I think my situation is serious...
Well In the past i loved n was hurt..badly hurt...Not only in terms of guy but concerning my life in general...
Well i thought i cudnt love again but i met a guy I chose to try to open my heart to him, i mean to try to love him as my 1st love..
But really The guy i think he dnt care abt my feelings.. he really hurt me..i fall out of love Well now i can say that i like him...
I`m still with him...
Simultaneously i`m having family problem etc..
Now i really have a big problem apart liking some1 i really dnt feel anything, not even sadness, from deep inside me i feel something tearing but really i dont feel neither sadness nor anger, it`s as though i`m blank....i really cannot fall in love with anyone, i really dnt feel anything...
It was as though i just accepted anything I dnt care abt anything particularly my feelings..
(If only i still had them)
Anyone had the same experience please
Can u help me with advice please
2007-08-19 19:06:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was there before... you are right! A woman who doesn't feel anything anymore is able to do anything. Like you at that time, i went on hurting my emotions as i was constantly seeking a lot of approval & love from people.
What i did to heal myself was - I moved out & live alone. Became single & stopped seeking for a relationship. In time to come, i allow myself time to heal & seeked professional counselling to help me thru my difficult times too. Then i had new friends & a new life & slowly things begun to become better but i did take quite some time to get there.
So maybe you would like to try what i have suggested. good luck...
2007-08-19 19:32:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my first crush hurt my me really bad and she did not care about my feelings i cryed over her for about a year and just got over her and i do feel like i could ever fall in love with someone and when you do start liking someone you feel as if it might happen again and it will be the same song same dance type of thing the olny thing you can do to get over it is get out there and meet new people i know its hard but everyone goes through it. atleast i did
2007-08-20 02:19:26 · answer #2 · answered by tweeky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is as if you have put up a wall to protect your heart from being broken again. It will not be easy to tear it down. It took a special guy that wanted me to feel strongly for him to make me realize what I was doing. Hopefully when you find the right person, you will open up again.
2007-08-20 02:22:02 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had that a long time ago... same empty feeling. the way you look at things like they have no meaning, monotonous gray and incomplete... yup been there.
all you need is a nice long break from everything. get at least 1 week off from work. enjoy and hang out with friends. go to the beach. move on with your life...
you wont get anything from crying over spilled milk... so get a new one.
2007-08-20 02:18:54 · answer #4 · answered by Mikeguapo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take care of yourself if everytime u get hurt think that i'm the most support and love u
2007-08-20 02:23:53 · answer #5 · answered by PULuN BkTanGGa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋