why did he change?

Question

so my guy and i've been together for 8 month and in the begging he treated me like a princes. he was the perfect guy but then slowly he started to change call less and stuff like that and now he's way different i mean if u compare the way he is to the way he was u would never think its the same guy why did he change so much what happened i dont get it

Answer 1

in relationships, it just goes away after a while. it doesnt mean that yall dont love each other anymore or whatever. he changed bcus he doesnt have the need to try to impress you anymore.

ive been in your situation.

the real question is, does he still make you happy even though that lovey dovey stuff is gone?

Answer 2

Well becuase in the beginning men try really hard to impress but once the chase settles you get sort of bored and disintrested, the thrill is gone.


OR

You need to do more together in order to keep the relationship alive if not it will fade away.

I remember I felt the same way about my girl it was because we were so busy and never saw eachother so I felt distant, and I feel bad now because I felt like I took her for granted I should have done more, but oh well thats life I hope it works out for you




Good Luck

Answer 3

same thing happened to me! i had the most devastating breakup a few months back. Maybe i feel we girls let ourselves on. if someone is treating u like a princess at the beginning of something, this doesnt mean he geuninely cares! all guys do that to attract women who r silly in thinking that something great is going on. we just want to be swept out of our feet and its only later we realize that it was only perception making us thinking very highly of someone.
i would advice you to just take some time off! u shudnt be running after him. if he geuinely cares he'd come back else there are plenty of fish in the sea. i know its easier said than done ( believe me ive been there) however if u think that this thing is worth enough to be talked through- sit down with him and have a talk. all the best :)

Answer 4

when relationships start they are usually all romantic and what you prefer in one. as things progress the relationship starts to be more relaxed than what it normally was at the beginning. no one can expect a person to never change or feel the same as they did when they first met you. i would call it getting or being comfortable in the relationship rather than perfect.

Answer 5

people change, things happen but if you still feel that he loves you then don't worry. it happens all the time. and you shouldn't be so caught up in the past, it might end up hurting you and all like right now. your compareing him with the past where things was different. if he still is true to you and if you still love him then it's still is good. for all you know you could have changed too. i hope this helped good luck

Answer 6

Most people put a false face to the dating scene. Once they have you, their true colors show {good or bad}. Tell him how you feel. Always remember this: the one who cares the least is the one in control.....

Answer 7

ask him what happened? and ask him if he's feelings have changed for u. or if something is wrong? in most of these situations, communication is the best solution. if u dont want to talk about, try spice up your relationsip as it seems that you have become very comfortable and used to each other.

Answer 8

Try to distance yourself a while so that he will miss you. Sometimes men become to comfortable in their relationships that they begin to think that they can handle it without being as emotional and mushy as they were when you first met.

Answer 9

You have to keep him on his toes. Make life interesting again. Cancel a few dates on him, make things spontanious. When men get board they stop calling, you see less and less of them.

Answer 10

He prefers a girl that can spell.


The new-ness wore off. It always does. In time you learn the real person you are dating. Sounds like you've met him.