well,i am in a relationship for about 4 years.my bf is really great:sweet,caring,he loves me,he is just perfect!
but lately i worry more and moreabout his cheating on me...
he hasn't done anything wrong but i keep worrying!
he works at a university,he is so busy and with so many girls...
i think that he could easily cheat on me but yet there is nothing wrong.i am paranoid and jealous for no reason but i just can't stop thinking of it...
how will i have my peace of my mind again?
i mean, he can't be cheating on me-he loves me!
but there are so many beautiful girls at the campus and me bf is so goodlooking!!!
i'm going crazy...does anyone know how i will make it stop?
thank you so very much!
2007-08-19 05:03:44 · 10 answers · asked by xadakia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You said that he loves you,then why should you worry about it?
but i let you know,that if you keep thinking about this, your body language will tell him how you think of him and then he will do what you are worry about! if you really love him,so have a little faith in him, and stop thinking like this if not you will lose him ,
think about it my friend and good luck
2007-08-19 05:18:26 · answer #1 · answered by EH$AN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my honest opinion-without trust there can be no relationship- and you love him so extend him the benefit of the doubt, and stop worrying. Jealousy won't do you or your boyfriend any good, and in the end can end up destroying your relationship!!
Relax, remind yourself that he is YOUR man- and just because he works with beautiful women doesn't indicate at all that he is sleeping with them.
Teej.
2007-08-19 05:10:09 · answer #2 · answered by Teej 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to trust your bf to do the right thing if he loves you like he says he does that nothing will come between you two.
2007-08-19 05:08:51 · answer #3 · answered by squirrel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just trust in your bf he sounds like a good man and he woudnt cheat on you so have some faith in him
2007-08-19 05:06:53 · answer #4 · answered by Johnny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is the key and you need to ponder deeply on why you feel there may be a breech in this......and to talk with him. You have been together for four years and your concerns need to discussed with him.
2007-08-19 05:06:59 · answer #5 · answered by Zombie Birdhouse 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to ur bf about it
but if u guys r really in love then u should trust him
2007-08-19 05:08:41 · answer #6 · answered by Nicole C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, GET A GRIP!!!!!!!!!!!! If you don't have reason to suspect he's cheating then don't. If you continue in this manner, you will drive him away.
2007-08-19 05:12:26 · answer #7 · answered by gateach 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you tell him your suspicions. Just sit down with him, and tell him you have a bad feeling. He should comfort you or give you clarity.
2007-08-19 05:09:02 · answer #8 · answered by Jet! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better get yourself under control or he will dump you for one of those women because he'll get sick of you questioning him.
2007-08-19 05:08:00 · answer #9 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good lord, you need a hobby.
2007-08-19 05:07:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋