I've been datin this girl for the past 2 years.......we were goin on fine until some ugly problems started showin up.........the biggest one is-
my girlfriend's parents are not in favour of this relationship as they think that i'm a good for nothin punk........her dad was one of the meanest gangsters of the street once upon a time and has asked me to leave her daughter several times(if not threatened).but we both love each other so much that we cant think bout living life without this b'ful relationship......i've thought about talking over this matter with her dad as i dont see any future if he's not in favour of this relationship.but at the same time im damn scared to approach him.........please can somebody help me out of this mess?????And plz dont tell me to leave her and move on as i cant do that.........wat should i do???
2007-07-17 23:39:00 · 11 answers · asked by worried 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Her daddy doesn´t agree? So, bad luck for the poor daddy.
If you are both full of age, just go away and leave her daddy alone. - He soon will realise, that you won´t change your plans and he will get weak and finally accept your relationship.
Even the worst fathers are like this...
(Own experience)
If you are (or just she) not full of age yet, just wait a little while and put on a "joker face" - time is on your side, dude...
No, it won´t help to sit with her daddy and talk, as he won´t take it serious.
Sometimes there is no space for intelligent talks - if you both want to be together and go on with your relation ship, you must act like 2 adults.
2007-07-18 00:04:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anita P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a steady job? are you well settled and finacially sound? Make a mark in life and concentrate on your career--the past two years you must have done something.
With some strong basis for argument you can approach the father. Otherwise you cannot convince him about your suitability for the girl. Make some solid effort based on your skill . God will help you. All the best!
2007-07-18 02:02:04 · answer #2 · answered by artqueen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate when parents dont approve of a relationship. My cousin got dumped recently after a 2 year relationship b/c her boyfriends mom didnt want him in a serious relatonship with a girl outside his culture. Thats just retarded. Although you gotta respect what the parents say, you cant let it make or break your relationship. You gotta sit down and talk to this guy man to man and tell him how you feel. Try taking her out with her parents to a nice restuarant and show them you really care about this girl. Good luck.
2007-07-17 23:44:03 · answer #3 · answered by Tom Antar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fall in love. real love, I do not care, I have gone through this. It was no love, no affair, no scandal, some made a joke I took it seriously and I was ready for what ever was asked for. I am a brahmin, became muslim to marry a muslim in a muslim contry. I went through worst trouble of my life. 30 years I remain in muslim world I have seen their temparment. It is tough even at 58 I had to get insult, abuse and bad treatment from some of the close muslim friends when they come to know I returned to Hindu. Being a muslim I did not get any favour or any benefits on the other hand thrown out from my wife's contry.Jobs were rejected. And in India some journalist left in middle of our interview when they heard we both became Hindu. because these people were interested in some Mirch-Masala to sell the news. I will tell you It is a destiny, my advice go to NADI Pariksha they will give you clear picture of your life, that will give you some guidance for you and your loving friend. I believe true Muslim true Chritian is Hindu .... It is only Hindu has this concepts not any other faith in the world. Others consider they are sent by god and they are the only one have rights to believe in god. I met many scholars and they say same things. They do not believe Hindu also are the children of same god.
2016-05-21 16:28:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She loves u and u love her. then where does her dad come in from ya? IF she really loves u ne, then she will run away with you. And if she doesn't agree and then She wants to spend her life with her dad rather than with you. And if still want to impress her dad n then get married to her, well then u and ur love plan situations where ur can can see how u really are a good boy. but dont let her dad know u both have planned it or he will kill u. And first of impress her mother, and once her mom is sure abt u... 50% of ur work is done. She will help u along.
2007-07-17 23:54:51 · answer #5 · answered by goddess_of_fame 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have not tols what exactly you do. If you are earning a living and can sustain & support the girl in a resonably good manner, you should talk to her father and convince him that you could take better care of her. You may involve a third person - wise & influential.
If things do not work positively, who stops you to legally marry a consenting major girl!
Good Luck!
2007-07-18 03:06:18 · answer #6 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should show him and prove to him that your not a good for nuthin punk. If you do decide to approach him make sure she is there as well to back you up. I wish you two the best of luck.
2007-07-17 23:42:18 · answer #7 · answered by Chantel C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
soI suggest going with your instinct...talk to the father. I know it can be scary, but it will show him respect and also show him that you care for his daughter. Politely ask him if he has a few minutes to speak with you. Most importantly, BE RESPECTFUL!
What's the worse that could happen? He could say no. Nothing lost, nothing gained.
Good luck
2007-07-17 23:50:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
!!!! IM SORRY BRO!!!
to this day im still looking for the answer....cuz i had to break up with this beautiful puerto rican cuz she said her dad didnt like the fact i was dating her (Im not sure if its girl bs or what but it sounded like she was honest)
i didnt want to hear the move on answer either....but if shes not going to stick with you because of her parents then u gotta find someone else !
2007-07-17 23:43:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the Dad nicely. Maybe he would understand after hearing you.
2007-07-17 23:42:44 · answer #10 · answered by seahawks9843 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋