Me and my boyfriend have less than 2 months going out. He wants to have sex but i think is too quick for that. Am i right?
2007-09-05 18:08:45 · 32 answers · asked by karaotica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are right. If you have to ask then you should wait. It's less likely for you to regret waiting than it is for you to regret moving to fast. Trust yourself, when you are ready, you'll know :)
2007-09-05 18:13:59 · answer #1 · answered by Megs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have the right idea... Sex is more than just intercourse. It is giving a part of you to someone and a part of them to you. Each time a man and woman have sex hormemones are released that the body senses that strengthens the bond between them. That is why sometimes it hurts to break up with someone you put so much time and love into. Band-aid example. Sex is something you should give to your husband as a gift because sex is a gift from God. I hope I did not scare ya away. Good luck and God bless.
2007-09-05 18:22:54 · answer #2 · answered by bobbo342 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is what you think, then what is the question? If you think it is too soon, then you are not ready. Are you ready to play that 50/50 chance as to whether you will regret it or not? Spare yourelf. Wait until you are sure. I personally think that is to soon as well. But then again, its how you feel. Don't feel special. Every guy wants get on top. There's no lie about that. So, its really if you are willing to allow him that opportunity at this point. If he cares, he'll suck it up. Just don't go teasing him, its a tad unfair. Just make up your mind and stick with it until further notice.
2007-09-05 18:18:15 · answer #3 · answered by Take23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men want it on the first date if they can get it, but if your not ready after 2 months then do't feel any presure to do it. I take my hat off to you for waiting 2 moths that is quiet a while 2 wait, and the fact he has waited that long says that, that's not all he wants from you. Do you feel waiting another 2 months will make any difference?? if your answer is yes then wait. Good luck.
2007-09-05 18:18:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're still a teenager, wait until you're at least 18.
But, yes you are right for thinking it's too early. If you're at least 18, stick with the 3 month rule. Besides, if he really, really wants to be with you, he won't mind waiting.
2007-09-05 18:31:21 · answer #5 · answered by watersign 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is pushing the sex thing already, then i think he is more interested in sex than being in relationship with you. if he really cares about you he will wait and not push the issue, then when you are truly ready it will happen. remember guys are always ready to have sex, so the woman should control the speed of things. i always let the woman decide how fast teh relationship progresses.
2007-09-05 18:16:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. If you feel that it's not the right time...it surely isn't. The best relationships are built on friendship...the longer you two are together the better friends you will become....and with that you will have the closeness and comfort needed to have a sexual relationship with him. Wait until it feels right.
2007-09-05 18:15:00 · answer #7 · answered by high heels & hoes :) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think it's too quick, then it's too quick. Don't let him pressure you into doing it. You're obviously not ready to take that step with him and that's ok.
2007-09-05 18:13:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey its just two months this is way too fast..first know him more and the point is does he love you or not..if he doesn't then do not..and i think you can tell him that you aren't ready and tell him to wait and he should wait..if he didn't then..think as he wanted you just to have sex not to love you..
2007-09-05 18:16:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're ready, then do so..
If not, tell him that you're not ready.. He can wait, Unless he only thinks with his d*ck.
If he Loved you, he'd wait also..
No reason to be rushing..
You guys have a whole lot of time.
2007-09-05 18:14:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋