usually taking my top off, a guy making me give him a ******** who i dont even like, and 3 guys feeling me up. i dont really care but i know that is not the person i want to be. is it bad or is it okay?
2007-09-05 18:02:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you know you do not want to be her, then stop drinking to get drunk (if under 21, stop drinking). Only you can want to stop. Now it is time to get deep; Figure out who you do want to be. If you are not single now, get single and find the young lady inside of you without any boyfriend(s) influence. It may take a month, but most likely longer. Know who you want to hang out with. If you do not want to become that girl who does whatever to whomever, do not hang out with those people who put themselves and each other in those situations. Stick to your values and morals and do not lower your standards for anyone.
2007-09-05 18:10:33 · answer #1 · answered by bobbo342 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's bad. A few suggestions:
-Obviously, don't drink so much. Have 1 or 2 drinks, not 10.
-Don't drink around the sort of guys who take advantage of random drunk girls. Those ones aren't worth your time anyway.
-Go out with a female friend who doesn't want to be the sort of person who gets drunk and messes around with all the guys either. You can make a pact to stick together and not do that kind of stuff.
2007-09-05 18:14:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say all this and in the middle you write: "i don't really care but I know that is not the person i want to be"
You are asking a group of strangers whether that is bad or OK. You are an intelligent person, yes?
You KNOW it's isn't. And you DO care. You are not fooling anybody with your game. Maybe you just like what happens to you. It's your life. You will have to decide what you want to be and what you will deal with. No one else can figure out your life but you.
If you don't know, a bunch of strangers aren't going to give you the magic answer, honey. My suggestion, find some professional therapy and quick.
2007-09-05 18:07:17 · answer #3 · answered by Persephone 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you don't care then why ask if its okay? If you want a bad reputation as a **** than keep doing what your doing. If not stop getting drunk. In my opinion you should stop getting drunk, your going to get hurt.
2007-09-05 18:16:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like to carry your drinking habit way too far. Time to get some self respect. You are going to end up in trouble one day letting yourself get that drunk.
2007-09-05 18:05:31 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how you look at it.
a. if you like getting drunk and ending up in bad situations, then it is ok to you.
b. if you don't like it, then quit drinking because it isn't cool.
2007-09-05 18:05:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont get drunk then, simple as that lol, you should know better than getting drunk around men.
2007-09-05 18:05:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its obviously not good for you if you have to ask and stop trying to use the excuse of alcohol because you know that's what you just wanna do... decide you want more for yourself and you will get more then what you are right now...
2007-09-05 18:09:08 · answer #8 · answered by I Heart 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well how about you stop drinking? If you do things you don't feel good about why do you them? I think these are some questions you need to sit down and ask yourself.
2007-09-05 18:07:02 · answer #9 · answered by Ashima 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
stupidity breed stupidity you see i dotn believed you dont know what your doing since you knew those men what they do to you & yet you let them somehow it seems your enjoying the extra attention your getting but girl dont make it so cheap for them your really making your self so low....if you cant stop drink then at least be RESPONSIBLE & at least respect yourself...
2007-09-05 18:07:09 · answer #10 · answered by Dave B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋