Singles & Dating - 16 July 2007

k my bf said that i am to hot and that he isnt the right guy for me. and everyone at my high school told me and him that he is so lucky to go out with me and that we make a perfect couple. and now im so confused. he doesnt know to love me as much as my hotness. im so confused. just say anything that can help. plz

2007-07-16 19:57:04 · 15 answers · asked by *rockstar* 1

i love him and will do anything for him... and he knows that. but he cant just grow up....wat am i doing wrong? PS....im pregnant

2007-07-16 19:54:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

why do women go bk to men who abuse them and leave a man who is good to them, they will go bk to a man who hits,and treates them like **** but when they come across a good true man they leave them because they feel it is true good to be true and go bk to the one who abused them

2007-07-16 19:47:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-16 19:47:10 · 12 answers · asked by Happy Bullet 1

What is the problem, I am fairly attractive and have been told that i look like a combination between pam grier, queen latifah and, chaka khan. My problem is this, the only men that really take me seriously and that come on to me are older men. How come guys in my age bracket do not ask me out?

2007-07-16 19:45:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and a kid were mucking round in his yard and i told him to put a apple on top of his head and i would shoot it off.
The arrow has penetrated his sholder entering from the frontal side of his body it went right through and got caught on the vanes of the arrow it only had a field point on it.
The bleeding has stopped and he isnt in much pain i applied a bit of antiseptic solution so it wouldnt get infected.
Will it need medical attention if we remove it or will it heal by itself. He doesnt want his mum and dad to fimd out.

2007-07-16 19:45:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

It just means there is a loss, but it is still for the best?

2007-07-16 19:42:56 · 23 answers · asked by ursoolastsumer 2

it's driving me nuts. anyone know why he is acting like this all the time? btw I am white and he is black, thanks

2007-07-16 19:40:49 · 7 answers · asked by cuteness 4

im 14, virgin, not meaning to be snobby but im hot and have a nice body, i love orgasims, everyday once a day. and i want to have sex so badly, i actualy have dreams about sex or hot guys, in the day i day dream about having sex with the guy i like, hes 18 and maybe in a few weeks i will be going to his house because i know his sister, do u think if i ended up goingout with him i woudl want to have sex like that day? because i feel as if i just want a boyfreind who i can have sex with all the time and if i dont get the guy i liek i will move on to someone else....god help me

2007-07-16 19:38:28 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-16 19:34:45 · 5 answers · asked by Li 2

My current boyfriend, who I have been with for two years almost, is a total.. Jerk. We got into a fight TODAY because I went to the movies with My dad and kid sisters and couldn't visit him on his lunch break at work. He's ignored me all night. Sometimes I am ready to dump this guy and say "peace," but I know if I see him with someone else it would hurt. We have so much history it's crazy, but I think I deserve better. What's best for me to do? Will he ever change?

2007-07-16 19:15:25 · 11 answers · asked by Cieeeee <3 3

2007-07-16 19:09:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm pretty sure it's different because my guy friend told him i madeout with other guys && now he acts totally different any advice? ?

2007-07-16 19:09:24 · 7 answers · asked by i<3petee 1

I finally told a girl that ive been friends with for a long time how i felt. she told me the feelings mutual, and that she had also felt the same but had never said anything. but anyways it just seems like at some times shes really into me. but then other days she seems like she could just care less. just like little things, like she'll say she'll call, and never does. or she'll cancel plans last minute. but when we ARE together, everything just seems so perfect. but i DONT want to get used! somebody please tell me what to do.

2007-07-16 19:00:03 · 9 answers · asked by Bryan K 1

I am very moody with my boyfriend. for instance, one minute i'll be fine then i'm completely pissed off with him for something he's done. Such as not call me when he says he's going to or for saying something "mean" to me..

Now anyway, i'll get pissed off but won't tell him why i'm upset. i sorta figure its obvious and he knows what he's done. Anyway i am also very forgiving and my moods don't last long.

From a guy's point of view is this a bad thing? would you break up with a girl over it..?

ps.. i only get so upset because i care so much. If i didn't care i wouldn't be getting upset over him..

2007-07-16 18:52:03 · 6 answers · asked by starryeyed 5

So I'm going out with a great girl. We've broken up twice for reasons that where my fault. I love her and she says she loves me but, there is this problem that really bothers me, and I don't have the ba*ls to tell her because I feel ashamed and embarrased in such an ugly way. Well my problem is money. In the chain of society she along with her family hang high but when it comes to my family and I we don't hang so high if you know what I mean. But it makes me feel bad because times come when she wants to go out like the movies, mall and i don't have the money. Lots of chances I've had to be with her outside school but its the money.There have been chances when I could have had the money to go out but I feel terrible asking my parents because its not going to great with them either. I cant wait till I'm 16 and start working. I'm 15 and I work sometimes but most of the money I pitch in and help my parents pay their bills. What should I do? She says she loves me no matter wat for ever. ='(

2007-07-16 18:48:35 · 6 answers · asked by Mike C 2

2007-07-16 18:36:35 · 24 answers · asked by tay 1

I just asked a question about why my boyfriend isn't calling me so frequently and I think the guys were thinking I wanted a 35 minute conversation on love, life, and his thoughts on A Walk to Remember everytime we talked...that's definitely not our relationship at all. He'd just call me when he got home from work and say, "I'm home and I love you and I'm going to go hang out with my friends." I am so, so, so, okay with that. I want him to hang out with his friends as much as he wants. I'd say our average phone conversation is maybe 5 or 6 minutes long. (No sarcasm implied in this next question) Is that asking too much? Maybe I'm in "I'm a smotherer" denial.

2007-07-16 18:34:36 · 17 answers · asked by AlliwantISAfrica 2

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I asked the guy I kinda like if he was talking to the other girl who is a problem for me then why couldn't he talk to me. He said he was only looking at her, but added that he was also looking at me...which I kinda thought. I saw him looking at me and was super self conscious...I couldn't even look that direction because he was standing by her. Turns out he was waiting for something on the printer.


So did he tell me he was looking at me too just to minimize that he was near her...Or what...what do guys think during these looking at a girl moments? I felt like he was staring at me, but I couldn't "take it" thinking he was he possibly talking to HER...but he wasn't. Some how I think he may even be mad at her.


Would he be Looking at me the way Guys look at Girls or just the way Guys look at their feet?

2007-07-16 18:30:45 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, so I talk to my girlfriend every night on the phone. It's not uncommon. We'll talk until we have to sleep. Now, I've kept her up late the past few nights. I thought it'd be a good idea to let her go to bed "on time." Well, she won't go. She says that she wants to talk to me. I tell her we can talk tomorrow. We talked until like 3:30 a.m. last night. So, she say she wants to talk, but will go anyways because I think she should go to sleep.

I wait patiently to see what she does, and she doesn't do ANYTHING. It is really starting to frustrate me, because I tell her it's up to her what she does. She'll say "well, you think I should go to bed, so I'll go to bed." Then, she'll just wait on the phone, not saying anything. So, I'm like "so, were you wanting to talk then?" And she says, "No, I'm going to bed because you want me to."

I know that she's tired because she only murmurs and does that whole "Mmhm" thing. When I tell her to go to bed, she leaves mad. Not even a "good-bye."

2007-07-16 18:20:41 · 3 answers · asked by badoil_49 2

as of a couple hours ago, i found out, that my girlfriend of 3 years has cheated on me, for the second time now. we have broken up twice, and gotten back together in the last 3 years. she tells me that she loves me, and that she would do anything for me, she tells me that without me, that shes nothing...i dont know what to do, i mean this may seem really obvious to some others, but i really dont know what to do. i need some advice.

2007-07-16 18:12:02 · 10 answers · asked by >wonder whats next< 6

My boyfriend and I have been going out for about a year and a half. I'm 20 years old, he's my first boyfriend...he's been lots of firsts for me...anyways, up until about a month ago we talked like 3 or 4 times a day on the phone. Now he's not returning my calls and I only talk to him maybe once or twice a day. I told him it frustrates me and I want to talk to him more often and he apologized and told me he'd try harder but he's still doing it. I know for a fact he's not cheating on me but I can't figure out what's going on...any thoughts on why he's doing this?

2007-07-16 18:10:32 · 20 answers · asked by AlliwantISAfrica 2

Have you ever made the first move?
Guy (if you just had to look)...Do you mind when a girl makes the first move at times?

2007-07-16 17:51:25 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

His mustache smelled like womens hooch. He works a lot and is gone quite a bit, so I am not sure whether it was just me or him.
What would you say or do?

2007-07-16 17:46:57 · 7 answers · asked by happydawg 6

I met this guy 2 weeks ago and we went out, we had a great time, we talked about our kids andhow they come first and how busy we both were. We have talked everyday either online or text messaging on his lunch break or on the phone since and before our date until he went on vacation last friday. Since then I have talked to him on the phone once and I sent him a text message to see if he was havin fun on his vacation. He said he had been painting and cleaning and that he would either call me or message me but he hasnt for a couple of days now. Is he just busy and not have time to call or is he just being nice by saying he will but letting me know in a round about way that he doesnt want to talk to me? I really like this guy and I don't want to sound or be pushy but if he isnt into me like I am him I would like to know. Am I being to quick to assume he is pushing me away? I need help, I don't want to push him away but I dont want to wait around for someone that isnt interested in me.

2007-07-16 17:42:18 · 11 answers · asked by just me 2

Dated for many months and then i broke up with her. got back together and then a month later she dumped me. i realized how much i loved her and that she was the one. period. i dated someone because i was lonely. she came back and i dumped my gf and when i went to her she said only friends. then she said there was no other way for us to be together. she broke my heart twice in a month. I told her today that all that matters is her happiness to me and i would do anything including sacrificing my own. I asked her close friend if she thinks she'll ever come back she said no and she is liking someone else.... This girl loves me even though she won't say it(i can tell in her eyes). My question is do you think she will ever come back? Should i press forward and keep going after her even though she's getting annoyed? Finally how long should i wait for her? Please no move on crap. she's the one i want and i don't plan on moving on at all. Thank you for your help. I really appreciate it.

2007-07-16 17:42:15 · 8 answers · asked by J.S 3

If I were to have sex with my boyfriend, and got caught whats the charge for statutory rape? He's 18 and I'm 16.

2007-07-16 17:40:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-16 17:38:48 · 8 answers · asked by Hi There 1

penis size? Would you exaggerate? I overheard my Chilean lover telling her friend when she was a bit-tipsy saying "everything's big in America!" and I knew what she was talking about (she was louder than she had thought and was covering her mouth speaking into the girls ear and I looked over at her and she quickly took her eyes off me so as not to suggest that she was talking about me), but I didn't understand why she'd tell her friend something like that. Before this we had agreed that we were only lovers for my short stay. Any suggestions? Do girls like to impress their friends, like a guy would tell his friends that he had gotten laid the previous night with a chick with big breasts?

2007-07-16 17:34:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend and I had sex in the shower yesterday. Ever since yesterday, she told me she has had a constant sensation to Pee. She said when she's Standing up she gets the sensation to pee, and also when she's sitting down. When she goes to pee, she doesn't have much to pee at all ... just a little. And also, it burns.

We can rule out std's since we are both std free. We're each other's firsts. It could be an infection of some sort? My only guess would be ... we had sex in the shower, so I might have pushed some of the water inside of her, which is bad isn't it? Anyone familiar with this problem please let me know. Also I would really appreciate it if I could have a link to a website that talks about it. I would love to read about it so I could calm her and help her.

Also, we had really really really rough sex like never before. Sorry to sound too unprofessional but for lack of better words, I pounded her extremely hard yesterday. It was the first time.

2007-07-16 17:32:55 · 22 answers · asked by Johnny_Jurassic 1