I'm too chicken to ask girls out and girls don't like me. I'm 25 and pretty much have gone nowhere with girls.
What's it like to be an unattached loser for the rest of your life?
2007-09-05 18:22:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how about ask this question? what's it like to be with a person that you like and likes you the most? be positive pal.
what's bothering you? were you thinking that other men are much better than you? look around and see for yourself what you can offer these girls that others can't. most of all, try to focus more on your career rather than worrying about how to ask girls. shift your focus into being successful. before long they'll be the one to ask you when you feel confident enough about yourself. and don't be a jerk or a loser when you get there, ok? because you'll end up with the trash of the city if you do that and you wouldn't want to be a garbage collector either. sorry for the words but i just had to stress it. good luck!
2007-09-05 18:34:28 · answer #1 · answered by Desiree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OFF I AGREE ABOUT GETTING RID OF THE PIGS GET U A SMALL DOG OR SOMETHING,ANYWAYS I HAVE ASK MYSELF THIS SAME QUESTION BEFORE,THE MORE I TRIED I DIDN'T GET ANYWHERE I WOULD GO TAN FOR A FEW MONTHS GET MY NAILS DONE GO OUT AND BUY AN EXPENSIVE REALLY CUTE OUTFIT AND SHOES,GET HIGHLIGHTS PUT IN MY HAIR I DID IT ALL AND ITS ALMOST LIKE NOBODY NOTICED ME NOBODY,SO I FINALLY GAVE UP ON TRYING AND THAT'S WHEN I MET THE LOVE OF MY LIFE.WITH MY NAILS ALL BREAKING OFF,I HADN'T TANNED FOR 5 MONTHS ,MY ROOTS WERE DIFFERENT COLORS,I HAD ON JOGGING PANTS AND AN OLD TEE-SHIRT AND I WAS AT THE LAUNDRY MAT SWEATING WASHING CLOTHES,FUNNY HUH?ALL AT ONCE I TURN AROUND AND THIS GUY IS TALKING TO MY LITTLE ONE AND I WALK OVER THERE PULLING HER AWAY AND GIVING HIM A REALLY MEAN LOOK,WELL THE REST OF THE TIME HE DIDN'T SAY ANYTHING ELSE UNTIL I WAS GETTING READY TO LEAVE I WAS CARRYING MY CLOTHES TO THE CAR AND HE GRABBED MY BASKET FROM ME AND SAID LET ME GET THAT FOR U,I WAS STUNNED REALLY DIDN'T KNOW WHAT KIND OF ATTITUDE I SHOULD HAVE AT THIS POINT,SO HE WALKED THEM TO MY CAR.I SAID THANK U HIS WORDS WERE UR WELCOMED CAN I TELL U SOMETHING,I REPLIED YEAH,HE SAID U HAVE THE PRETTIEST EYES,AND UR SUCH A GOOD MOTHER WITH YOUR LITTLE GIRL THEN THE CONVERSATION LEAD TO A NIGHT OUT AND 7 YEARS LATER STILL SO IN LOVE,SO MY POINT IS IT WILL HAPPEN WHEN U LEAST EXPECT IT STOP TRYING AND YOU'D BE SURPRISED,ALSO IF UR ANYTHING LIKE ME IM VERY PICKY AND THE GUYS I MET HAD TO PASS MY TEST,SO IN SOME WAYS IT HAD AL-OT TO DO WITH ME THE REASON I COULDN'T MEET SOMEONE,BUT I CAN BET YOU ONE-DAY THAT SPECIAL PERSON WILL COME INTO UR LIFE,JUST BE PATIENT AND YOU'LL BE GLAD U DID.
2016-05-21 21:37:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. You're still young. I think it's far better to be a 25 year old unattached male than a 26 year old divorcee with a 5 year old daughter. You actually have a chance at finding love. Be patient. Good things come to those who wait.
2007-09-05 18:27:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi.
Your not a loser, and your not going to be single for the rest of your life.
You will find someone special, its just that she's not come your path yet, wait and you will see.
Dont lose hope.Its what drives you everyday.
And who said nice girls are easy to find?
Things will change.They always do, and they will come like a suprise.
Good-luck.
Ruby.
2007-09-05 18:47:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a guy who is about 40 and still like that. he is desperate. frankly, he looks to me like one of the biggest losers I've seen in my life. I knew another guy who was like that at 25, but kept trying. he got married and seem to be happy. I think, you need to do something about it. get some exp, the more you get the easier it becomes. start dating some girls, even girls you may not like much, if they like you. just get to know girls, and earlier or later you'll find someone who is right for you.
2007-09-05 18:33:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some ca hones and ask a girl out, the worst they can say is no. show interest in someone that makes a lot of eye contact with you.
2007-09-05 18:28:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get on with life, dont wallow, make yourself a worthwhile person - make what you are far worthier than what you look like.
2007-09-05 18:30:16 · answer #7 · answered by pete the pirate 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's only one thing worse than being single and alone and that is being married and alone. Just live your life and it'll happen when it happens.
2007-09-05 18:45:01 · answer #8 · answered by sunny 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How would I know what it's like?
This sounds like a joke to me that you would post such a question and phrase it like you did. Pick me as best answer.
2007-09-05 18:34:51 · answer #9 · answered by Sister Girl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know, but you don't need to dwell on it. Find some hobbies, classes, sports, etc. to be involved in.
2007-09-05 18:26:53 · answer #10 · answered by mel s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋