I did online dating last year, it was not good at all. A year later, i'm giving it another try. WHy did i bother? same ugly guys online. The older i get....the harder it gets. But seriously, why does online dating attract so many unattractive guys?? The girls look cute...
2007-09-05 18:55:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't want to offend any of the men who date on line, but it seems like a loser thing to do, so losers do it. How is it possible to not meet one single woman in real life?
Bottom line- don't date online. Desparate is so not sexy, so why would you expect desparate guys to have something you're looking for?
2007-09-05 19:01:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dating for men is a soul crushing, harrowing, negatively charged experience for EXACTLY that reason -- you're throwing out the "ugly" ones.
Imagine if YOU were treated like a throw away piece of garbage -- you ARE saying that to millions of men who read your post on Yahoo -- if you were judged solely and entirely alone by your picture up front without so much as you even being able to utter a single sentence in response to someone you might be interested in and have a great background, then you'd understand...
Women don't experience it like men do. Women don't go for months without dates. They don't go a whole year without getting laid. They have the pick of the litter and everyone is writing them. Men hardly get emails at all, so for them almost all of them get desperate and lonely FAR more than you will ever know or understand.
Nearly all women have ZERO ideas about how bad it is for men trying to date online...spend a few seconds in a man's shoes by putting up a male profile and attempting to contact any of a thousand women in your local area on a dating site once in a while and open your heart and eyes to what it's like to try to talk to a woman, most of whom are extreme feminists and are more interested in their dogs, children and pets than they are in actually dating a human being of the opposite sex.
Try to look beyond pictures -- REAL hearts are deeper than pictures will ever be...maybe you'll find someone worthwhile you had no idea was actually the perfect find...
If everyone dates like you -- rejecting men simply because they're in your perfectionist eyes -- "ugly" then our society is doomed and doesn't have long to live...
2015-03-21 16:02:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Online dating works for some people. The point is to just maximize your exposure to other singles. You can try speed dating, taking classes or even just starting a conversation with someone at a library or cafe. Just continue to meet more people and your chances of finding Mr. Right will increase. There's no wrong or right way to meet someone.
2007-09-05 19:02:48 · answer #3 · answered by Aphrika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because all the good looking, decent ones really are taken or don't have a problem finding women to date. I know a couple of REALLY good looking guys who are members of online dating sites and they are just male whores looking for a free piece of a** anywhere they can get it so I'd be very skeptical of a good looking guy on the site to begin with anyway-they are probably sleeping with everybody.
2007-09-05 19:02:09 · answer #4 · answered by Sister Girl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The girls may look cute but its amazing what can be below the surface.
The men you speak of are no doubt people just desperate to take advantage of the genuine lookers.
That's the way society is.
There's always someone out there that wants to scam you.
You'll just have to be more thorough before going further.
Treat it just like shopping. If it looks like a bargain take a much closer look first.
2007-09-05 19:03:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
90% of the women on online dating sites are just phishing to spam some poor lonley sap. At least all the men are actual men.
2007-09-05 19:02:24 · answer #6 · answered by Gary V 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is a lot of dross and a lot of guys only after one thing (and they dont get it so they get desparate) --- ive met a few ladies and while they did not work out it was just normal dating --- online was good for me it let me expand the locations i was looking at and allowed me to meet my lady ---- by accident and 15,000 km away and i suspect i am WAY older than you are --- keep an open mind and expect anything --- i dont believe only losers use online --- we use it it expand our seach area ---- best wishes
2007-09-05 19:11:17 · answer #7 · answered by trader1867 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
women are people who p.c.. up the adult adult males, not different way around. maximum adult adult males have truthfully no risk at each identifying on up a woman on a area, because of the fact all of the girls on their have been married diverse circumstances, are extremely rude, they over react, are egocentric and purely decide for the dinner like the nurses in Richmond, Virginia or they're purely too idealistic in that they are seeking for for the "appropriate guy" whilst it is going to in no way ensue...
2016-11-14 07:56:54 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then maybe you should go after women instead of men...
2007-09-05 19:02:23 · answer #9 · answered by I Heart 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋