even though we've known each other for 3 weeks and still have a lot to know about each other...i know he's experienced thats what i love about older men..he is 22 i'm 19. i am very unexperienced btw...never had a real kiss (sober ).
2007-09-05 18:27:01 · 23 answers · asked by san francisco grl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you are really the one who has to decide what is ok for you. What you are ready for. And remind yourself that there is never a rush; that would be missing the whole point!.
I think you should feel free to be as affectionate with someone as you want to and that you are comfy with. Same for being sexual with someone but add the real need for protection and the possibility that he may just want to use you.
And ask yourself if it will hurt more if you sleep with him and break up and if that is something you can deal with if it happens..
But most important think of if he is special to be with!
Best wishes.. :)
2007-09-05 18:38:57 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ ~Sigy the Arctic Kitty~♥ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't Rush it ! You are both young ; enjoy each other's company , being friends , getting to know one another really well .
Yes , you can get physical , but it changes the relationship , not always for the better . Your time together will be taken up with kissing and cuddling and wanting to make love . Maybe you would like that . 22 to 19 isn't what I would describe as an older man ; but just right for both of you . He must be a nice young man , that up to now he hasn't been pestering you for sex . If you want to , when you say goodbye in the evening , open wide your arms for him , give him a hug and a kiss . You don't have to snog , with your tongues down each others throats . Best of Luck , have fun !
2007-09-05 18:45:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't rush into it immediately. I know we all sometimes have, erm, "urges" but it's not worth ruining your relationship by getting physical right away.
I honestly think kissing is alright whenever, I mean the day you go out just go ahead, knock yourself out. But when you're talking about doing more than kissing, think twice and be sure to consider all of the consequences. If you've never had a REAL kiss, than I think you should definately not get physical yet. If this boy really cares about you he'll understand, no matter how experienced he is. You just have to know when you're ready, and don't let him ever pressure you into doing something you don't want to do.
2007-09-05 18:32:23 · answer #3 · answered by i love love 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Start with kissing. Then get to know each other better. Take it slow, and don't be in a hurry. You will have the chance to meet lots of experienced guys. You'll learn more and better from someone who loves you. Or at least really likes you and cares for you.
2007-09-05 18:31:22 · answer #4 · answered by mustlovedogs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to get "physical" but I wouldnt go all the way.
As that could and most likely would ruin your guys relationship. Start out small until you feel comfortable doing other things. As for sex though I'd wait!!!! You really need to wait unitl you are comfortable with it and if you are comfortable with it now, you should wait until 6 Months-year.
2007-09-05 18:34:25 · answer #5 · answered by Incy89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 weeks is not too long to get to know someone, but I think you can kiss him, and then you will be able to tell if he just wants to use you are if he actually loves you. If his first kiss is intimate and inviting and not pushy than I would say you should begin to trust him, but you know this already, just be careful you don't get your heart broken.
2007-09-05 18:33:57 · answer #6 · answered by Nate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-10 01:23:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's older and more experienced. There is your answer. If he likes you that way he will make the first move. Listen to your heart and also use your head.
2007-09-05 18:31:02 · answer #8 · answered by Gottaloveher 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you are comfortable....with EVERYTHING, sense he has experience then odds are he will want you to do some things other girls have done.
Are you ok will all the positions? And you ok wil giving him oral???
things to consider.
If you feel you are ready, then of course its okay.
but if you have the smallest sliver of doubt, then dont. cause you will regret it.
2007-09-05 18:32:10 · answer #9 · answered by Megan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say its okay to get physical but wait on the sex. you dont want your first time to be one you regret, unless its really damn hot, so give the physical bit a go
2007-09-05 18:32:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋