Me and my bf is together 4 almost 2 yrs. I love him so much that i give him everything. He cheated on me so many times that i catch him w/ the other girls and his lame xplanation is that he just want to play but i am the only 1 that he really love.He call me foul words everytime he's angry and fight w/me when i call the girls to ask the real score and he even beat me cos of it.I try to go away from him but he does'nt want to stop calling me and ask for my forgiveness.I forgive him and again just to found out that he have a new girl w/him.He keep lying and fighting w/me. And if i go away he keep chasing me..Why he is like that.He even ask money from me for a food and just discover that he use the money to bring the girl to the hotel.He promise me so many times that he will change but every two months he will do it again.Please advice me why he behave like that and keep saying that he reallly love me only. What does he want from me?
2007-09-05 18:06:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What does he want from you? Exactly what you are giving him. Allowing him to be a lying, cheap, faithless, cheating bastard who'll take advantage of you. THAT'S what he wants. and you are giving it to him. If you are happy with that, then I'm not judging you. But in my opinion, you are worth more than that, and should be held in far greater value than just a cheap piece of **s he can have whenever he tires of the hoes he goes out with.
Please, dump the guy. he's not going to change. Find value in your life. God valued you enough to give up his life you. Hold yourself to that high standard and look for someone who will treat you at that high standard. Repeat--- DUMP HIM NOW! (yes, I'm yelling, but I've seen enough heartbreak in my llife to let you know how strongly I feel you are being used and abused. Do not waste yourself on someone who DOESN'T love you...
Good luck...
2007-09-05 18:18:24 · answer #1 · answered by Asking 1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is not showing you real love! When you look at your relationship, you know you want better for yourself. When he calls you foul names and beats you, decide at those times what move you should make and stick to it. He will cry and beg, but some day you will be able to love yourself and have someone truly deserving of your inner beauty. I left my abusive husband 5 years ago. he cried and begged, but by then I had heard enough words. No action. Pick a "final straw" moment (at what point you will leave) when he crosses that line, leave him for good.
2007-09-05 18:19:02 · answer #2 · answered by gerlawgoody1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have answered your own question Lets look at it You have saide he is cheater He told you I want to have sex with any one he wants But please be avaible when he needs you You have saide he calls you foul names wich means he is verbally abusive You have saide he has phisically abused you This scenerio repeats itself all the time and will escalate to more serious behavior Count these red flags and move on do not look back You are worthy of being treated better and should not expect less It is time for him to grow up get a job and get a life and be responsible for himself Love is not verbally abusive Love is not phsically abusive Love is not a mentally abusive game Love is respecting each other and each others feelings Love is growjng with each other and not controlling Look back you have answered your own question
2007-09-05 18:24:46 · answer #3 · answered by chameleon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants control over you. You have to leave him. He's too abusive. No one should ever beat you. Call the police next time he stalks you after leaving him. You are not alone. Women tend to think that their BFs and husbands are beating them out of love and keep going back to them. Don't be one of those women.
2007-09-05 18:17:14 · answer #4 · answered by Little Miss Post 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a swift kick in the rear. He is just playing you for the stupid person you are. Wake up. Wise up. Do you really like being treated that way, if not then change it. Stop being a puppet on a string.
2007-09-05 18:15:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he takes your money and spends it on other girls and he takes your food. um...the answer is pretty clear to me, he's broke and becuz ur his gf, he's using u to get the stuff he needs. he says he loves u and he keeps chasing after u cuz he's too lazy to get his butt off the couch and work for himself. he'll never change, and. u gave him way to many chances. a guy only deserves two, after that u should be done. cheat on u once, shame on them, but cheat on u twice, shame on u. just one day when he's out or something, move to a different appartment and change ur number. it's as easy as that.
2007-09-05 18:16:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny no, run away. find a new man. move on. he is NOT right. you should have left a LONG time ago. just block his number from ur phone. block him from contacting you anyway. it might be hard for you, but look at what he's done to you. write a list of all the crap he's put you through.. look at it everytime you feel you need to tlk to him.good luck
2007-09-05 18:19:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has cheated on you befor than he is gonna keep doing it if you let him slide dont just sit around tell him and make it very clear to him that it is you or the other girls
all he wants from you is to know that you care so lay down the law and see what happens
2007-09-05 18:16:23 · answer #8 · answered by !it is me! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes abusive andyou like him you msut not have much respect for yourself. well that takes time but you can go for that but i would suggest you moving or get away from him he will only get worse and he will cheat till the very end this is not a good live for you you deserve more then this. please get with your parents or someone and leave hima nd forget him its best for you.
2007-09-12 17:46:42 · answer #9 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in an abusive relationship. You both get what you need out of it obviously or you would have left him by now.
Stop enabling his behaviour, get a backbone & GET OUT.
2007-09-05 18:16:09 · answer #10 · answered by Jen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋