Singles & Dating - 19 August 2007

If your single how many girls to do chat to?

2007-08-19 20:51:33 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

we've been dating for one month now, and it was my bday last week. but he hasnt gotten me a present yet due to bank transaction problems. he took me out for lunch tho. i havent been able to see him since then, and it's his bday on wed. should i get him a bday present even though i havent received one?(im not being selfish,just dont wanna look like as i care more abt the relationship)
if so,
what should i get him?

2007-08-19 20:51:16 · 16 answers · asked by cella<3 2

so my guy and i've been together for 8 month and in the begging he treated me like a princes. he was the perfect guy but then slowly he started to change call less and stuff like that and now he's way different i mean if u compare the way he is to the way he was u would never think its the same guy why did he change so much what happened i dont get it

2007-08-19 20:50:58 · 14 answers · asked by Ak 1

i met this guy last Friday when i was out in town.

last Monday he text me and we have arranged to meet up and go out on a date when he comes back from his two week holiday in new york.

saturday nite he text me from new york asking how I was and telling me all about his holiday.
he also asked if i still wanted to meet up with him when he gets back.

is he interested in me???

2007-08-19 20:47:34 · 11 answers · asked by XCuteX 1

i heard that cigarette smoke can cause a man some problems in bed -- like not being able to get it up. is this true?

2007-08-19 20:47:17 · 13 answers · asked by fressh 2

do you like to suck on it till its all gone , or do you bite it midway and chew it up , i like to suck it till its gone

2007-08-19 20:45:12 · 13 answers · asked by likeminded 3

we text HEAPS.
he's single.
and we talk all the time.
and he texts me in the morning asking me to meet him on the school oval.
and he puts x's at the end of every text
and he tells me he likes someone from my school
except whenever i ask who
he says it's a secret.

does he like me?
i like him.

he said he likes someone from my school
and before he said that if he could go out with anyone from my school it would be me.

but now he has met my other friends.
and if he does like me, is he using me to get over his ex?
because his ex and i are like best friends.

PLEASE HELP.

2007-08-19 20:43:24 · 9 answers · asked by Brittany 1

I do not want her to feel despised. At times she requested to go shopping with me and have lunch together. She treated me more like her husband than a friend. Any suggestion?

2007-08-19 20:33:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want to know if theres still girls out theres who never went out with a guy, never been kissed and likes to watch anime and play games...

2007-08-19 20:32:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well theres this girl that i want to ask out. I just dont want to ask her out at the wrong time. Any ideas?(Girls only?)

2007-08-19 20:19:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-19 20:17:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

do girls like when they are bullied by guys in a playful and fun way? Meaning the girl knows that the guy is just bullying her for fun.do girls like it?

2007-08-19 20:08:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i cant get her out of my mind...

2007-08-19 20:02:18 · 6 answers · asked by spontanious 1

2007-08-19 19:52:50 · 1 answers · asked by ameesage4u 1

I recently went to a house with my now ex friend and we went to take a nap in a room. He wanted to have sex but I told him that I wasn't in the mood and that I did not want to do it. He'd always been respectful towards me before so I had reason to trust him this time. I asked him to leave so I could strip down and sleep. He returned to the room(I was wearing panties but no bra under the covers) and crawled into bed facing me. To make a long story short, he ended up inside me even though I had explicitly told him that I did not want to have sex with him. I even tried to push him off of me and said 'You know, I didn't say you could put your d*** in me.' He sort of smiled and went about the buisness(I couldn't move him-he outweighs me by almost 100 pounds) I'm just confused as to whether it counts as rape because I was semi- nude. Did I lead him on, and does this count as rape?
*If it was rape, I will not be pressing charges. I don't ever want to see him again-i just want to move on .*

2007-08-19 19:49:43 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous

Be honest! Don't make up stuff,ok? lol
Truth and nothing but the truth....

2007-08-19 19:29:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really love this guy and I care for him very much. After a couple of years of being out of high school, he has finally made a decision on college. He told me his plans and our relationship continued, we were going to stay together. We didn’t discuss it too much, but whenever we did nothing seemed wrong or out of place. He did however talk with me about our relationship. We had a few things that well needed to be dealt with (some outside factors) and it was time that they were taken care of. And that’s what we did. Its weird, but this guy just doesn’t smile a lot. However the last few times we hung out he was all smiles and he even looked at me a little differently, like I was the best thing ever (which I don’t claim to be).
About two weeks after the last time I saw him I told him we needed to talk a few things out before he left, just to clear anything up or make any plans we needed to. I had tried to talk to him a few other times before that, but he was busy running back and forth to school that I didn’t push it until the end. So that weekend we sat down to talk and out of nowhere he told me it was done. He told me at least 3 different reasons why and none of them really made sense. I knew that he was going to be very busy at school, I knew it and I had thought it all through for months because I knew he wouldn’t. That was one thing I wanted to talk to him about and I wanted to tell him that even if it got tough that I would there for him and that we could just take our time if we needed to. He tried to tell me that he didn’t like me anymore, but I know it’s a lie. In certain parts of our relationship things were finally coming together and were getting closer than ever. All our friends say he still likes me. I’m not saying he doesn’t know how he feels, but it was too quick and I know he is just pushing me away because he has so much going on right now. I tried to talk to him the next day and told him to take time and that he was confused and busy and he told me that no he wasn’t and that was his decision. And the night before he did make it seem very final, with everything that was said.
This was all about a month ago and he actually left for school today. We still want to be friends and are though we have barely talked since. This guy, his future and everything about him is important to me. I don’t want to make his life harder right now, but I don’t want to lose him either. I know I am going to give him, and myself, some space and time, but I also feel as though I should try and discuss things with him again. I know he thinks cutting me out was best and easiest ,and if time is what he needs right now then it is. However (maybe in a month or two) I want to try talk to him again about all of this. I think he needs time to settle down and get into the rhythm of school. I think I also need to relax and think everything out. However when I do try to talk with him I don’t want him to panic and push me away without listening to me either, I was thinking maybe writing him a letter. I think it would be calmer and it wouldn’t seem like there is so much pressure to do anything, except maybe contact me. Do you think that if we do still have feelings for each other, and that if I give him time and space, that he can rethink and come around from his previous decision?

2007-08-19 19:25:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-19 19:07:37 · 23 answers · asked by N.T. 3

I think my situation is serious...
Well In the past i loved n was hurt..badly hurt...Not only in terms of guy but concerning my life in general...
Well i thought i cudnt love again but i met a guy I chose to try to open my heart to him, i mean to try to love him as my 1st love..
But really The guy i think he dnt care abt my feelings.. he really hurt me..i fall out of love Well now i can say that i like him...
I`m still with him...

Simultaneously i`m having family problem etc..

Now i really have a big problem apart liking some1 i really dnt feel anything, not even sadness, from deep inside me i feel something tearing but really i dont feel neither sadness nor anger, it`s as though i`m blank....i really cannot fall in love with anyone, i really dnt feel anything...
It was as though i just accepted anything I dnt care abt anything particularly my feelings..
(If only i still had them)
Anyone had the same experience please
Can u help me with advice please

2007-08-19 19:06:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

alright, hears the situation. one girl is has been my friend since the beginning of this year and she just now told me that she lyks me and would lyk to go out with me. another girl is my ex and she (claims that she) loves me sooooo much and i kno she would do anything i asked her to, but shes already cheated on me twice. another girl is my buddys girlfriends sister that lyks me. and then i already have a girlfriend that lyks me a lot and i can see the relationship goin somewhere in the future, but i can really see myself with all of them and i just dont kno what to do.

2007-08-19 19:04:32 · 9 answers · asked by 2_real 1

2007-08-19 19:01:47 · 25 answers · asked by Tammy P 1

2007-08-19 18:52:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been dating this guy for a few months. I like him a lot, but tend to allow my hormones to point me to other guys because I'm sexually unhappy. Not to mention the fact that he is addicted to kiddie cartoons (seriously). He watches nothing else. I've tried talking to him about trying new and different things, but he doesn't seem to grasp the concept. My kids adore him, he's goal oriented, and he's stable. I really don't want to mess up a good thing but sex is important to me. The fact that he watches nothing other than Gummie Bears, Gargoyles, Smurfs, etc. and calls movies like Apocalypto and Meet Joe Black are stupid, can slightly be overlooked. What should I do?

2007-08-19 18:44:46 · 20 answers · asked by Nae 2

A little about me: I'm a guy with a good education and a decent job lined up after business school. But for some reason, I'm terribly self-conscious all the time (maybe because I have a stutter in my speech and also worry about how I'm coming across to people) and this is affecting my interactions with people and especially with girls. I'm 30 yrs old, but still freeze up some times when I meet a really pretty girl that I might have a crush on. But other times, I'm just fine. It often happens that I'm fine talking to a girl the first few times, which gets her interested, but later, I just start second guessing myself and wonder if she'll like me, and mess up my conversations on future dates. I also find it hard to be entertaining and interesting throughout a date -- there are times I get quiet and there are awkward pauses. Is the guy always supposed to be entertaining? I mean, isn't the girl also supposed to join in and help the guy out if there's an awkward silence? How do I improve?

2007-08-19 18:43:25 · 5 answers · asked by riddler 1

ok i know this is odd but for the last few years im 21 going on 22 and i have always wondered what it would be like with the same sex but i dont think i could im far to scared, of what i dont know but its always been there and i was wondering should this feeling be ignored until it goes away or is it somthing that is going to linger forever i seem to have no control over the feeling

2007-08-19 18:35:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think this is inappropriate and tacky. It makes me avoid them as I feel they are looking for one thing.
It takes time to develop a relationship with someone and when someone mentions wanting to get physical with someone they haven't even met yet, well to me that's just weird.
What ever happened to being a gentlemen and showing some respect to a woman before getting all "touch feely"? When a complete stranger mentions that in their profile, I just want to avoid them completely.

2007-08-19 18:32:55 · 5 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5

All right here's what has developed. Ever since I was younger confidence was never a problem for me. I used to be more confident but every single girlfriend I've have had cheated or walked away from a relationship. The end result is that now I have a hard time talking to girls, and I really want to change that. I'm 20 years old, and I would say I'm a total gentleman with class. I'm not afraid to show others I'm my own person and don't follow what others do, but I have a hard time talking to a girl. So to make a long story short, how can I get a girl to say hi? How can I better myself and not be afraid of rejection from now on? I want to have kids someday and want to meet the right women for me, but if I don't change my ways that will never happen. I'm honest, loyal, charming, sweet, and have all the right qualities any girl would want.

What are good conversation starters to meet new girls? Also how can I be more confident and talk to any girl?

Thanks in advance.

Alex

2007-08-19 18:29:03 · 15 answers · asked by money mike 3

A girl I was friends with/date a little, was playing crazy games. I recently found out that she was sleeping with a married man (who is falling in love with her and she is not) and has been with at least 15-20 guys in the last 2 years, a few of whom were drug dealers. I did NOT know this, any of this. Before I told her, she still would play like she is miss innocent. I called her out, completely, I pretty much told her that she should not play games with me and that I think she is a ho* and slu* for breaking up a home and being so promiscuous. She told me I was childish and "should crawl into a hole and die"....I told her she is worthless and VERY insecure among other things, AND IT FELT SOOOOO GOOOD!!! It felt like I got a monkey off my back, and part of me felt bad that maybe she needs some serious help.

2007-08-19 18:26:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

do u look for looks or personality??

2007-08-19 18:25:18 · 21 answers · asked by g 2

A boyfriend recently came across blogs & "answers" on my yahoo stuff he didn't like. Basically I was referencing an amalgamation of my own experiences, others, & a little fiction spin in order to relate to my advice readership. This particular one referenced a guy I USED to date, but my current bo accused me of this "answer" referencing another person he suspects I've cheated on him with. That's the tone I got anyway when he asked. Oh, ps when we first started dating we spent both our work & personal time together. I almost always stayed the night or went home to a house of family members, or would go out with friends whom he knows. Gee I wonder when I'd have any f*ing time to cheat. Now I'm a little sour over the accusations even though that's not what he said it was about. My a**. He's going on a hunt to find anything to ruin this relationship I think. Plucking my creative straws out of jealousy or control & I don't appreciate it one f*ing bit.

2007-08-19 18:19:20 · 4 answers · asked by Smith 2