09-05 13:45:20 · 5 answers · asked by cupcake 1

Like how much of an age difference was your boyfriend/girlfriend ?

2007-09-05 13:41:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

hey are there any guys who have never had sex before, and are proud of it? I am in my late teens, been asked out by every type of guy, yet they all share the fact that they have all had sex. are there no real gentlemen out there who will wait to have sex for the first time with their wife when they get married? that is what i'm trying to do, and what i know is right, yet i am loosing hope that i will ever find a man like this. are they out there?

2007-09-05 13:41:28 · 17 answers · asked by shittalkie 2

For the first time in almost a year, I finally got asked out by someone. We've only been together a short time. But that's not the point.

I'm happy with him, but here's the problem. I'm still pretty scarred and edgy about relationships. I've been through a lot of relationship problems the last 2 years. To put it in a nutshell, I got my heart broken REALLY badly.

Im just scared that he's gonna break my heart like the rest of them did. Most girls my age brag about how great thier bfs are, how much they love them, ect. I dont like to do that because I feel it kinda jinxes my relationship. Im almost afraid to talk about him at all.

My point is, Im tired of being afraid to have feelings for him, let alone anyone. I know he cares for me but, for some stupid reason, I have this thought in my head that I'm gonna get hurt really badly again(I never brought up past relationships to him).

What can I do? I hate feeling like this. : (

2007-09-05 13:38:39 · 11 answers · asked by Angela 2

This guy who has all my classes with me and his locker is right next to mine likes me.no,he didnt tell me but he's acting like i.I can tell.What do I do now?I'm not sure if I like him yet...he's really sweet and nice and funny but...I just don't know.

2007-09-05 13:38:16 · 5 answers · asked by Natalie 2

Well I hope this gets more answers than my usual questions.
I really like this guy and this guy really likes me back. We slow danced at a school thing last Friday and he can't stop gazing at me or flirting with me. Then today I got to talk to his close friend. She said that he was having a problem with girls, he really liked two girls (this was last year) and they got mad at him when he went out with both of them. His friend said he could go out with as many girls as he wanted if he told them and wasn't commiting to be bf with just one. Now I am not comfortable with that. Is that weird? What would you do?

2007-09-05 13:37:12 · 9 answers · asked by Nails 2

How do you develop patience? I want to talk to him alllll the time. But I'm trying to be patient and let our relationship grow at its own pace. I dont want to rush anything. How do you handle this??

2007-09-05 13:34:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

He wanted to still be friends - I said no that it was too hard on me. He completely flipped out - I broke it off because I felt he did not love me - to which he agreed but in the end he was screaming at me that he hated my guts. Does anyone have any insight into aquarius behaviour - he was not paying much attention to me and was too aloof and non-commital - I tried to be aloof and explain it as such and to tell you the truth I was shocked when he completely freaked out. What the hell does it mean?

2007-09-05 13:29:48 · 11 answers · asked by skepticseeksmystic 2

i dont have the element of surprise and i need to beat her room being post it noted so yah post any good creative ideas thanks

2007-09-05 13:25:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-05 13:19:51 · 5 answers · asked by Mary H 1

I have know this guy for 6 months. When I ask him what are we he will say more than friend but not a gf. Then he will say he loves me more than a friend etc. I talked to his mom and he told her i'm his very good friend and he told two of his friends that i'm just his friend not gf. If he just want to be friends then why he is acting like my bf and telling me loves me more than a friend. I recently found out that he went to club and was dancing with my girls. I tricked his friend in finding the truth. His friend didn't knew I was his friend gf or good friend. So he said things about my bf such as he is flirt, smooth talker. I asked my bf and he said he is lieing and when his friend found out who i am he changed his whole story and said he was just talking crap to I guess impress me that he is a nice guy and his friend is not.

2007-09-05 13:15:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just got a makeover, what ya think of my new look? (avator).... im24, names max. tell me your thoughts. you can see the full look on my 360 profile

2007-09-05 13:10:53 · 3 answers · asked by flyboy7683 2

I just went to a new college and all the ppl i know from high school are gone. I also don't get any reactions from anyone at college like an attraction. My friend is supposed to hook me up with someone at her school but nothing has happened for a couple months. I pretty much just go to school and go home again cuz i have no one to spend time with. What do i do?

2007-09-05 13:10:09 · 4 answers · asked by coolbowens 1