A girl I was friends with/date a little, was playing crazy games. I recently found out that she was sleeping with a married man (who is falling in love with her and she is not) and has been with at least 15-20 guys in the last 2 years, a few of whom were drug dealers. I did NOT know this, any of this. Before I told her, she still would play like she is miss innocent. I called her out, completely, I pretty much told her that she should not play games with me and that I think she is a ho* and slu* for breaking up a home and being so promiscuous. She told me I was childish and "should crawl into a hole and die"....I told her she is worthless and VERY insecure among other things, AND IT FELT SOOOOO GOOOD!!! It felt like I got a monkey off my back, and part of me felt bad that maybe she needs some serious help.
2007-08-19 18:26:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everyone has problems and a bad past...What if she really loved you?
2007-08-19 18:31:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, you can't feel bad for her actions. You did not do them. As for calling her out on them, that is a personal decision. Sometimes it does feel good to get something off of your chest. On the other hand, we have to be careful when we do this of what our real motives are, and who the consequences will effect. (For ex. if there were children involved).
2007-08-20 01:32:39 · answer #2 · answered by MoonGoddess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, venting is just what the doctor ordered. However, calling her a ho and a slut, was not even in the equation before you found out all the dirt. Hopefully, this teaches a lesson to you to be more careful, next time, lol.
2007-08-20 01:34:16 · answer #3 · answered by imrt70 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I'm glad you felt bad afterward. It shows you have a conscience. Now, go back and talk to her. She needs help. Girls who sleep with different men are screaming for attention but not that kind of attention. Help her to help herself before she gets herself into trouble, gets AIDS or something terrible.
Now is your chance to do someone some good.
2007-08-20 01:33:06 · answer #4 · answered by All That Glitters isn't Gold 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wonder why you allowed your opinions of this girl to become a monkey on your back. She's obviously crud, why wasn't walking away from her good enough for you? She does sound like she needs some help, but I think you need it too.
2007-08-20 01:33:09 · answer #5 · answered by Kerry 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i have been mean before to other people but afterwards i felt so bad even though i was doing the right thing
2007-08-20 01:32:38 · answer #6 · answered by sofia l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she does need serious help, but obviously you cannot give her any. You should stay away from her!
2007-08-20 01:31:24 · answer #7 · answered by treebird 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with it, but you should mind your own business if it doesn't affect you..might come back to haunt ya. =X
2007-08-20 01:31:59 · answer #8 · answered by shannon_yo7 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋