Singles & Dating - 5 September 2007

This guy who I have fallen deeply for is leaving for the army soon. I have never felt more close with anybody not even my own family. I know I can't force him into a relationship..he said he'd be with me if he wasn't leaving..and I'm not sure what a guy would expect of me? Would he wan't to hear that I'll be waiting for him or what? He means the world that I would do just that..but I'm not sure if a guy would be thrilled to hear a girl let them know that they will be waiting for them back at home? I just can't bare to think of losing the one person I feel so right with. I understand he needs to live a life of his own and I support that but I would one day hope to start where we leave off...so how do I tell him all this? What do you think I should do, what would a guy want for me to say or do?

2007-09-05 17:06:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I’m having this problem for several months now… and I don’t know what to do with it…
I like someone but he has a girlfriend and a friend of my mine, my close bud has something for me and that’s what confuses me more… The guy I like is his friend, a close one;
they belong in one team before in high school and up to now in college and to make it worse
we’re all in the varsity team, they’re in basketball team and me in volleyball.
I really like him that I make a way to be with him without any agenda, hanging out
JUST FRIENDS… I accepted it that his with her and I respected it… I don’t have a choice
but to wait, to wait for the time he sees me… hoping that he will…

My sister boyfriend is a friend of the guy I like and they’re real close. The guy I like
has told my sis bf that “HE LIKES ME..” well that makes it worse… My GOD!!! And before
summer ends they broke up. I like him but I’m not sure of what he feels he never said
anything about it and I never told him anything too about what I feel ‘cause I’m afraid
that he’ll feel aloof around me and his still with her back then. Even though that their
relationship ended it never gave me anything to ponder on. I would believe it if he’s the
one who would tell me, personally. I like him but I don’t want to assume or expect anything
from him. His my friend too and I don’t want to ruin it just because of the things I could
have said or do.

And before summer ends, me and my best bud had a fight, a real “tampuhan” I never txtd or
talked to him for more than 2 weeks. But his the one who reached out for me. When we talked
he cried asking for my forgiveness. It really touched me. We have worked it out and we’re
friends again. After that his giving me thee sweet gestures, riding me back home and on
my birthday he gave me a silver necklace he bought the day before and he came all the way
here at our house just to give me a ride to school.

And now I don’t know really what to do… I know what he feels for me but he too knows what
I feel for his friend, he’s not asking me anything or proposing anything but if he will,
what should I do?? I’m really scared of what will happen… I trust them both but NOW I’m
confused… I don’t know if I still feel the same way towards him or am I just appreciating
my bud’s efforts or maybe I missed about a lot of everything about him that my best bud’s
filling in. I’m in a conundrum right now.. a big one… I’m hating this feeling… what should
I do????

2007-09-05 17:02:28 · 3 answers · asked by tinx_1505 1

so this guy, whose been my friend for 2 years, is really cute and sweet. i know he likes me and i've sorta been leading him on i guess, like kissing when drunk and going on 2 dates. however, i dont know if i really want to be with him since i feel likehe may just be friend. everyone tells me i should go out with him but i dont know and i'm scared i already took it too far. would i be a ***** if i ended it now?

2007-09-05 17:00:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well since this question's been asked a lot, I thought I'd add a little pizazz! So, instead of just saying which you like better, I'm gonna have you compare these two pics and see which one you like better! Don't worry, they're not nude. And it's not like you HAVE to see them to judge, but I thought it'd be a nice change up, and like they say, a picture says a thousand words.
http://www.flickr.com/photos/34414689@N00/1333845968/
http://www.flickr.com/photos/34414689@N00/1333845930/in/photostream/

2007-09-05 16:57:41 · 37 answers · asked by GrnEyedGurl 2

Okay it's not a big deal i'm just curious as in what is going on.

So my friend likes this guy, hes the drum major of our marching band, were in marching band, and she liked him, then didn't and now she believes she does again. Well my friend was debating whether to ask him to homecoming or not. She asked her friend who was good friends with him if it would be okay. But then the friend she asked said she was going to ask him to go as friends. She was like, oh. Even though her friend had helped her start talking to this guy and getting to know him. Who is wrong here??

2007-09-05 16:53:19 · 8 answers · asked by Shelby 2

i really like this one girl, recently at our high school football game she just all of a sudden started to wipe my shoulder, and people on here were telling me that she just wanted to touch me and say that "Hey, i like you"...and well anyways i talked to her a little more, but never got any serious and the other night i had a dream of her and she was in it...and for some reason in my dream she really did like me and she wrote a note in one of my books that i was reading and she said that she liked me and wanted to go out with me......can you tell me if there is a sign of the future or what is really going on??..note-..i dont talk to her a lot.....but if i see her..sure..i am somewhat shy...thanks for all your help, give me all your OPINIONS!!

2007-09-05 16:50:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i met a guy online...we've known each other for about 8 months now...and i have met him in person once (for a coffee) 2 months ago. since that day...we keep in touch very regularly.....we speak on the phone everday.

we feel pretty close to each other & he has suggested several times that we should meet up soon....he even invited me to his house to taste his cooking...but he knows that i am very much busy with my studies and thesis now & so i haven't been able to accept his invitations.

however he has asked me my exam dates...to see whether i would be able to spare one saturday for him.

he's one of those people who loves to surround himself with friends & he's one of the nicest guys i've ever met....he is so sweet to everyone even those who annoy him!

so...now my question is:
DO U THINK THIS GUY IS LOOKING 4 A RELATIONSHIP WITH ME??

OR

DO U THINK HE'S JUST BEING FRIENDLY WITH ME??

2007-09-05 16:45:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

when you first meet someone

2007-09-05 16:40:36 · 11 answers · asked by ChuckDeucez 6

Ok so heres my problem. Im 13. I like a girl whos 11 and almost 12. Shes so great but likes my friend. I was gonna ask her out today but yesterday i found out that he told her he liked her and i guess he decided that the day he told her bcause he said notthning about it before. So he tells me this and im like Oh come on man you arent serious?!! and he says ya..... and i said ahhh this sucks theresno point in me asking her out now. And hes like why not? I say bcause you like each other!! And he keeps telling me to ask her out but it seems wrong to ask her out when they like each other. I know for a fact that i like her at least 10x more than he does but she likes him so it doesnt matter. Hes not ready to date her so i gotta sit here and wait for something to happen. Should i sit and wait or should i ask her out? She and i are good friends btw. Dont comment on my spelling please i did most of it on purpose to abbreviate. And please dont say im too young! i know a 9 year old who bought

2007-09-05 16:40:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is strong chemistry. You really like him. You both are extremely sexually attracted to each other and there is a mutual respect. The only thing is that you just met each other (1 week) so you really don't know his motives yet. He is willing have sex (he is a guy ....duh). Nevertheless, he is not pressuring you. You want have sex too, but you don’t want to be looked at as easy, and you don’t it to be just a “sex buddy” relationship. Do you follow the lust and do it anyways, or do you exercise self control?

2007-09-05 16:35:09 · 5 answers · asked by Indgrid 1

hay im a girl and my bf wants to kiss more when i get into high school which im almost there...... and he always c's some of his friends makeing out at the lunch table so yeah i think thats wut he wants to do i mean i wouldnt mind but how do we do that w/ out being caught??? can u all help me i dont no wut to do school has got me stressed right now and yeah.....

2007-09-05 16:28:33 · 11 answers · asked by Mai 2

ok so, I have been told I look hot and all. and i am seeing a girl too at the moment. but the thing is, i hardly have any friends that are girls, cause i am not THAT talkative, and tend to be shy around girls.
is this something i need to be worried about?

2007-09-05 16:15:23 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think it should be only in female student's restroom !
Do you agree ?
I think it makes guys feel more agrresive & get more in trouble
buy having condom machines in their restrooms. do you agree?
I think females should be agressive ones....and guys will be cool if women are the agressive ones !

2007-09-05 15:50:28 · 20 answers · asked by revoltingmuledropedriderfromback 1

just to know the percentage of womens fantasy

2007-09-05 15:50:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have the BIGGEST crush on a guy that is a few years older than me. He doesn't even know who I am. I don't even know him that much. But, I put his cell number in one of those advertisement things for horoscopes. So now everyday he will be getting a text of his horoscope for like $6 a week. I feel REALLY bad.....i don't kno what to do. I have no idea why i put his cell # in that thing because i really like him and he has done nothing to me to deserve it. What should I do??????? I feel really bad for him and I feel like I should be punished.

2007-09-05 15:45:22 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a robot.

Is smiling at people an invitation to talk?

What actions must I take if I am smiled at. Is it expected of me to do something other than smile back? Should I smile back?

Girls if the guy who smiled at you wasn't attractive to you , how would you respond?

2007-09-05 15:44:54 · 43 answers · asked by 2nd Commander 1

Met this guy in class. We have to work togeather for a project (we are in our 20s). He seems a little nervous around me (although, he has lots of friends, I don't know if maybe he is naturally nervous). He is really nice. I start to ignore him a little and notice that he has distance himself a bit ( I sat at the table in front of him during a presentation- and purposely acted like I didn't see him). His response was to move away from me (change tables during the next presentation). Have I totally messed things up? Or scared him off. So confused? Or is he just trying to tell me indirectly to relax and not sweat myself?

2007-09-05 15:44:19 · 2 answers · asked by breezy 3

2007-09-05 15:43:57 · 5 answers · asked by ashley h 1

The thing is I told my cousin that I like her so I think she told her so that makes me look weak what should I do?

2007-09-05 15:38:22 · 1 answers · asked by onlygranite 1

She likes to throw her pen at me in a playful manner and I joke around with her and she is pretty hot and there is this dance coming up: Homecoming. I don't know if I want to go. There is another dance in December: JROTC Ball and it is a grade. I want to ask her but there is this girl in front of her who likes me, it is pretty obvious.

How do I further a relationship with the girl? She sometimes gets annoyed or is acting like it and she mostly likes to play and joke around with me and there are like four boys not including me around her.

HELP NEEDED! I REALLY WANT HER FOR THE JROTC BALL...AND AS A GF!

2007-09-05 15:36:19 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have this tiny teacher crush, he's around 30 and I'm a teen adult. I had a massive makeover and when I came back to school everyone was AMAZED ( i got natural-looking extensions, too). Oh and I also lost some weight, though I 'd been slim before so now I ook pretty much like a healthy model. And yes, I do dress VERY nicely. Sorry to be so over-confident but, yes, I'm hot and I know it.

So why did the one teacher not react, actually he was acting very cool and distanced? I was his favourite student before, and he told me how charming and glamorous I was (as well as intelligent lol).

I'd appreciate some explanations and no, I am not planning to have an affair, hell no! :)

2007-09-05 15:34:37 · 3 answers · asked by Dani 2

soooo. i have a friend whos kinda close, her names Alyssa and she and this guy shane started liking each other. this weekend we all met up at a party and they were both having second thoughts about each other, and she was telling me how she was kind of confused about the whole thing, and she was going to see how everything went. (keep in mind that they never hooked up or became official yet)

I got really wasted and so was shane, and about 10 of us went to another one of my friends house to crash. (her parents were out of town and we're 16 soo it might not seem like a big deal to some older people but it kind of was) but alyssa didnt go. Andd me and shane ended up hooking up, we just didnt have sex because we sort of got interrupted.

I never would've done it if i was sober, and i feel really bad about it because we're keeping it a secret from Alyssa. The problem is i don't think i regret it and i might have feelings for him... should i feel bad about this? what should I do??

2007-09-05 15:32:39 · 4 answers · asked by Yasmin 1

I just got into an argument where I had to defend the military.

the argument was "they take orders from others, so they are bitches.

2007-09-05 15:29:37 · 5 answers · asked by That Guy 4

I must have some of the worst luck with women. I have been trying to get off of the singles list for a while and every chance I've had has ended up badly. From things like me saying the wrong thing to other guys making their move just slightly faster than me, its just a nightmare I can't wake up from.

Sometimes it's that I meet them then they don't want to talk to me, sometimes I find someone and they move far away. Anyone have some sort of answer to break this bad luck streak???

2007-09-05 15:10:46 · 22 answers · asked by wcwnwo_4life 1

Would you move to another country for your boyfriend without a ring? without a promise of marriage? My bf is moving to the UK from the US. We've been together 14 months and we planned to continue dating there. But my bf is not ready to promise marriage. Do I deserve that? We are in our mid to late 20's.

2007-09-05 15:08:56 · 14 answers · asked by Confid321 2

2007-09-05 14:51:13 · 10 answers · asked by Lucky 1

I've noticed that a lot of guys, from my ex-boyfriend, to a guy I've got out on a couple dates with to my brother will call me, but not leave a message. WHY?

If they rang me, obviously they must have wanted something.

When my females friends call, 99.9% of the time they leave a message even if it's just, "Hey Lynn. Just wanted to say hi and see how you're doing. Later".

Why can't guys do the same?!

2007-09-05 14:48:09 · 12 answers · asked by o.O 1

I'm a teenage guy. When a boy likes you do you give signs for him, so he knows and he'll ask you out or do you let him do all the work and not give a hint that you like him.

2007-09-05 14:43:53 · 5 answers · asked by Luke N 2

I am 17 years old and I went to biology class today. My best female friend was sitting behind me and I turned around to ask her something when I turned around and I looked eyes with this handsome guy! It was for a few seconds that we looked into each other's eyes... then I turned back. After class we didn't look back at each other and I just left class.
What could this mean?!
THank you! <3

2007-09-05 14:31:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anna G 1

well i will call them girl one and girl two for um identity purposes....

well girl 1:
i have known her for over a year, and i realy think she is pritty and she gets a PERFECT 10 on my scale (i dont mean to sound heartless or label, im just sorta trying to illistrate something; and i know looks arent everything....) well i asked her to homecoming last year with flowers, and the whole enchilada (i knnow im romantic...jk) and she said, no cause i knew her for like 2 mo. so i guess she was tramatized, and didnt talk to eachother till second semester... and now were like best friends, and joke around and have lots of classes together and sit next to eachother, and now we work togeather on projects and stuff. so i wanna ask her again this year since im a senior and this is my last chance.... i just dont wanna mess up our strong friendship. she has a funny sense of humor and we realy click

Girl 2:
(look at additinal info)

2007-09-05 14:28:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous