So i was friends with this guy for about 2 years. We've recently began dating(about 2 months ago). We've both really enjoyed spending time together. We have very similar backgrounds as far as our family goes. This has brought us even closer together. He has told me that most of his past relationships have ended badly, and have ended because of the other person and not him. So tonight he said that he thinks that we are moving too fast. I completely trust his word, like I said before I've known him for awile and he is very sincere. He says that things are almost too good with us. Like I said we've been having a great time together. I just don't understand. Is he just scared. He says that he does not want to stop seeing me. He wants to continue to see me, but just a little slower. Is he scared or what?
2007-09-05 19:00:33 · 5 answers · asked by my name here 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know what to tell you. Read the questions on my profile. I'm in the same situation. My guy and I's families are real close, like before we were born close, yet he is shying away from commitment and we have been seeing each other for 2 months as well. Read some of the comments people left me. They might help. Good Luck.
2007-09-05 19:06:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably scared of getting hurt again. Maybe he got burned pretty badly in the past. Give him enough time and space to reassess his feelings. It's easy to say you like someone when you are caught in the motion and having fun but If he honestly loves you then it's about time he forget about his past and commit to you.
There is always a risk of getting hurt when we love but does this stop people from loving? Certainly not.
2007-09-06 02:19:42 · answer #2 · answered by j.anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it does sound like he's scared. Since you've been friends for quite a while, I bet he's scared of losing your friendship. Not only that, but you mentioned that his past relationships didn't end well. He's probably afraid that if your relationship ends, it also won't end well, and he'll lose your friendship.
2007-09-06 02:10:34 · answer #3 · answered by SpaceGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because it has only been 2 months.
2007-09-06 02:04:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient, it has only been two months. He does not want to jump into something, and neither should you.
2007-09-06 02:23:40 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋