2007-08-19 18:52:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Then when you guys say "yes, I do"
and we ask "Why?" you guys don't like that,either! why?
2007-08-19 18:54:20 · update #1
Mike, you are unbelievable!
2007-08-19 19:11:48 · update #2
I ask it 2 times a month! How about that?
lol
2007-08-19 19:32:03 · update #3
Robert, lol
2007-08-19 20:49:56 · update #4
Raji, not on the list? lol
2007-08-20 06:39:17 · update #5
I'm guessing some men don't like admitting it. Makes them feel vulnerable, you know. I've never said it to anybody, even when it was true.
2007-08-19 18:56:01 · answer #1 · answered by Darth Cheney 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If someone's my girlfriend and she doesn't know already that I love her, WHY IS SHE MY GIRLFRIEND??? As for part 2, well I can see that it is annoying to be asked to justify liking you.
Or maybe he just doesn't want you to place him under arrest or something? I doubt I would feel comfortable having a cop as a girlfriend. Guys in your age group have been through a lot from the boys and girls in blue, hon. Of course if I fall in love, my mind seems pretty much to search for ANY reason it can come up with to make exceptions and find reasons not to worry.
But yeah, even if I'm in love I might still get irked, especially on the second question. Maybe you've thought all about why and are ready to spill it out. But a guy probably will struggle with the question.
Oh, by the way, thanks for the chance to give a cop a hard time. I feel better now. ;-) A BIG hug to you! (Um, at least it feels safe electronically :o)
2007-08-20 03:45:07 · answer #2 · answered by Robert B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I love the woman then I readily answer "Yes, I love you". If she follows it up with "Why?" I turn it around on her and ask her, "Why do you think I love you?" and let it go at that. Or, even better, "What's NOT to love about you?". "Are you trying to pick a fight?".
I'll never understand why women love to play that game, because the second question HAS not right answer and, for the guy to even TRY only gets him in trouble, because the answer the woman was looking for is invariably NOT on the list.
BB,
Raji the Green Witch
2007-08-20 10:31:10 · answer #3 · answered by Raji the Green Witch 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Keep asking WHY! it is a great question, I love creating it!
If they get mad it is probably because they do not know why and that is probably because they do not truly know the love they think they feel. For if they truly loved then it is easy to answer this question.
OR they may have trouble understanding themselves and what the feeling of love is. I remember describing love to my first love and never ever got mad talking about it.
2007-08-20 10:57:09 · answer #4 · answered by James 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That really does not get on my nerves unless she asks it like 5 times a day. I think it is kinda sweet when she asks things like that as long as she is not doing it to start a fight. You know "do you love me?" "yes I do love you" "well then why the hell were you staring at our waitress?!" that is never good. I like it because it give me a chance to tell her I do love her and how much she means to me. Yet like I said asking that question 5 times a day can be overkill then chances are he will turn sarcastic and then there will be someone who gets their feelings hurt. I think some guys do not like it because it can be a trick question and then having to answer why you love them is almost a silly question. We love her because she makes us feel good and happy to be with. We love her because she loves us. Man I wish I had a girlfriend. I do kinda miss all that. :)
2007-08-20 02:01:42 · answer #5 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally as a female, I never ask a man if he loves me, because if he did or ready to say so than he would. If you ask a person that question & they have feelings 4 u, u put them in a weird position 2 day they so when they're not quite ready.....If a man loves u, he will say so & be able 2 tell u....let him say it, dnt force it.
2007-08-20 02:00:32 · answer #6 · answered by T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, because it makes dudes feel like their women don't trust them.
I have learned when women ask this question they are merely looking for reassurance.
So now, I say, yes, of course I do, without getting mad.
2007-08-20 10:32:14 · answer #7 · answered by Emperor Insania Says Bye! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if the guy gets mad, then that most likely means hes just saying yes to pacify you to avoid hearing you nag him. if i could vote myself for best answer on this one i would cause thats how convinced i am that that is how most men are thinking when that occurs. one other possibility is that he does love you but he just wants to chill & your trying to have some serious conversation that he fears will lead to you nagging. this probably sounds mean but i believe its true as can be. cause if the guy truly loves you, then it will be no problem for him to say i love you & tell you why. unless of course its bad timing & he wants to chill.
2007-08-20 01:59:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Men really only want one thing from a woman, and he is wondering to himself why does it have to be accompanied by I love you, when really I don't you are just there until I find the right one, then he will tell that one that he loves her.
2007-08-20 10:37:07 · answer #9 · answered by flannelpajamas1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some women ask like every 15 seconds, and it can get really annoying.
Yes, ladies, we love you! We loved you this morning, we loved you ten minutes ago, and we will love you at midnight! Ask again tomorrow....
2007-08-20 01:58:36 · answer #10 · answered by Expat Mike 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋