i met this girl at my homie's party and we kinda talked and we hung out for a bit but didnt really get to know each other but she seem pretty chill and shes great looking, when i left she put her # in my phone, so the next day i txt her but she didnt reply. she lives about 1:20 hr drive from me and im really interested in this girl. what should i do?
2007-09-05 17:33:24 · 30 answers · asked by George 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well i am "A" girl so i should know. call her ask if you guys should hang out some time get tea, coffee, or any kind of drink she likes. talk about your interests and what you do.
Dont be all oh man i want to get to know you kind of way but you do like dont be all up in her face all the time maybe have coffee like one day then two days later then the next have dinner then ask her out if you have a good time tell her we should do it again some time and maybe do it again on the third date you can kiss or maybe the second date but not on the first then you may be able to move on past a kiss on the third date unless she doesn't want to then take her out on really nice dates like dances and good fancy dinners. so dont have like sex with her on the 5th or 4th date its just wrong wait until you get married on the 6th date you can ask to be more than friends and you know get together so there you go then you are on your own.
2007-09-05 17:41:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I would have called her, not text to her. That is so business like and not really personal. It would have been better for her to hear your voice because that would have let her know your emotions. I suggest that you call her and if she does not answer, then leave a good voice mail. If she does not call you back, then move on. Text messaging is worse than an e-mail and that is not the way to get to know someone that you have met in person.
I never reply to text messages, because it is stupid that someone can't just leave me a voice mail and tell me what the call is about.
2007-09-06 00:40:47 · answer #2 · answered by Boomer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely she's received your text if she has that service on her phone. I would have called rather than text, because atleast you know she knows who oyou are. Did put your name in the text? I wouldn't call again right away, because if she did get your text you'll look too anxious. I would wait a couple of days (more like 4 from the text) and giver her a call. I wouldn't mention the text.
Hope it's a match made in heaven.
2007-09-06 00:39:08 · answer #3 · answered by Phoenix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, I'd call her and make sure she gave you the right number. Secondly, if she did you have to assume she may not even get text messages and that's why she did not respond-not everyone has that program on their cell network.
Thirdly, if she does answer when you call, ask her out, it's pretty simple. If she likes you, she will say yes, then you can go pick her up and show her a good time.
P.S. Will you please answer the question I posted on here. Thanks in advance.
2007-09-06 00:46:01 · answer #4 · answered by Sister Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Text you baby why would you call her. Plus i dont think its a good idea. A hour and 20 mins for a girl you dont even know yet. Talk to her on the phone first.
2007-09-06 00:36:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she was busy, playing hard to get, or maybe she gave you the wrong number to let you down easy. I've done it more than once, maybe she thought she wouldn't see you again i mean u do live an hour and a half away from each other.
2007-09-06 00:40:32 · answer #6 · answered by RadioChild 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what man, if your intrested in her, then go for it, yes its an hour twenty minute drive, but if you are really intrested in her and it sounds like she is too, that drive will seem like nothing, for a chance at something special, give it a try because you don't know what may happen from this and it may be the best thing you ever did.
2007-09-06 00:47:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her. A text message is lame when you are pursuing someone. She probably don't know who the text is from and probably deleted it. Maybe she don't like to text. Just give her a call!
2007-09-06 00:38:52 · answer #8 · answered by boonslilsis 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess, Keep trying until you can set up a meet, or chill at another party with her.
2007-09-06 00:37:59 · answer #9 · answered by Help me plz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really feel it could work then persue her but then she didnt reply to your text so that could be a red flag on your end. To me, that would be a bad impression..but hey..its all you really..what you feel.
2007-09-06 00:38:38 · answer #10 · answered by Cilantro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋