I am just wondering why a lot of guys seem to be attracted to girls that treat them good most of the time but can be very mean to them if she gets upset. My guy friend in his late 20s dated a girl for two months. She was his first real lay, seriously. Anyway, she was pretty damn mean the last break up. He went back two times before but hasn't contacted her since this last time which has been nearly a month.
Here is what I worry about with him. He is going to meet this girl that lives a million miles away. He adores her, so he says he even loves her and she loves him. However, they have never met.
I'm just worried that he'll run back to this other girl that he said he has "amazing" (his words) sex with all summer if the girl from online doesn't work out.
The girl from summer told him he was a loser and a user. He can't possibly still have feelings for her can he? I mean he even wrote some nasty thing about her on his myspace.
Will guys run back for good sex?
My poor guy friend ugh
2007-09-05 18:24:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the reason is that the sex was what they run back for sure when it is good that is what they want a very good roll in the hay a good piece of *** always is good to get
2007-09-05 18:34:29 · answer #1 · answered by harold gardner1946 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your poor friend. If he is getting amazing sex without the commitment, he is not suffering. If you really want to do him a favor, tell him that it is not a good idea to fall in love with someone that you have never met. That girl could be a guy. Believe me it happens every day!!! They tell all kinds of lies online!!
2007-09-05 18:31:35 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea my friend. Probably for the same reason they go after the psycho chicks that can't keep their hormones in check and beg you to stay with them. Ever guy I know says they want a beautiful intelligent girlfriend and then they date the pzycho ***** from hell. When you find the answer to this question get back to me.
2007-09-05 19:00:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question, its the sex, guys are simple like that in some ways, and complex in other ways, he may even have some type of fixation on her if she is in fact his first. Contrary to popular belief, guys do have emotions and sometimes its hard for a guy to get over his first just like it is for a girl. Since your question was so simple, can you tell me why some girls seem to only date asswhole wannabe badasses who treat them like crap.
2007-09-05 18:32:23 · answer #4 · answered by Onii Chan! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Late 20s? First real lay?
Sorry, I can't relate. These kind of stories belong on the Really, Really, Abnormal Psychology Blog.
2007-09-05 18:32:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not just the sex, it's the challenge of the whole relationship that is in our human nature. I know it sounds sick, but it is true. Or it could be that your friend needs help because he is drawn to all this ridiculous drama and BS she puts him through. Either way, cross your fingers and hope he hits it off with this other chic!!
P.S. Will you answer the question I posted in singles and dating?
2007-09-05 18:31:08 · answer #6 · answered by Sister Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are sexual beings. Most women understand that. But if someone is really putting it on you and you have tried others. It's very hard to give up the good sex.
2007-09-05 18:35:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you are the online girl! Don't worry bout it though, guys usually just play with girls like that, but eventually he'll get bored and would want someone easy-going to settle down with. Good Luck! xxx
2016-04-03 05:58:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he referred to her as, "a lay", I can see why she was a *****....that's pretty insensitive. No guy will say no to pussy that he's had before, especially if it's there for the taking. That makes him dumb, and her dumber.
2007-09-05 18:31:41 · answer #9 · answered by imrt70 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl, but i know what ur talking about, and it's because they love being controlled! it makes them feel so loved! lol....nice question!
2007-09-05 18:32:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋