I know that I don't dress risque by wearing midriff tops, daisy dukes, or mini skirts. He doesn't like that most of my jeans are figure hugging (tight), or that I like tight shirts. If I wear any sheer shirts, I wear camisoles underneath them. I also wear plain t-shirts from Old-Navy and loose-fitting jeans sometimes. He just doesn't like the attention I get in those figure-hugging jeans and shirts.
But the twist on this is that he doesn't object to ALL my tight clothes, he has even picked out a couple outfits that are worse than what we fight about, just because he likes how they look on me. So when I recently bought something similar to what he said was cute, we fought about me wearing it or putting something on over it, eventhough it's summer. I have compromised some with him, and we still argue. I have purchased more clothing he would approve of but I don't feel I should lose who I am completely just to appease him. What would you do/say?
2007-08-19
14:22:38
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