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Singles & Dating - 17 July 2007

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I have a crush on this guy, and we are really good friends, im like his sister, he hugs me, he kisses me on my cheek, he puts his arm around me, and he's even looking at me right now.
Yesterday i was very depressed and i started crying. So he let me put my head on his lap and stroked my hair, then asked me wats wrong, so we talked for a while about some things that were keeping me depressed, and he started telling me about his own life and making it clear that he's gone through much more than i ever will. He kept telling me about those lessons and things he learnt, and then one of them was about a girl he loved and he wanted to stay with her until he finishes college so he can marry her, and then she turned out to be a whore or something, and he told me that:
"If you love someone, then you have to wait for the right time to say those three words, coz maybe that person doesnt love you back. I dont know what to do, i love this guy in a crazy way and its so hard for me right now.

2007-07-17 23:58:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

woman in the world,??? she is my life.
I only suggested that a little attention to her body odour would improve our relationship even further...

2007-07-17 23:57:03 · 24 answers · asked by Tiger01204 5

What gives him away?

2007-07-17 23:54:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hello. I'm 24 and my partner is 32. We live in seperate houses at the moment. I do not see him on Monday and Wednesday nights, and this is purely because he needs to do his own thing on these nights. I catch up with him every other night and he sleeps over. Is this strange? What I mean is, is it unusual that he does not want to spend time with me every night?

2007-07-17 23:51:24 · 18 answers · asked by Angel 4

Hello, i been rude to alot of girls in college...For Example when girls want to talk to me i just dont respond back and when they say hello i just walk off becuase of my shyness. they think that im not interested but i am. they tried they best to gt closer but i keep moving and i want to stop being rude.
I do really fancy them but i dont how to stand up front of them.

13 days ago 1 of them hold my hand and i put my hand bk and that was rude.

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2007-07-17 23:48:44 · 10 answers · asked by Yahoo 1

My brother and I (who is 15 and I'm 17) are passionately involved with eachother. I know this sounds disgusting and wrong, but he treats me better than any other guy has ... I need serious help, please take this seriously.

What should I do?

2007-07-17 23:46:39 · 35 answers · asked by Raquel 4

Ok im gonna try killing two birds with one stone!
First of me and boyfriend have been together 6 months (both 18) and i'm thinking of having sex with him. He's never pressured or even asked me for sex but we both love each and it's what i want to do (i'm a virgin but he's been with slept with a couple of girls!).

1) How should I go about asking him to have these tests done for me (i’ll have them done too), how would you word it without him taking offence or anything? I’ve just gone on the pill and don’t really like the idea of using condoms (although still probably will use them)!

2) What’s it like to get these tests done because I’m scared of needles!! Can you get the HIV test done by a mouth swab or anything?
-Do i still neeed to get STD test even thought i'm virgin?

Thanks for your input, guess i'm just bit nervous bout asking!

2007-07-17 23:44:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been datin this girl for the past 2 years.......we were goin on fine until some ugly problems started showin up.........the biggest one is-
my girlfriend's parents are not in favour of this relationship as they think that i'm a good for nothin punk........her dad was one of the meanest gangsters of the street once upon a time and has asked me to leave her daughter several times(if not threatened).but we both love each other so much that we cant think bout living life without this b'ful relationship......i've thought about talking over this matter with her dad as i dont see any future if he's not in favour of this relationship.but at the same time im damn scared to approach him.........please can somebody help me out of this mess?????And plz dont tell me to leave her and move on as i cant do that.........wat should i do???

2007-07-17 23:39:00 · 11 answers · asked by worried 2

i cant stop crying :-(

2007-07-17 23:31:18 · 20 answers · asked by neaka 2

I know two different couples who were going to get married, and both times some other woman (a friend of the future bride), interfered, hit on the man and succeeded. They were like a month or two before the wedding.
I then asked around, and noted that any time some other woman hit on the man, he abandons the one he is with. I never saw/heard about a man who withstood. Why?

2007-07-17 23:31:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

So you have managed to go all the way with the hot girl or guy you met last Saturday night. What did you say to them for them to loose their inhibitions? How was the mood the next morning when they realized they had been tricked? Did the trick turn into a long term relationship or did you never speak again?

2007-07-17 23:28:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

like, there's absolutely nothing between you and him anymore. You both broke up mutually and amicably simply because the relationship had no potential or basis. But for some reason, you still want them around even if there is like no emotional connection left? It sucks! I miss the guy....

2007-07-17 23:26:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Every since I started dating my Girl Friend I have this instinct that she is seeing someone esle, But I feel that my instincts could be off, She always tells me that she talks alot about me to her friends and feels that we have an amazing relationship, However, When I visit her she seems to change the bed sheets all the time (at least about 4 times a week) and today for instance I phoned her and she was at home, we where having a good conversation until the gate bell went off, she said that its just one of the guys that live there and must have for gotten his keys, But straight after this, she became very abrupt with me as if she really wanted to stop the convo and she hastily put the phone down... Im not sure what to think, we have been dating for 2 and a half months and im not ready to carry on if she is. And if she is how do I approch her to find out the truth without upsetting her ? any Ideas are welcome

Cheers

2007-07-17 23:26:03 · 24 answers · asked by Crummpy 1

i was going out with him for about 3 months.
i told him he was the boy. he can call me.
because at first i always called.a few days whent by. no call.it was about 5 days.he forgot about THREE dates with me.so i was talking to his sister and she said the days he didnt call he was playing video games even though after a talked to him he said he was busy. didnt have a minute.
i said what a load of crap.so one day he got mad because i called and said im not talking to you. im mad at you let me talk to your sis. he hung up and blocked my number.like a day later he called back n was like why do you care about my sis more then me? i said shes my besty. he said, so?
i said well i dont. i love you. and he got mad and said w/e n hung up.
i gave him a chance and bout i week later i realised how much of a *** he was and told him i didnt have feelings for him any more and dumped him.so he said well im gana go hang my self.
i was like wtf?well he was fine bout 10 mins later he had a new gf.

2007-07-17 23:25:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

my best friend and i have casual sex. we both date around, but simply enjoy each other's company because we are really close. it's not this huge LOVE deal, but i'd be lying if i said i had NO feelings for him. i thought it was mutual. he's a great friend, mostly to me. he waits for me to finish doctor appts when my car's broken, calls to see how i'm doing, lots of little things. in public, though we show NO pda, people automatically assume we're either dating or brother/sister. when people ask, he never says anything; i answer for him with a "no, we're just friends."

recently, he made a statement that he didn't like some girl he just went on a date with. then he said, he didn't like anyone. and for some reason, that affected me more than i thought it would. and though he treats me the same, when we were in bed later, i was not able to get aroused. he could be testing me. idk. he doesnt act the same with anyone else.do i like him? anyone been in this situation before? whats goin on?

2007-07-17 23:20:12 · 8 answers · asked by linyaeoga 1

someone please help.....i will never forget about him.

2007-07-17 23:14:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-17 23:13:38 · 17 answers · asked by Tina 1

I have fallen in my with my boyfriend,( i'm 20 he is 23 ) and i've wanted to tell him but haven't because i am afraid to scare him off or that he doest feel the same... anyways the other night he sent me a text when he got home from my house to let me know he was home safe... and he says i'm home safe, thank you so much for being with me tonight! i am a truely lucky guy, i'm blessed to have you, YOU are amazing.

would this have been a good time to bring up how i feel? i mean i definately dont want 2 do it over a text messagei want 2 do it in person or are there questions i can ask him 2 kind of get around it 2 see if he feels that strongly about me also? he's a shy guy, very very respectful just an all around amazing guy, and ive fallen hard we have been "seeing" each other since march.....officially been together since beginning of may. i know not very long at all, this is why i'm scared I know that it is love and not lust. He is coming by tonight and i want 2 discuss it, help!! :)

2007-07-17 23:12:33 · 14 answers · asked by AAAAA 1

Is it an emotional thing or the sex itself? I always wanted to know this. Im glad there's a thing like this where woman like to share.

2007-07-17 23:09:01 · 18 answers · asked by Dan 3

( My sis question) Her boyfriend is always mentioning her breaking up with him or always wanting her to break up with him but when she says that she is going to he begs her not to. What does this mean?....Is he just insecure or does he really want to break up with her??? SHE NEEDS TO KNOW!!!

2007-07-17 23:04:02 · 13 answers · asked by Mandy 3

we have been together for 6 years,and still going strong.but when he gets frustrated or does not understand something he gets annoyed,angry and lashes out.he does not get angry with me just other things but i seem to be in the way.i have had some very attractive bruises on my arms and face.
a week ago he got annoyed cause this stupid barman would not serve him.and so a blackish grey area on my arm is abit sore but itches aswell but it does hurt when i scratch it.
nah i dont have plans on leaving him.i think a good dose of anger management will help.the trouble is how to convince him.

it does not really hurt that much,only when i touch them without thinking.we get on great either way.

2007-07-17 23:03:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-17 22:38:45 · 9 answers · asked by moonstone 1

So I met this girl on MySpace, recently. From her picture she looked cute but not like one of those models where it just seems to good to be true.
We began exchanging emails when she informed me that she is in South Africa right now.
Her command of the English language is at best flawed (though at times it's very hard to understand her). (I should mention that she is Hispanic, (not sure from where exactly yet)).
My big worry is that in a week or so she's going to ask me for money or something to help her get back to the states. Am I being too negative here or has anyone heard of this scam before.

2007-07-17 22:38:31 · 18 answers · asked by The Brian 4

I am 18, and just graduated. So I started talking to one of my freinds exes at a grad party and she wanted my number and put hers into my phone. She started texting me ALL THE TIME! Telling me how cute I am and her whole life story. She would text me from 9 am to 11 pm. This went on for wo weeks straight and I would go over her house and we would hang out. I finally decided to ask her out and she said ya it should be fun. Later on he texted me and said that dating might not be a good idea because I am freinds with her ex. So we decided to not date, or at least not now. Couple days later I went to a party with her and the party was lame. I asked if she would take me to this girl elainas house since she drove and she did. She didnt stay cause she worked in the morning and I stayed the night cause I was drinking. Since that night, it has been 2 weeks she has not alked to me. I aked if she was mad and she said no she is busy. It has been a couple weeks now, no talking, what did I do?

2007-07-17 22:37:05 · 4 answers · asked by HELPERDUDE 2

ok i dont need rude answers! so if your gonna say something mean dont bother answering ok!
so ive been cheating on my bf and the guy im seeing is cheating on his gf.
we havent had sex yet but have done everything else. what im asking is why he wont kiss me. he says he cant and he never will be able to. im not looking to be in a relationship with him but i do like him and i really want to kiss him. he kissed me on the cheek and thats it. is it he doesnt want to get emotionally involved or he just doesnt like kissing? im just confused cuz i mean this was all his idea and i know i agreed but i want to feel like were in this together were just fuc*ing around and thats it so whats the big deal he knows we cant be together ever! so is he afraid of getting attatched to me? or whats his deal?!? im 24 hes 25 (and no my breath doesnt stink for all of you that want to comment on that!)

2007-07-17 22:31:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi I have not plan some goals @ all yet. Time it is really fast. But, as for right now, I do not want a new girlfriend or buy a new car yet. Any advice guys or ladies? Thank you! :)

2007-07-17 22:30:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently I have realized I have started growing remantic feelings towards one of my best friends whom I look up to as a brother. I've know him for about two years and hes around two or three years older than me. (Im 16 he's almost 19) We're really close even though he lives on the other coast. We've met up at anime conventions numerous times it's just that he has a girlfriend (who hes never met in person -eye roll-) and he's "very much" in love with her but, I find myself always wanting to talk to him or be with him . This is so stupid DX he prob. only looks to me as a sister because, well im rather childish for 16 and soomewhat of a tomboy but, he has called me cute ...so yeah im confused @_____@

2007-07-17 22:29:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

THNAK YOU!!

ok my crush send me a text saying he loved me
and i said i lovd him too :)
and THEN he said He loved me more =]]


WHAT SHOULD I SAY??

I LOVE HIM MORE TOO??

HELP ME !!!

2007-07-17 22:26:02 · 21 answers · asked by Mayra 2

like if ur bf is hanging out with another girl and u get REALLY jealous and flip out on him,like yell at him and stuff. how do u deal with that and make it stop?

2007-07-17 22:18:19 · 11 answers · asked by 1

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