why do guys ask a girl to visit them at work?

Question

i hate visiting people at work. no one will ever go with me. i always feel like i am keeping them from work. never know how long to stick around. and always feel odd if i cant find them at their work. i hate it.

Answer 1

They are most likely bored maybe they want to show off there sexy girl. And trust me guys never work hard at their jobs they do just enough not to get fired from what I'm learning in this world.

Answer 2

I am on the same page as you are... This guy who is feeling me called me from his job and wants to me to come see him. I remeber yesterday I was talking to him for about an hour and he asked for my number, as he was getting it a customer asked a question and he reluctantly went t o help him so I just wrote my number down and walked away he was behind me in seconds I think he left the customer! I think that a guy would ask a girl to visit him at work because he can't wait to see her. Or because if his other chick comes he can just say that you are a customer.

Answer 3

My wife's brought me & the guys coffee a few times at work. I love being able to spend a few seconds chatting with her and the other boys love the coffee so there's never a problem.
If you have a mate that enjoys seeing you for a few minutes during lunch or break that’s one thing. Some jobs don't allow this. Where I work my family comes first. If I have a few seconds with a loved one on my time it's my business and it don’t cost the company a dime. If your asked to stay during work hours I'd shy away for fear of costing someone his or her job.

Answer 4

first I feel its improper makes the girl look like she is chasing the guy and also interfering with his work

i say get some help from above in relationship and it will be all good now and the future=and a drop of advice in frienship turned to true love= first you get married and you dont need a condom and the rest of the things will fit into place instead of disgrace

"In marriage the bed is undefiled, but all the others will be judged." Hebrews 13
and some help from above
true love

spoken from heaven Revelation 1:1 chapter 1 verse 1 & 3:19&20 "I love you and ask you to turn to me from sin, even one past lie. Behold I stand at your heart door and knock, if you ask me in I will com in and be your friend and you mine." Jesus
so I prayed, "Im sorry for my sins, come into my heart and be my friend, thanks for loving me enough to die to forgive me, amen."

Now life is grand
Have a nice day and remember there is a way-prayin for you in that way

Answer 5

If you don't like doing it...don't. It's that simple.

There is no good reason for a girl to visit a guy at work unless she's bringing something to him that's work related, and even then he can meet her outside. If they want you to come into the building, it's probably to show you off to their workmates so they can rate you, which is never cool.

Answer 6

Yeah, I can relate. I'd feel out of place visiting anyone's work. My husband liked to visit me on my lunch breaks. It was nice to see him in the middle of the day before I got off work. n

Answer 7

He's probobly told his work buddies about some cute girl and want to show you off. But yea it would be awkward cause you'd distract them and all that stuff..

Answer 8

Er, what's the problem?

Don't visit anyone at their place of employment, unless you are looking for a job in that place. Or if it's your mom.

Case closed.

Answer 9

Unless she wants to watch this sweaty 16 year old move piano's... I wouldn't want her coming to visit.. ever =)

I feel you though.. it is an awkward situation.

Answer 10

Four reasons:
1) Guys are task oriented
2) Guys like to show off their catch
3) Guys want to be happy at work
4) Guys want you to notice them

Guys are task oriented. Just like women thrive on relationships, guys thrive on work. My mother can juggle all of these things at once: What’s going on with my grandma 3 hours west, My aunt in California, My other aunt in Alaska, her son who is in MN (me), Her daughter (my sister) and her husband in ID, A neighbor who is having financial difficulty, Someone she knows who has a son is into drugs, and that's just in the morning.

Guys can't do that. Don't talk to a guy when he's pouring his morning coffee because he'll spill on himself. Guys focus on one thing and get it done. Women multitask with 50 things in their heads at once. She is all about building relationships. He is all about getting the task set before him done. (He's going to make that pizza if it kills him.)

So, men want her to appreciate what he is wired to do. Men bring their significant other to work to show her what he does. He wants her to be with him when he is in his element or grove. He wants her to see him working and say, "Wow, you are the man!" When she sees him at his apartment, he doesn't feel like she can fully see how hard he works.

Secondly, men like to show off their catch. What do men do when they catch a big walleye when fishing? They get out the camera, take a picture, and brag about it for the next 3 weeks or even years. "Here's the 90 pound bass I caught in 1993 in Alaska. Ain't she a beauty?" And you're thinking, "Have you seriously been carrying that picture around with you since 1993?"

So, a man finally found a great catch. He wants to bring you to work to show you off. "Hey, did you see my girlfriend who was her yesterday?" "Yea, you're the man!"

Third, he wants to be more happy at work. Guys figure, "If I'm happy at work, and if I'm happy when I'm around Peggy Sue, then I'll be twice as happy if I bring Peggy Sue to my work!" So he does. He figures 1+1=2. He enjoys your company and wants to enjoy your company at work.

Men think spatially. Give most men a map and they can tell you where you are on the map. Men associate emotion to a physical location (women might too, I don't know). For me, when I go to a certain amusement park there is a roller coaster that has a memory for me attached to it. Four years ago I was standing in line with a close female friend of mine at that roller coaster. I have been back there 3 times since then. Each time I get in that line, I can almost remember the exact conversation we had in that line. If I had never visited that roller coaster again, I would have long forgotten about that memory. So, he wants to create a positive memory that he can go back to in his head when he is at work bored out of his mind. He can look up over his counter and think, "My girlfriend was standing right there by that table last month." It makes his day go by a little easier.

Fourth, he wants you to just watch him work. I know it sounds weird. You only need to watch him for one or maybe two cycles. Whatever that is. If he is a fry cook and his job is to flip the burger, then watch him do it 3 times. If his job is making a pizza from scratch, then watch him do it from start to finish a couple of times. Tell him he's great at what he does. That's all he wants.