Singles & Dating - 2 September 2007

I'm gonna be 20 next year & I still haven't had a girlfriend, still a virgin(obviously), prostitutes don't count for me so don't even go there. I'm a college sophmore already, am I one of very few people like this?, should I just kill myself since I'm never gonna get a girlfriend?, I feel I missed out on too much fun already, I sometimes don't see the point of having a girlfriend now since I didn't have one earlier, how many people do you know out there 20 or older & have never had a boyfriend/girlfriend?, all I've done is kiss a girl, like tongue to tongue, which was through truth or dare. I've never asked a girl out before & I don't bother because I know girls will flat-out reject me, I don't bother asking for girls numbers because I know they will say "I have a boyfriend, blah blah blah", which pisses me off because that shows I wasted my breath talking to them. As for the suicide part, I take Anti-Depressants & I already have a Psychologist, anyway, I feel worthless & pathetic

2007-09-02 23:41:01 · 26 answers · asked by introvertedguy06 6

do you wait for her or seek it else where in the meantime?

2007-09-02 23:37:56 · 13 answers · asked by Queen 3

Crap! I just let a guy use me and totally fell into a trap. This all happend like in August..I liked this guy that was taken and I know him real well but so anyway one night, we both happend to be up really late(we live in the same neighborhood) and I was outside listening to music while he drove by in his pickup, but saw me and pulled over right out front my house. We talked for a while and then he asked me if I wanted to come over to his house, I told him yeah sure. So when I went over there he said u wanna watch a movie? I said ok, so we both were just sitting on his bed about to watch a movie. Then he turns off the lights and gets close to me. And eventually we fooled around but didnt have sex. I feel horrible that I let it go that far. What should I do now? It was my first experience with a guy but now I regret it. And I also feel like I just gave him a freakin ego boost! Is there a possible way to make myself feel better?

2007-09-02 23:22:49 · 15 answers · asked by *Livin the life* 1

yes i havent met his family yet BUT
i have met his sister and we are on good terms and then the only one left i havent met is his dad who is apparently a alcoholic so perhaps hes ashamed or something and thats why?
his mother and other sister do not live in this country so i understand why there also and do you think the fact hes indain might count for something?

2007-09-02 23:10:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok lets say that u dated a girl, weren't together for a long time but broke up on good terms and stayed "friends with benefits". Neither u or her really like commitment u would rather just mess around and have fun. What would make u all of a sudden change ur mind and want to get back together with her?

2007-09-02 23:10:33 · 21 answers · asked by Kristy 4

2007-09-02 22:58:06 · 12 answers · asked by mobarik morsa 1

It seems to be commonly thought that guys are not completely honest with girls if they feel they must end a relationship. Is it true? If so, other than supposedly trying not to hurt our feelings, (mind you, nothing could be worse than breaking our hearts ) why can't you just tell it like it is??

2007-09-02 22:54:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

this always confuses me

does this turn u on?

2007-09-02 22:49:30 · 8 answers · asked by sushigal818 1

Guys, is the following true?

--Guys hate sluts even though they have sex with them!

--Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

--Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him.

--Don't talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend.

--Guys get jealous easily.

--Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

--Guys are very open about themselves.

--A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

--Guys will brag about anything.

--Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. We rarely use beautiful. If a guy uses that, he likes you a whole hell of a lot.

--No matter how much guys talk about asses and boobs, personality is key.

--Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.

--Guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if one guy's confused, then we're all confused.

--If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.

--If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and is spazzing inside.

--If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up.

--If a best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you're with your boyfriend, he's probably jealous and likes you.

--When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something.

--Guys like femininity not feebleness.

--Everything in moderation. Put on makeup, wear perfume. Just not too much.

--If you are going to reject a guy, just do it. Don't say they are like a brother or just good friends, it just hurts even more. Tell them that you aren't interested in a relationship and they will respect you.

--A guy would give his left nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day.

--Not all guys are assholes. Just because ONE is a jackass doesnt mean he represents ALL of us.

--We don't like girls who are too skinny.

--We love it when girls talk about there boobs.

--When a guy hits your butt it means that he wants you sexually

--Guys love neck rubs and if he lets you keep doing it ..it means that he really likes you or his neck really hurts...

--When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible.

2007-09-02 22:37:49 · 13 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4

WHO THINKS MUSTANGS ARE REALLY UGLY AND OLD AND THAT PEOPLE SHOULD GET OVER THEM?!
I HATE THEM WITH A PASSION!!!

=) well?!

2007-09-02 22:02:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-02 21:57:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 39 going grey and still single. Girls say i am cute so why am i still single and cant find love? All my friends are married or getting married, they all say they are happy, i am the only one now who cant find love. It is depressing me, feel so lonley and fed up now. Its natural to love someone so why cant i find someone to love? IS 39 too old to find someone now? will girls be put off by my grey hair??

2007-09-02 21:57:04 · 20 answers · asked by sean O 1

ive been paranoid that something is going on between my partner and a lady who works in our building for several months now.She calls him on his mobile and acts flirty with him and I was suspicious that when im not a at work they have lunch toegther and he encourages her, but he assured my that it was all one sisded. Last week i found that he had set up an email address for her and had been emailing her. Parts of the emails were sexual and very flirty and proved that he was communicating with her when he told me it was all in my head.
I dont think anything physical has happened between them because he never goes anywhere and we are trying to work through this but i feel so hurt and decieved that I dont know if i can be with him.

2007-09-02 21:55:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a 19 year old male, from the Uk. I have a previous history of bad relationships, with women leaving me for other guys.
My family came to visit me with a friend, and after just a few days we started to fall in love (the friend of family). She and my family stayed in England for 3 weeks, and the girl said she loved me. Then when they left my heart was broken, So i decided to visit my family and girlfriend in Norway 4 3 months(crazy I know :). But the girl was begging me to come and stay with her. So I got to Norway, and spent only 4 days with her, and then she had a party and ignored me all night, so i confronted her about it, and she was angry that i was angry. Then she said she didnt think she could be in relationship and wanted to be alone. But when i left she said she thinks she also has feelings for another guy. My heart is broken, and I would do anything to have her back, We are just going to be friends for now....but I need to figure out a plan to get her back. Please help?

2007-09-02 21:50:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm involved with two men and I feel insecure about them both. The first is my husband of 5 years who I love and he loves me but he never pays me enough attention and always puts everyone before me I feel, also he doesn't earn enough and my money supports us most of the time. I feel like hanging around and waiting to see what will change with his career as he just earned a diploma in engineering and so has yet to go further in that field but I'm also scared I'll end up supporting the two of us for the rest of our lives. Is this wrong? The second guy is a 60 year old man who I just met and I suppose I don't really know as much but he wants to lavish me with gifts and is taking me away on a surpise weekend and always pays me attention and seems to worship the ground I walk on. But he says he hates older women and is with young women because they make him feel exciting...so I'm thinking what happens to me when I get a little bit older even though he promises that he will treat me right?

2007-09-02 21:49:25 · 19 answers · asked by snewell2222 1

been together about 3 months. we spend a lot of time together. he is scared that i will leave him. but i dont think i can give him any committment. but he is pressurising me to give him reassurance

2007-09-02 21:45:33 · 13 answers · asked by jay dee 1

Why do you think you're still single? What is it about you or your lifestyle that may be keeping you from meeting 'the one'?

2007-09-02 21:45:32 · 3 answers · asked by nikkismiles7 2

like why they always play with our feelings...is their heart a stone or what..always breaking girl's heart.!! and some can't get enought of one girlfriend they want two..DAMN!!

2007-09-02 21:37:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you still care for the girl in some way or what?

2007-09-02 21:35:43 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

This friend of mine whom i have told few days back that i m falling for her insists on keeping friendship. She says that she knew that i have something of that sort in my mind but she does not wanna lose a good friend thats why she never tried to avoid me. When ever i called her she responded very well. Though some times offended when i got little serious. Calls me whenever i need her for any help. and is a gem of a friend. But its being very tough for me to take her as just a friend. She had told me once that she does not want to have boy friend even though i had not proposed her that time. But i often end up venting up my feelings to her in some form or other as i m seeing her my future partner. My problem is that i never get a clear answer from myself what to do?
I never have any answer what exactly might be goin in her mind. How exactly to behave???
I m puzzled friends

2007-09-02 21:35:30 · 6 answers · asked by Aryan K 2

2007-09-02 21:28:35 · 10 answers · asked by MARIZ 1

2007-09-02 21:27:45 · 15 answers · asked by lostworldforever 1

i'm in this situation where we were close friends that fell hard for each other (decided not to rush) but alot of "life" things happened and he pushed me away and it hurt me. Rumors/assumptions, people's ideas got the best of us and the last we spoke, we misunderstood each other and we haven't talked in a month. I want to clarify things and reassure him and hope things are okay so i wrote him a letter. I felt that w. the letter, i had a good chance of putting it out there b/c if we were to talk we would get our emotions to get the best of us, esp. since we haven't talked/seen in each other in months...
i'm the type of girl that feels that if we need to talk about it, then we should...when both side are COMPLETLY okay about it, then it's good and we should NEVER BRING IT UP AGAIN...

I told him the truth in the letter but didn't blame him or give excuses - i told him, "you hurt me when..." and told him the truth that i cared about him...I read the letter again tonight and i found some "misunderstanding errors" so i felt i had to talk to him about it before something else happens...it's been about 3-4 days so i txted him tonight to say, "what's up" and he never responded back...is he done with me and doesn't wanna be friends anymore?

2007-09-02 21:22:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

why do women always complain about double standards? let's start by the biggest complaint of all...."why is it ok for men to sleep around but if we do it we are sluts? First of all and this goes for the guys out there... what ever girl you are with and asks that, get rid of her cause 100% she's a slut...cause she's already complaining about it...mad cause they can't do it...Is like two people working at the same job but the other gets pay more then the other...why would the other one complaint??? think about it.....WE MEN have the biggest double standards in the world and you dont hear us complaining about it...how about a high school male teacher sleeps with 15 year old and gets 25 to life and a FEMALE teacher sleeps with a 12 year old she be out in 6 months ....LETS not even get to the murder situation because any body that objects will lose...explainn that and stop complaining women you have it easy damnn

2007-09-02 21:21:45 · 10 answers · asked by sinning2472 1

Lately i happened to gain a bit of weight and I felt conscious abt it coz my bf have been quite negative abt it. (I didn't say anything when he gained weight)...

i understand this thing called the relationship weight, where you are so happy in the relationship that you eat a lot. I am aware that i gained weight but the way he's saying it, makes me wonder a lot abt our relationship.

And i've already mentioned to him that his remarks hurt me. Is that how you define love? I am getting my body back, not for him, but for myself.

Isn't love abt accepting the other for who they are? I am petite, i love my curvy body and i'm only 50-ish kg.

2007-09-02 21:21:18 · 12 answers · asked by NOTurBFF!! 3

Recently i lykd this guy nd we did "it" every1 found out nd now i get sh*t at school lyk everyday... Y don't they care? He just walks away nd doesnt talk to me anymore

2007-09-02 21:13:19 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous

the guy keeps punching in and out of the girl continuosly, satisfies the guy or the girl??

2007-09-02 21:12:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

say, you are very sure a guy is into you. like looking at you alot, smiling when he talks, changing his bus route for you, holding doors etc.but you hardly get a chance to speak to him in person in class. and you see each other once a week.

you managed to get his no but only messaged him 2 months later asking him about exams. though he's busy, he replies, always with a question, like whether she's watching sth on tv, or if she asks him how's his day, he will ask about hers. the texting goes on for four days.

then three weeks later, with your exams round the corner and cos youve not got a chance to ask him how his exams went in person, you messaged him asking him that.

would it seem like you are doing it cos you are bored? or needy? or would the guy see it as ok? he's a nice sort of person:)

would he see it as a good sign she could be interested?

2007-09-02 20:06:02 · 6 answers · asked by Nat 2

I really want to have a good and caring female friend that must be honest and be of good attitude. She must be of good ideological perspectives and who will be ready to render assistant when the need arises.

If you are there, kindly mail me through and lets talk. It may sound funny but am really sincere and plain.

Your response and advice are both necessary.

2007-09-02 20:05:03 · 7 answers · asked by felix4aho 1

i started high school last month right and i hit it off with this girl shariel and it was getting to a point where she was gunna be my girlfriend. but one day one of her friends came up 2 me and her and asked if i was martell but no i wasnt so i knew she was talking to other guys. another friend asked shariel if i was her boyfriend. i was going to say not yet but shariel said we were just friends. i always see shariel with other guys and i ask who they are she says oh just friends. I don't believe just friends. But one day there was this gurl i had my eye on since the first day of school finally talked to me. her name is ashanti. we hit off 2. Later on i find out shariel and ashanti are friends. now shariel is mad bcuz i started talking to ashanti so shariel can talk to boys but i cant talk to girls thats messed up so now shariel told ashanti i tried 2 be her boyfriend and ashanti told me wat she sed and i told her the truth i was but she sed we were juss friends. ashanti vs. shariel.

2007-09-02 20:02:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous