2007-07-17 23:13:38 · 17 answers · asked by Tina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As long as he is clean and STD free - it's pretty much none of your beeswax unless he wants to share with you.
2007-07-17 23:16:14 · answer #1 · answered by so Fresh 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why in the world do you want to find out anyway?
lets say that he is still a virgin and he tells you that he didnt do have sex in the past... would you trust him?
secondly... lets say if he is not a virgin anymore... and he tells you ALL his past secual activities... would your attitude towards him still remain the same?
doing this will only do him and yourself harm...
there is no way you can know about his past sexual activities with a 100% gurranteed reliability... so why guess?
2007-07-18 06:23:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anselmor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I find it best not to discuss an issue like that until you are truly in love with someone. The fact is as long as they are diseases free and you love them, the past is the past. It sometime hurts to hear what happened in the past with the one you are with. That is why you should truly be in love with them to the point you almost don't care.
2007-07-18 06:19:49 · answer #3 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its a relationship you believe in, and want to go the distance ... dont ask, and more important DONT WORRY !
Everyone has skeletons in the closet, - if you believe you both have genuine feelings for each other, then be happy to wipe the slate clean, start from scratch.
He will tell you in time, - if he feels its relevant.
2007-07-18 06:19:08 · answer #4 · answered by TPE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The past is the past.
I never discuss it at all with anyone ever no matter what.
It's totally between he and them.
Best Wishes
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2007-07-18 06:21:22 · answer #5 · answered by Fade To Black 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not really any of your business as long as he is disease free. Why would you want to know details like that anyway. He'll tell you what he wants you to know but you may not want to hear any of it once he gets going!
2007-07-18 06:18:07 · answer #6 · answered by Ring-a-ding-ding 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
His and your past are just that---PAST. It is none of your business or his business what went on in the past, unless it was a marriage, divorce, children or he has a criminal record.
2007-07-18 06:17:43 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to know? It'd just make me picture it and that's not a nice thing to imagine at certain times.
But ok. If you trust him, you can only know what he tells you. Same as he can only know about yours by what you tell him.
2007-07-18 06:17:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. If you don't feel he's telling you everything, then ask him specific questions. If you don't feel that he's being honest, and you don't feel that you can trust him, then why would you want to be with him?
2007-07-18 06:17:58 · answer #9 · answered by Melissa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all within of what he tells u but if he really loves and would do anything for eventually it will come out but u cant pressure him he has to come out and say for himself
2007-07-18 06:16:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋