2007-08-19 19:01:47 · 25 answers · asked by Tammy P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means he doesn't want to spend every waking moment with you.
2007-08-19 19:07:13 · answer #1 · answered by wildeyedredhead 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people can be around each other 24/7 others can't.
Sounds to me like your idea of how much time to spend together is more than his ideal amount of time.
Ask yourself the following....
Are you calling him multiple times in a day?
Are you always trying to be around him or involved with his plans?
Are you trying to get him to drop his plans to be with you?
Are you planning things for times you know he has other things going on?
I had a lady friend who felt the need to call me atleast 4 times a day and would get upset if when I didn't call her. There's really nothing to talk about that often but she didn't seem to understand.
Even married people need interaction outside of the marriage.
Time for work, time for realtionship, time for friends, time for family, time for self....depending on ones' schedule it can be a pain to try and balance.
2007-08-20 02:20:50 · answer #2 · answered by riding128 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're either too smothering or he is a loaner. More than likely you are moving faster than he wants to move but he is afraid of telling you that for fear you will think he doesn't care about you.
The far distance answer is that he is cheating. If he was a player in the past, expect it to be cheating, otherwise it's my first answer. If you don't know if he was a player or not a player in his past, then you don't know him well enough.
2007-08-20 02:10:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that he feels crowded, and wants you to give him some space to do thing without you around. It's not that he doesn't like hanging out with you, but there's times when he just wants to hang out with the guys, or do something by himself.
I'd advise you to listen to him.
2007-08-20 02:09:18 · answer #4 · answered by CRtwenty 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means you are smothering him. Step back. Take some time for YOU. Let him be alone.
GOD! Just let him have some time to be himself.
Do you want to watch him wipe his ...... Do you think you should be with him all the time. Damn quit being so cliggy!
2007-08-20 02:09:58 · answer #5 · answered by bahbdorje 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people need time alone. People who consider themselves introverted need time to collect their thoughts and they draw energy from time alone. I doubt he's playing you. Extroverts feel best around other people but introverts find constant social exposure leaves them feeling jangled and they need time for themselves to feel harmonious again. Giving them time to be alone means they will give their best when they are with you.
2007-08-20 02:12:20 · answer #6 · answered by sticky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it means that he likes/loves you but he needs his space just like you should want yours. i want to be with my boyfriend as much as possible but i also need my own space just the way he does. if you really care for him and dont want to lose him you might want to back off alittle if your nagging him, you'll surely drive him away. good luck.
2007-08-20 02:12:33 · answer #7 · answered by crazylady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it probably means that he has other interests outside of the relationship and wants the freedom to persue those interests (like sports or whatever)...
meanwhile, you are his girl... and he wants to see you, too...
people do need interests outside of the relationship -- friends, hobbies, etc.
i think that is what it means.
2007-08-20 02:09:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well could mean he wants to be with you but soemtiems he just needs to be by himself or go somewhere without you with friends... he might be trying to help the relationship
2007-08-20 02:09:58 · answer #9 · answered by brab-bo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could mean he has a lot on his mind, and doesn't want to share it with you.
2007-08-20 02:11:32 · answer #10 · answered by Here Kitty Kitty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋