Singles & Dating - 19 August 2007

I mean in every single conversation, love must be mentioned...

Almost every song is about love.

Almost every movie has love as one of its main plots.

Most people's LIVES revolve around love and it's always "We broke up so I guess it wasn't love" or "Omg I think I'm in love." and so on and so on.

I don't understand it. I don't see anything in love besides 2 people needing to feel wanted when it comes to couples *nature's trick to human reproduction*, in family it's nothing but a sense of obligation, and in friends it's nothing but survival in numbers and to dim the sense of loneliness all human beings are supposed to feel.

So why is the world obsessing over this not-so-fascinating concept?

2007-08-19 08:40:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

im (15) hes (16) and i want somthing tht will show him how much i love him what can i get him

2007-08-19 08:00:38 · 14 answers · asked by gorgea 1

Right now I can honestly say that alot of women find me attractive. I have muscles, I play division 1 college football, and handsome. There were girls who once teased me or laughed at me in high school when I was an overweight nerd. When I came back home from college they wanted to get with me I ignore them like they did not exist. Is this cool revenge?

2007-08-19 07:54:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know this one guy, extremely good looking, very intelligent, virtuous and kind but he'd been rejected by 300 girls because he stuttered whenever he sees a pretty girl
And now this same guy is saying that he will settle for whatever he can get... but his friend says he's too good for me...
so how can I assess how high a man's standards are?

2007-08-19 07:49:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-19 07:29:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

give me your first thought.. the first thing you thought when you saw her:
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2007-08-19 07:25:56 · 22 answers · asked by I Am Jack's Wasted Life 5

I dont really want "love" or infatuation right now...(im too young or whatever better excuse i wanna give myself.)He's a junior in one of my classes and i dont really know why i like him or if i do but i find myself loosing sleep thinking about his smile....is there anyways for me to get over him before falling into another relationship and loosing myself yet again?

2007-08-19 07:15:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

will boys ages.....12-14 ask out girls if they are a little chubby??? Or are the girls totally unattractive to them?

2007-08-19 07:08:27 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met a guy nearly 3 years ago now and have got to know him more and I fell in love with him, I can't bring myself to tell him because in my heart I know he's to good for me and I'm not the type of lady he usually goes for they seem to be tall and confident whereas I'm small and shy, anyway I've gained this reallly good opertunity (excuse spelling, keyboard's playing up)for me to get away from him and maybe figure out how much he means to me, it's 2 months in south america, working with wildlife, I have put my name forward but I need help to find if I have made the right decision or if I'm just running away, please help me any suggestions will be appreciated.

2007-08-19 06:50:12 · 10 answers · asked by ωєℓѕн 4

2007-08-19 06:45:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My exboyfriend broke up with me about a month ago because he couldn't handle the stress of our relationship anymore although he still loved me. We got together a few times after the breakup and had a wonderful time, but nothing made him want to come back. I called him at the beginning of the week and he was very rude to me and said he wants to move on. My ex never says he is sorry for anything, but he ended up texting me that night saying sorry. I didn't respond back so he ended up calling me 4 times the next day and left me a message saying sorry for being rude, he was just trying to make a point, and he hopes I feel better. I never answered the phone and still haven't called him back. He always expects me to be there when he opens up communication between us, but I wasn't this time! Am I doing the right thing by not calling him? I was hoping it might make him think.

2007-08-19 06:34:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, my friend just had this party yesterday and today at her grandma's campground. There was this really hot guy there, who ended up being a couple of years older than us, that we talked to and convinced to come hang out with us (even though it didn't take much persuasion...).
So he came and hung out with us (it was us five girls and him) and he ended up just staying over with us even though his site wasn't too far from ours.
Me and him ended up sharing a pillow, blanket, and pretty much the room that we had. After a while though, we ended up cuddling and holding hands until we fell asleep.
We woke up a little bit later, and he asked if I wanted to kiss. I had just met him, but I pretty much knew everything I needed to know about him and said no without thinking. I didn't want to say no, but he'd caught me off guard and half asleep, so probably not the best time to ask me.

(I'll add more details, just hold on!!!)

2007-08-19 06:30:58 · 14 answers · asked by ? 3

First of all, I already know the answer, but I don't feel I am capable of it. The answer of course is not to be afraid and go on the attack. In other words, I need to be the alpha male. But knowing something intellectually and being able to do it are two very different things.

How do I rise above the shyness and the anxiety?

2007-08-19 06:29:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-19 06:24:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Talking about my mom.

2007-08-19 05:53:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was shopping the other day and this guy just came up and said "nice a-ss"

I walked away..but I found it very rude. If someone came up to you and said that would you find it rude?

2007-08-19 05:52:00 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

so i started liking this guy i met at a frat party a couple of days ago. things were going well...he thought i was cute and i thought the same of him...we kissed, he acts like he likes me so i thought we could date. so tonight we talked and he said he had something to tell me. i was thinking that maybe he'd ask me on a date but instead he tells me that his ex wants to get back together and he's trying to decide what to do. i told him that although i do like him, i understand but to tell me what he decides to do. he said he would but then proceeded to tell me that i could still come over to the frat house to hang out. idk what to do really....he says it wouldn't be awkward but i think it would be. i really like him but idk, would you still go over there?

2007-08-19 05:43:08 · 10 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1

Are men willing to participate?

2007-08-19 05:35:57 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok im 14 but me and my bf wanna do it next summer hes not my age hes older but we think its best we wait next year where im atleast a year older is 15 too young to have sex???

2007-08-19 05:26:55 · 59 answers · asked by ♥ Vannie♥ 3

i was weirded out at first but i could really use the money..idk..am i crazy for even considering this?

2007-08-19 05:14:31 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

If so what should i say to find out for sure

2007-08-19 05:13:46 · 10 answers · asked by Henry M 2

dating

2007-08-19 05:11:28 · 19 answers · asked by BAWNY 1

2007-08-19 05:10:44 · 7 answers · asked by Giggle Bear 3

i don't mean like a 30 year old to a 14 year old but somthing like 13 to 11 or 14 to 12?

2007-08-19 05:03:46 · 47 answers · asked by robertthejetsfan 2

well,i am in a relationship for about 4 years.my bf is really great:sweet,caring,he loves me,he is just perfect!
but lately i worry more and moreabout his cheating on me...
he hasn't done anything wrong but i keep worrying!
he works at a university,he is so busy and with so many girls...
i think that he could easily cheat on me but yet there is nothing wrong.i am paranoid and jealous for no reason but i just can't stop thinking of it...
how will i have my peace of my mind again?
i mean, he can't be cheating on me-he loves me!
but there are so many beautiful girls at the campus and me bf is so goodlooking!!!
i'm going crazy...does anyone know how i will make it stop?


thank you so very much!

2007-08-19 05:03:44 · 10 answers · asked by xadakia 2

guy A- amazingly hott, girls are all over him all the time. not exactly the smartest. you're pretty good friends, but you dont always feel like you could go to him if something's wrong. really good at sports. you'd have, like, instant popularity if you went out.

guy B-pretty cute. SO smart, you can have really amazing conversations. really funny, he kind of has an attitude tho. he's a really good friend, you could trust him with your secrets and you feel like he truly cares about you. he has a lot of friends guys and girls. good at basketball

guy C-really cute. his smarts are somewhere in between guy A and B's. You used to be best friends, but now your just good friends. skates, is really good, but doesnt do sports for, like, school or anything. his style is kind of different, but it's cute. is becoming more and more popular every day (not sure if thats good or bad)

um yeah, i'm kind of liking guy B as i write this...

2007-08-19 05:01:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so this guy that i love wants to have a relationship but he said that the only way we can be together is if we have sex. should i have sex with him or not?

2007-08-19 05:00:50 · 13 answers · asked by Samantha B 1

2007-08-19 04:59:16 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

:)

2007-08-19 04:58:13 · 12 answers · asked by nocomment004 3

My bf of 17 months has finally edmitted to me that he's been talking to his ex girl friend...He said he missed talking to her...He said she understand him, & they can joke about anything...He says he loves her, but only as a friend they've both agreed to that...He said they will ALWAYS be friends...He says he loves me with all of his heart....& sometimes I just don't understand him? & I guess I don't laugh enough? I feel like I'm not good enough. I feel like if he had the chance he would be with her & not me. I feel like I'm being used just for sex & nothing else.I don't think he truly even loves me.or if he ever has.He made her seem better, as if he was comparing us together. I asked him why he loves me, he said becuase your a great gf?? Bull aye? I dunno, I love him..& it's killing me with in that he did this to me,& behind my back for awhile.Everyday just lieing to me. He said he was always going to try to keep it from me, he even made a new account online so I wouldnt find out.

2007-08-19 04:56:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous