I think this is inappropriate and tacky. It makes me avoid them as I feel they are looking for one thing.
It takes time to develop a relationship with someone and when someone mentions wanting to get physical with someone they haven't even met yet, well to me that's just weird.
What ever happened to being a gentlemen and showing some respect to a woman before getting all "touch feely"? When a complete stranger mentions that in their profile, I just want to avoid them completely.
2007-08-19 18:32:55 · 5 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry Ladies,
There may be a generational or geographical misunderstanding here but back where I come from, a long long time ago and far, far away touchy-feely meant in touch with your feelings and the feelings and needs of others.
It was kind of replaced by sensitive new age guy (SNAG) whcih was then replaced by something else now that I don't know.
Mmmm so maybe they're trying to say they're nice guys?
I'll just duck off and check all profiles :)
Joe
2007-08-19 19:23:40 · answer #1 · answered by Joe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most guys only think about one thing from women. It is the way we are wired, were all sexual beings by nature. I was very sexually driven but never used woman for it. I have only been with 4 womwn in my lifetime. All were long relationships. I am 35 and recently divorced after a bad marriage that ended in her cheating on me with one of "those" guys. It has taught me how to appreciate a woman who can love you in return and although sex is wonderful, love is more important. The older I get the more I connect the act of sex with love and not just a selfish way of satisfaction. To me it is a beatiful thing shared with someone you truly love. Most men only care about getting off. I guess it is a sign of maturity or lack of. I suggest looking for a guy who looks at things with a more mature outlook and experience in lasting love.
2007-08-20 20:18:00 · answer #2 · answered by Mike S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They do that to weed out girls who have high standards. That's obvious.
2007-08-20 01:41:45 · answer #3 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all guys
do women today want a real gentleman?
2007-08-20 02:32:51 · answer #4 · answered by robert p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you please e-mail me???
2007-08-20 08:14:09 · answer #5 · answered by Chuco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋