Right now I can honestly say that alot of women find me attractive. I have muscles, I play division 1 college football, and handsome. There were girls who once teased me or laughed at me in high school when I was an overweight nerd. When I came back home from college they wanted to get with me I ignore them like they did not exist. Is this cool revenge?
2007-08-19 07:54:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that a lot of guys can give that testimony from how they went a long way after high school. Does it really make you feel good to ignore them now that they're interested? It really does show what kind of girls they are. But then again you're showing what kind of guy you are. Think about it - are you mature enough to be humble or are you always going to look at it as revenge?
2007-08-19 08:00:33 · answer #1 · answered by TegLover 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Either you've posted this a bunch of times before, or it's a common issue...regardless, it's silly. If you are interested in these women, get to know them. If not, be civil but move on. Being unkind, no matter what you think your reason is, is just as bad of karma for you now as it was for any of them if they were ever unkind to you.
How many overweight nerdy girls did you approach during high school? People are visual creatures and if you were physically unattractive and lacked confidence back then, then it's not odd that you weren't popular...that doesn't excuse anyone being unkind to you, but you sticking your nose in the air now is childish.
People change...they grow and mature. Those silly girls may well be beyond their old behavior and might even regret it...you however, don't seem to have followed that path yet.
2007-08-19 08:02:02 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The coolest of the revenges would be not to care. Your posting here shows that you do care. Well, as a nerd to an ex-nerd, I would ignore them totally, maybe even go out with the most unpopular girl of your generation
2007-08-19 08:03:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is only a minor feeling you get from hurting others. I don't like it personally..but in some cases it can be rewarding.
Don't stoop to their superficial levels..I know that you feel as if you are some macho man now but don't radiate it. That is cocky..exactly what they were and are still today.
Be the better man. Don't ignore them, just don't show interest. Find people that love you for you..not your physical appearance.
Goodluck.
2007-08-19 08:01:30 · answer #4 · answered by Oops, did I say that? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't even be about revenge (which revenge isn't cool anyway), you should ignore them because they are shallow people in the first place.
2007-08-19 08:02:32 · answer #5 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, they deserve the cold shoulder. You don't have to be mean to them, just tell them you're not interested anymore. They didn't seem to care about your feelings then, but you don't have to be hateful to anyone. That wouldn't be a good characteristic on your part.
People should always, always, always remember that others don't ever forget about who were cruel to them in their lives and it can hurt someone deeply.
But please don't go getting a "big head" now and start treating those less attractive than you badly.....remember what you felt like.
2007-08-19 08:04:03 · answer #6 · answered by Sandi M 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Okay, you used to be an overweight nerd. Now you're an athletic, muscular jerk. Be a man. Grow up and let it go.
2007-08-19 08:00:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I certainly a nice moment in the spotlight, but don't place too much emphasis on that. Work on yourself internally as well because these things are fleeting...they vanish as soon as the appear.
2007-08-19 08:00:05 · answer #8 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yea thats a kool revenge...dere just slutts..who goes for looks...if one of dem ask u out or trys to impress u..be like helll no i aint going out with u.coz ur ugly to me..
shahreen♥
2007-08-19 08:44:23 · answer #9 · answered by shahreenxoxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haven't you post that before or i am having a deja vu? ok it's a cool revenge. get over it already
2007-08-19 08:02:52 · answer #10 · answered by sarah kay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋