ok so this guy that i love wants to have a relationship but he said that the only way we can be together is if we have sex. should i have sex with him or not?
2007-08-19 05:00:50 · 13 answers · asked by Samantha B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you don't want sex, don't have it...
2007-08-19 05:04:51 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My bf and i have been dating 8 months now and still not had sex. at the beginning of the relationship he told me he could never not have sex.. that it would only be so long before he couldn't take it anymore. And now i think that this time is approaching. well i did something kind of bad and led him to believe that i'd give in and let him have his way with me pretty soon. Problem is, i don't want to have sex. I want to wait to be more serious, and i also always wanted to wait for marriage. Its so hard though because i care for him and i do NOT want to lose him.. Which is why i'm scared i'll just give in.. i'm normaly a strong person, however when it comes to him i'd do just about anything to keep him around. =( sad i know..
Anyway my advice to you is to say no and dump him if he can't accept this, however I can't use the same advice i'm giving you on myself =( Which is how i know its easier said than done. i hope you make the right decision ( and also myself seeing as i'm in the same situation) good luck let me know how it goes =)
2007-08-19 12:33:02 · answer #2 · answered by sunshinegirl802 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a virgin, you must save your virginity as a gift to your husband. He will respect you very much for it.
It is understandable that your boyfriend wants sex. You say you live him. Persuade him to give you a diamond ring and let your love be right and proper.
2007-08-19 12:06:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry my love but this sounds familiar to the "hit it and quit it" tactic. Why is he so eager to have sex wouldn't he rather let the relationship go fluidly instead of forcing it. I would watch him if I were you!
2007-08-19 12:07:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell him no because a relationship is for more than sex it is for other things to
2007-08-19 12:34:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Samantha B, Absolutly not ! Wait for marrige hon, you will be glasd you did !
2007-08-19 12:09:29 · answer #6 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel that your ready, then it's best that you just leave him alone! You don't need to be forced to anything that you don't want to do!
2007-08-19 12:07:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are programmed for sex, especially visual sex (very kinky), if you love him, do it
2007-08-19 12:13:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like he is a real pig to me tell him no.
2007-08-19 12:05:39 · answer #9 · answered by Louis K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know, boys are so rude! Just don't do it. If a boy asks you again, slap him and run away!!!
Amy xxx
2007-08-19 12:08:07 · answer #10 · answered by Vanessa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no! what kinda question is that? if you were listening to your heart AND mind u would know that clearly.
2007-08-19 12:06:27 · answer #11 · answered by x*claire*x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋