Since my first love broke up with me after 3 years, i just cant seen to understand what being happy is anymore.I tried getting back with my ex but i only found out **** about that she didn't really love me and it was all a lie and i lost it and i hit her and now i'm going ot jail.I used to be that really nice kid, going to college and never getting into trouble but now becuase of this pain that i have i seen to want to use drugsand i'm alway sad,angry and deppresed.I'm always thinking about killing myself or killing her for this pain she is cuasing me .I did so much for her and sacrifice and stood by her side but at the end nothing matter .What can i do to get help or is their help for what i'm going through or is it just going away cuase its been six months since this she left me and i'm going ot jail next month.Please Help Me?Anyone .I'm scared that i will be a drug user or worse a murder.
2007-09-05 17:16:57 · 12 answers · asked by jake 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need help.
Everyone gets their heart broken; everyone feels betrayed when a person you love dearly doesn't reaturn that love.
Take this time in jail to examine your life. Realize that you are better than her and if you kill yourself, she, in effect, wins.
You know, Tim Allen went to jail (drug dealing) and he got his life back on track. If there is a jail shrink, talk to see how you can rechannel your life. any more time spent thinking of her makes things worse.
Leave it all behind
2007-09-05 17:25:57 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I felt similar to you when my bf left...we didn't break up immediately, and I eventually ended the relationship, but I did everything for him including giving him a place to stay. I was pregnant when he left town and he PROMISED to be back for the birth of our daughter....LIES LIES LIES. He's NEVER seen her...HEARTBROKEN? OH yeah, I know heartache!! I have to make sure that OUR daughter has all that she needs to live while he's off with some other girl talking about marrying her. I never turned to drinking or drugs because I knew I had to keep myself together for my daughter. You need to stop just because it's not good for your body. You have a lot of life to live. I won't say that the woman of your dreams is around the corner, but give yourself a chance to grow into a person that will love again and can be loved by others, as I'm sure you already are. Hold on sweetheart!!
2007-09-05 17:29:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, just settle down. You need to find a good friend to talk to or go to a counselor. Life is way to short and their are way to many girls out there to let one destroy you. I'm not sure why you hit her but make a promise to your self that you will never hit someone again and you also need to promise yourself that you will not turn to drugs or alcohol. That will certainly make your life worse. Try to think of all of the things you can do to better your life once you get out of jail. You didn't mention your age but it's never to late and never give up. Maybe you have a family member that you can confide in. You need to find someone to vent to and someone who wont pass judgment on you. Good Luck and don't give up!
2007-09-05 17:28:38 · answer #3 · answered by abby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are really young. You need to talk to someone (a therapist) right away. You laid your hands on a woman. You already blew it. Consider the fact that you didn't really love her if you did that. If you are the type of man that hits a woman, I don't think that being a murderer is your biggest fear if you are on your way to jail. Small men hit women. Don't bend over in the shower.
2007-09-05 17:26:37 · answer #4 · answered by drivenmusicnyc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are certainly honest and that is admirable. You need to commit yourself to a hospital where you can receive some treatment for these homicidal/suicidal tendencies. It sounds to me that you are a danger to yourself and others and you need help NOW!
I hope you seriously consider these words and get the help that you need immediately!
You can walk in a hospital tonight and sign papers to have yourself committed. This will also only benefit you when it comes time to go to court because the judge will see that you are trying to help yourself.
2007-09-05 17:26:39 · answer #5 · answered by sleepydad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said that you are going to jail. Thy will help you there. You can not force any one to love you. you can't blame some one for causing you to fell the way you do. You need to look in side of your self. Get help soon. Good Luck.
2007-09-05 17:27:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is help. Call your local Mental Health Association for a referral to a caring counselor.
What you are going through is temporary, but needs attention, now!
Heartache is hard, but it is curable. Don't give up!
2007-09-05 17:22:43 · answer #7 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sun has rise and fall, life has up and down. I would advise you to let it goes, start a new life and turn over a new leaf.
2007-09-05 19:06:40 · answer #8 · answered by Mike P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would want to go back with someone who left you for another? That is not love. To let another use you. Do your time and let her go, she will get her destiny.
2007-09-05 17:27:37 · answer #9 · answered by Coop 366 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously? If you mean what you say feel free to email me. Go to my profile so you can if you want to talk.
2007-09-05 17:22:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋